“FEAR is an acronym in the English language for “False Evidence Appearing Real”
- Neale Donald Walsch

Today is my birthday. And before I drown myself in a sugar-induced coma of butter cream goodness, I’m making myself a promise: Year 27 will be different.
During my 26 years of practice in human form, I’ve lived a very cautioned life. I’ve always been afraid to keep my kite on anything but a very short string. But I think it’s time to soar.
So, I’m promising myself to do 3 things in my 27th year that take me outside my comfort zone:
- Go to Asia. Whoa. Seriously? Seriously.
- Dive head first into being my own boss. Not a choice: My real job is going to end in the near future. Is a choice: To see this transition as an opportunity and to embrace it fully and completely. I will leave no room for fear.
- ?
Okay, I only have two things so far. But my heart tells me that I’m missing something big.
So, please – help a birthday boy out. What should my third promise be for a more adventurous, less fearful and more fulfilling 27the year? Leave your answer in the comments below!

July 13, 2010 at 5:05 pm
Happy Birthday!! Just go with the flow for #3 you have two good ones so take it easy you have years ahead of you!
July 13, 2010 at 5:43 pm
Happy B-Day Davey-Asia?dont know too much about the area-but caution to Singapore travel.surely North Korea is not in your plans either.
July 13, 2010 at 5:45 pm
First of all, Happy Birthday (although it’s not today, sorry).
Second, in my humble opinion, you should not listen to those who say that you should marry your boyfriend or adopt a child or other things that require deep analysis and evaluation of situations (I made a rhyme?). Put your mind in doing something that is for you and your personal growth, if you help and cultivate yourself, you’ll eventually help people by being an improved version of you.
Whatever you do or whichever option you pick to do, make it something that will need you to keep it doing over the years, like learning a new language, the more languages you know, the more people you will understand and the less you won’t, and you can easily learn it in 1 year or less, or try learning how to play a musical instrument, piano’s always a great option, and you can improve your playing over the years.
Also you could make a bucket list with 12 things and try to do one thing each month, so in your next birthday you can do another list, and so on, and so on…
Wish you the best!
July 13, 2010 at 6:08 pm
Hope the day went well DW. As to travel, I will be in Bali Aug 9-15. Feel free to drop in while contemplating your next move.
July 13, 2010 at 8:31 pm
Number 3 in your list above ought to be: “STAY ALIVE AND HEALTHY”
July 13, 2010 at 9:18 pm
Get Married – or at least Engaged.
July 13, 2010 at 9:35 pm
Happy birthday, handsome Davy.
Greg
July 13, 2010 at 10:26 pm
Happy Birthday Davy. Hope it is a blast. And you look luscious with your tongue on that cream cake! What a great photo.
July 13, 2010 at 10:37 pm
Stop being so egocentrically loving and demonstrate that you really do appreciate the nonmaterial world as being more valuable than asses and c***s and your shirtless body. But then again you use sexual innuendo as bait to attract 90% of your viewers. I guess hypocracy does pay off after all.
July 13, 2010 at 10:52 pm
Davey I have been reading a long time and I have to say this.
Immigrate to Canada. Marry your hunny and adopt a child. You are now 27, the years only speed up after this. Don’t put parenthood off any longer or you will end up regretting it.
July 13, 2010 at 10:57 pm
Happy Birthday!
# 3 – move in together with the bf! Get married, and move to TO
July 13, 2010 at 11:36 pm
Wow! Congrats — Wish you many more to come.
But if you are now 27… that means you have already had 27 years… and you are now going into your 28th year! OMG! That is too scary to contemplate!
July 14, 2010 at 10:02 am
happy birthday davey :_)
July 14, 2010 at 3:03 pm
Go to Asia why come to the uk that’s all a wanted to say lol
Jackxx
July 14, 2010 at 5:07 pm
3: Found a great boyfriend, to spend your life with !
July 15, 2010 at 7:51 am
Happy Birthday Davey!!!!!
lots of luv from Australia
xxxooxxx
July 15, 2010 at 8:39 am
Davy late happy birthday 27th David
July 15, 2010 at 10:07 pm
i think you should work to keep your enlightenment. Not saying it as a nasty comment with tongue flicking lol i just mean… you have to work hard to keep your eye sparkling. The cities are filled with millions of people that have stopped evolving.
sDsZ
July 16, 2010 at 7:15 pm
You’re more than welcome to visit the Philippines … and then go to Kota Kinabalu and then Thailand and then Japan! You’ll love it there.
New age means new life. Good luck to you.
July 21, 2010 at 5:49 pm
3. DESTROY my “bucket list” and PURSUE it EVERYDAY– Don’t set goals for things you want to do… live it now. You shouldn’t feel pressured into completeing a list– LIVE your list.
But I love your intentions to make a change in your life. You can’t help change other people’s lives unless you change yourself for the better. All the power to you. Can’t wait to hear how your trip is to Asia and Happy Birthday most of all!
July 21, 2010 at 5:55 pm
tie the knot!
August 9, 2010 at 12:24 am
Davey,
A bit late but here’s my suggestion for #3
Resolve 3 issues or doubts in your life.
Start a new year with less baggage.
August 29, 2010 at 9:17 am
lol happy belated birthday.
why not date a guy from Asia be ur #3? =P
August 28, 2011 at 5:16 am
U should show ur body in a pic everything we want more fun and sexual or some want less we want naughty or loving stories but u already have alot that I and others adore luv u <3