They may be all natural, but my tits are anything but real.
Living in Australia, land of the muscle men, it’s really easy to get caught up in all things physical. My gym, for example, looks like an audition for the next Falcon Studios porno flick.
On Sunday, I’m getting photographed for and editorial in one of Australia’s “f*g mags”. I’ll be in some state of undress, and I can see how easy it might be to become identified with this bag of bones, flesh and muscle that my spirit temporarily occupies. But I am not my body.
Many years ago, Deepak Chopra taught me (through his novel, Book of Secrets – if my memory serves me) that nothing real dies. If it dies, it’s not real. Our bodies certainly die; therefore, they are not real.
Just because our bodies (and all things physical) aren’t “real”, it doesn’t follow that we should neglect them. Real or not, our bodies are the vehicle through which we experience the world and learn about the things that ARE real. Like love. So, it’s important to keep these vehicles well oiled and functional (this is why I’m such a fitness enthusiast).
Just because our bodies are illusions, it doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy them; I plan on celebrating my body every step of the way. And thankfully, it doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy the bodies of others.
We can appreciate the physical world for all that is is – and all that it isn’t.
January 22, 2010 at 12:45 am
I concur.
January 22, 2010 at 12:55 am
nothing dies it changes what u say
January 25, 2010 at 3:32 pm
I don’t believe in that quote: “nothing real dies”.
Our body does not die. It only changes form and returns to the earth to become something new. I believe that what we consider “soul” is a consequence of our body’s existance, and therefor, when our body goes back to the earth, that all of us does, to change and become something new.
Just a different perspective to ponder.
January 22, 2010 at 1:09 am
Well said! And the way we see something does change with how we feel. How we feel about our selves, if we are sick or healthy, how we view another, if we are happy or sad.
There have been days with completely opposite self image thoughts. I looked in the mirror and thought I looked absolutely amazing, for maybe the first time. An maybe an hour later, I was in a different mood, very sad and depressed. When I looked at myself I looked horrible. It was strange. Thus all truly is an illusion! Our bodies constantly change due to quantum physics. And the way we perceive them is subjective to how we feel and how we think.
January 22, 2010 at 1:11 am
Death is real as is birth and change.
January 22, 2010 at 2:26 am
*** Random Question ***
Does anyone know what happened to Davey Wavey’s hotline for leaving voice messages? (It’s 1-401-441-6663)
It says it’s not a working number or something like that… It used to work fine??? =P
January 22, 2010 at 5:11 am
Our bodies flesh made die but our spirit lives forever. Your words are eloquent as always, Davey.
January 22, 2010 at 6:33 am
You must be an old recycled soul`who is back to clear the air, Davey. I appreciate your healthy attitude towards sex, relationships, & religion. Now that I found your site, I plan to read it as an everyday “pep pill.”
Enjoy your photo shoot (A young Gary Cooper once said the secret to photogeneity is allowing yourself to be photographed from any angle & remain confident.) Have fun!
January 22, 2010 at 6:39 am
You must be an old recycled soul, Davey, who has come back to clear the air. I appreciate your healthy attitude towards sex, relationships, and religion. Now that I found your site, I plan to read it as an everyday “pep pill.”
Enjoy your upcoming photo shoot. A young Gary Cooper once said that the key to photogeneity is allowing yoursel to be photographed from any angle & remain confident. Have fun!
January 22, 2010 at 7:33 am
Mmm nicely put Davey wavey but you’re forgetting something really important…. Following the law of conservation of mass and energy, our bodies don’t properly die but transform into something else. You can bury a dead body, and watch a much greener patch of grass grow on top of it. Or plant a tree with a dead body. Sounds weird and inhumane I know but that’s what I want done with my body when I die.. I want a tree planted with me, no coffin or anything at all.
January 28, 2010 at 12:48 am
I want to be cremated and my ashes unceremoniously dumped off the Huntigton Beach pier from the cardboard box they give you when your too cheap to buy an urn. This is How Matt Gunther the porn star went AKA Coco when in drag (pretty convincing actually I was sworn to secrecy about it , now you know.
January 22, 2010 at 7:42 am
Please post your photoshoot here so we all can enjoy the pictures.
January 22, 2010 at 8:50 am
Morning,
Glad you are enjoying Sydney. I lived there for a while in 1997 and still miss it!
Here is my favorite quote (actually got it tattoed on my leg)
“Enjoy your body, use it everyway you can. Don’t be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, its the greatest instrument you will ever own!”
Aurevoir
J
January 28, 2010 at 12:53 am
I’d rather see your beautiful leg not cobbed up by a bunch of tatooed words.
January 22, 2010 at 8:52 am
well said-DW.are you doing a photoshoot with DNA Mag?
January 22, 2010 at 8:57 am
Yes, TJ, i too have gotten the out-of-service announcement, when i attempted 2 call. idk what’s-up with-that. – - – davvi ps: fluffybri, you’re “spot-on” with ur post and i luv-it. And Davey, thank-you, as-well. And congratulations on ur upcoming “pictorial/editorial” magazine-spread
’ as i can hardly wait 4All-of-us to see it!
January 23, 2010 at 1:20 am
Thanks Davvi!!!!! Fluffybri is smiling now.
January 22, 2010 at 9:05 am
I love you Davey, and that is real!
joey
January 22, 2010 at 10:09 am
I’ve come back to my hometown and I thought that I was stronger. People watch you when you walk on the streets, I don’t like it. It costs 70 dollars per bottle of alcohol. I’ve lived in a larger community and now it’s hard to relate to ‘natives’ here. I thought I was stronger. it’s hard to be myself here. people get mad easily. I’m trying to connect with people.I’ve told myself that it makes me stronger and now I know there Are no limits to what makes people happy. Thanks for setting the tone,
Brucep
January 22, 2010 at 10:40 am
Post a link to the article when you get a chance to – I’d like to see you photographed by someone else who want’s to make your unreal body really lovable to everyone who can’t be you.
Cheers~
January 22, 2010 at 11:30 am
D’accord!
I never thought I’d say this, but at a ripe old age, you, Davey Wavey are inciting an interest in working on my bod!!
In the meantime, I too want to see the upcoming article!!
Do enjoy your final days in Sidney! I’ve lost track of your re-arrival in NE. But Monday would be a good day for it. It has been between 10-20 F at night recently. But on Monday we are supposed to get 55 F in Boston.
Have safe flights!
January 22, 2010 at 12:33 pm
Change your ticket! Stay! Winter is still here and only likely to get worse before it gets better, in spite of next week’s warm spell. At the very least hit New Zealand, Tahiti and Hawaii on your way home. Then stop off in L.A. or S.F. for a while. No need to rush home. It will still be there.
If you can’t prolong summer down under, have a great flight. Smile nicely, bat those eyes and at least get bumped up to biz or 1st!
January 22, 2010 at 12:35 pm
….maybe someone from Qantas, Air New Zealand or United is a fan and reads your blog! ( hint hint airlines)
January 22, 2010 at 3:36 pm
If he visits New Zealand he’d better bring a rain coat and some boots. We are having our summer storms at the moment.
January 22, 2010 at 9:44 pm
I like this post and your fake tits….just sayin’
January 22, 2010 at 11:31 pm
Your body is not ‘real’? Sorry, no sale. Deepak Chopra is full of it.
January 23, 2010 at 12:45 am
have fun at your photoshoot!
January 23, 2010 at 12:54 am
I think our bodies are beautiful “Real Or Fake”. alittle filler or tweaking is fine if thats what you like and it makes you feel good about “You”.Just Love you for you no matter what size or shape, Now i’m a fit 39 yrs. young lady, I have real Boobies
they’re not huge but “ok” in size, i like em”. i look in the mirror and say,”Cute boobies Alissa 
don’t worry what others say, just love yourself and take care of the body that you have “Real or fake”. i look way younger than i am because i take care of mine.so treat yours nice & take care of yours too.. sorry for babbling..:) I Love this Site…
January 23, 2010 at 12:57 am
Davey Wavey, your tits are awesome..Any guy would be Lucky to nibble on them or touch em”.. your awesome…
January 23, 2010 at 2:39 am
I’m a big fan of spirituality myself, and I used to look down on working on the body because I was too busy looking ONLY at the spirit, and not the vehicle that it inhabits. You gotta take care of that too! So now I take care of this vehicle, and I grew to understand something. “It’s not so much WHAT you do, as much as why you’re doing it.”
Am I working out because I don’t want people to make fun of my thin body or I think if I don’t have muscles, I’m worthless and no one would want me? OR, do I work out because this is the vehicle I use to express in this plane, and I love it and don’t want it to fall prey to sickness and disease, so I take care of it? Intention is what makes all the difference between a happy fit person and a miserable fit person!
January 23, 2010 at 9:55 am
“Nothing real dies’? What a load of poopie. One has to consider the source good ol’ Deepkrap Chokesu.
January 23, 2010 at 9:55 am
“Nothing real dies’? What a load of poopie. One has to consider the source, good ol’ Deepkrap Chokesu.
January 23, 2010 at 3:04 pm
bla bla bla…such a p***y!
January 23, 2010 at 5:46 pm
I believe love as just as real as a blade of grass or our own bodies. I do not understand Deepaks rationale here. We are not illusions, the only illusions are those that we create within our mind. I also believe our bodies don’t ‘die’ as such, but transform. While we may move on from our current bodies our bodies nourish the earth and create more life. Just like a blade of grass decomposes. To me that is not dying but a transformation.
January 25, 2010 at 7:27 am
I knew old Herbert had been reincarnated …… he’s now you…..
January 26, 2010 at 2:31 pm
Your tits are very real, believe me!
January 28, 2010 at 1:07 am
Yeah, I’ll tell that to the Newport Beach bitches that are making “Silicon valley’ in Orange County.
May 9, 2010 at 10:43 am
what so ever you are taught about the body is reality, here i want to say that everlasting is soul and body and soul have deep relation.Good mental health always promotes one towards good deeds that enriches the soul.
May 10, 2010 at 1:07 am
Nothing is real in this worlds including our bodies but real are the values that these bodies display named as character.It does not mean, we should not care our physical fitness,our physical fitness is might and main to build our character.
May 31, 2010 at 1:43 pm
Every one knows the reality about the physical looks.This life is with these looks but to establish moral aspect its temporary nature should always be in mind