Sometimes, I feel like I’m living in a parallel universe. Yesterday was one of those days. I recorded this video rant because I think the gay community needs to be called out. Watch it. And let me know if you … Continue reading
Category Archives: gay
Straight Guys Need Butt Lovin’, Too.
When I think about the innumerable straight men out there that will never know the pleasures of putting something up their bum, it makes me want to cry. They’re missing out on one of the most amazing and intense experiences … Continue reading
Can Meaningful Relationships Result from Grindr?
This morning, I discovered a very impassioned email in my inbox: From detailed observation, it’s become apparent that most men are after sexual intercourse exclusively without any intention of emotional support for the innocent men they exploit. It’s unfortunately unusual … Continue reading
You’re Gay. So What?
I started my morning with a perusal of Grindr. I know, so much for the so-called “No Grindr Challenge.” Old habits die hard. At any rate, I chatted with a young man who explained that he’s in the closet. Fair … Continue reading
Video: I’m NOT Your Gay Best Friend.
I’ll admit it: I’ve definitely used the term “gay best friend” on more than one occasion. It’s cute, fun and silly – but it can also make gay people sound like the hottest new accessory or designer handbag. I don’t … Continue reading
Responding to The “f*g” Comment.
There’s a silver lining in every cloud – even clouds that come in the form of someone calling you a f*g. Yesterday, I posted a YouTube video asking for your participation an upcoming project to dispel myths about gay people. … Continue reading
Help Break Gay Myths!
I’m back from Thailand but we’re hitting the ground running. I want to make a video that dispels gay myths – like that we all work in hair salons or all live in San Francisco. But to pull it off, … Continue reading
Should We Sponsor an LGBT Refugee?
Living in the United States, I’m well aware of the many challenges LGBT people face. From workplace discrimination to marriage inequality to adoption, there’s no shortage of obstacles. But it’s easy to forget that things are much, much worse in … Continue reading
The 3 Day NO Grindr Challenge.
Leland is a doll. You probably remember him from my big gay vs. little gay video last fall. In any event, he wanted to do a talky blog to issue you a challenge: Give up Grindr (the gay dating app) … Continue reading
Watch this Video: Dad Gets “Born This Way” Tattoo.
This morning, I came across the following video in my inbox – and I knew that I had to share it with you. Last year, Dylan came out to his family as bisexual. His sister wrote that “it was one … Continue reading