Dear Davey, Straight homophobes have a long list of degrading names for gays. But do we have any derogatory names for them? I think it’s unfair that we always have to be the nice community… I think we need to … Continue reading
Category Archives: gay
NO SUCH THING AS STUPID-GAY!
While I like to think that I’m a nice guy, I do have my fair share of pet peeves. Even beyond dripping faucets and loud gum chewing, the term “that’s gay” takes the pet peeve cake – especially when people … Continue reading
Video: Davey Wavey’s Daddy Date!
I love guys. Period. I like younger guys. But I also like older guys. There’s enough room in my heart for everyone. But strange as it may be, I’ve never gone on a date with someone significantly older. So, to … Continue reading
What Are Your Best Coming Out Do’s And Don’ts?
YouTube is about more than dogs on skateboards, pimple popping (don’t click that link) and girls falling off tables. When it comes to being gay, YouTube can also be a really powerful medium for passing down our collective knowledge. And … Continue reading
“Don’t Act on Your Feelings.”
This morning, I received an email from a blog buddy that claims to have a good relationship with his parents. The parents are very religious and know that their son is gay, but they don’t want him to act on … Continue reading
Being Gay Isn’t a Choice – Embracing It Is.
When it comes to nature vs. nurture, there’s an ongoing debate about what shapes human sexuality. Is it genetics? Is it the environment in which you’re raised? Is it a combination of both – or perhaps different for every individual? … Continue reading
The Westboro Baptist Church: Actually Helping the Gay Rights Movement?
When you think of advocates for equality, the famously hateful Westboro Baptist Church isn’t the first organization that comes to mind. Through a blog buddy email, I wasn’t surprised to learn that the church will be protesting this year’s Superbowl. … Continue reading
Why Gay Jokes Aren’t Funny.
I’m the first person not to take life too seriously. A little humor – and the occasional penis joke – can go a long way. But not everything is funny – especially gay jokes. When you laugh at someone’s sexual … Continue reading
Second Class Citizens.
When a friend linked me to the following YouTube video a few days ago, it had a few thousand views. Today, it has more than 2 million. The clip is a trailer for a film to be created by Ryan … Continue reading
How Wearing a Dress Made Me Question Everything.
For this Thursday’s talky blog, Haley Star gives me a fantastic drag makeover complete with makeup, wigs and fake eyelashes. It was quite the transformation – and, when all was said and done, I had two takeaways from the ordeal: … Continue reading










