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August 31, 2010
by Davey Wavey
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One Plus One Equals Three.

Did you know that 1+1 does not always equal 2? In fact, at 34,000 feet while reading Biocentrism on yesterday’s flight, I learned that the ancient Greeks used language and logic to prove that 1+1=3. It turns out, it can also equal zero.

What’s all this about anyway? The above lapse in logic points to a very real truth: Our words have limitations. No one to date has yet to pen a complete definition for love. Go ahead and try. Your words can at best point the way – like a lighthouse trying to pierce a dense midnight fog with it’s candle-powered beam. But into the abyss the light fades, never reaching its target. Words are limited. Necessary and at times powerful – but limited.

When I look at the countenance of a stranger and see myself, I find it hard to describe that experience. The knowing that I have that we are all so deeply connected in a way that transcends the illusions of time and space is beyond my ability to describe with the 616,500 of words in the English language.

It’s like trying to bring down the sun with a slingshot.

Don’t get me wrong: It doesn’t mean I won’t try, but I almost certainly will never quite hit the mark when I try to explain how when I think of you, I know that we are one. So deeply connected. At best, different beats of the same heart.

Separation is indeed an illusion. But with words as my hammer, I’ll never break it.

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46 Comments

  1. Beautiful Davey! Thank you.

    T

  2. i only read this because on twitter you said there’d be dirty pics :P i’m stupid… sorry…

  3. Beautiful pictures as always : ) and a lovely sentiment that words are only the path to the door. Very true, that when it comes to the description of some things, words just don’t quite cut it lol

  4. Too deep for Words….

  5. Could you be more beautiful? Your beauty transcends through your words and your way of being, not just your physical attributes (they do round out the circle). One day, dear Davey, I will tell you in person. Our encounter may be nothing more than seconds of our infinty, but they will be seconds forever altering my life- maybe yours too. ;-)
    Don’t stop. Stay beautiful.

  6. Nice job hiding the camera what with all those mirrors.

  7. I do love Davey Wavey!! Since I watched some of your videos on YouTube, I’ve been spending money paying in internet café just to see if you have a new updates on your twitter and your YouTube channel. Your so funny :D D

    PS,
    can u follow me back on Twitter ( itsEMYEL ) ? I’ll be so much happy if u do! :)

  8. Hey, Davey! This was really good. Love how you can put things in understandable perspectives. And by the way, you are hott! Take care. (:

  9. Beautiful way to start the day,thanks!!!

  10. I love this post!!! Would love to see more like it. :-)
    http://twitter.com/hangoutnude

  11. The stupidest thing ever!!
    Rather want to see you naked…

  12. I think you would look good naked, but I think you let us see a whole more of you in this post than some people realise.
    It is a pity the inner beauty is missed by so many!!!

    Davy Don’t stop
    The Power of Your Words Can Do Amazing Things

  13. Many things, actually most things can only be known through direct experience. Someone can describe the taste and texture and smell of a banana but those descriptions do not equal the experience of eating one. We are here to experience what life has to offer, thereby knowing it intimately. While what we experience may be very similar, what we experience is unique to our own experience of it as we each are individual points of awareness within the one being. Like the treads in a fabric, or the facets of a diamond, each of us is essential to the magnificence of the total being in expression.

  14. You look really cute in these pictures!!

  15. Me too – where the dirty pics at?

  16. This is so, so true.

  17. I also love your posts and how positive they are :) I think a lot more light shines from the souls of gay people than others might expect.

  18. <3 once again YOU have touched a special place in the heart Davey . Oh My yes, So pleased that you posted this . \_ife is so brief and limited . The WORD is the POWER of humanity , power to harm or heal. Word for the day ~ " You are Loved . " ~

  19. come one everyone .. the dirty pic is there .. look at the dirty towels in the bathroom pic :)

  20. the illusion of isolation is extremely powerful around me.

  21. That was really awsome :D

  22. Hello davey wavey I love all ur YouTube vids and I wud really like it if u followed me on twitter as I kno ur the only person in my life who said I love you and I’m 16 my twitter name is the same MspyroM

    P.S yes I’m gay

  23. Nice photos and 1+1=2. lol

  24. Im really confused about all of this..

    1+1=2. But If, 1+1=3

    And u are talking about relationship wise.. It’s true.. It’s possible for (1) person to have (2) lovers.. If that is what u are getting at.. Maybe acient greek logic was based on this status too.. I could be wrong.. Im not being bias on myself..

    What do u think?

  25. Love the glasses Mr. Wavey.

    No, I really do.

  26. Nice pics, you’re starting to look like a man instead of a twink. You should be really handsome at 40. Plus, it will be interesting to hear what you have to say once you have some experience under your belt. Grow in peace, DW.

  27. The words are the mirror. Sometimes we place our own reflection instead of what’s actually there. In our rush of life we see but do not always observe. In the end it does not change the nature of the words. It is our perception that does that.

  28. 1/3 = 0.333…
    3 x 1/3 = 1 but 3 x 0.333… = 0.999…
    therefore 0.999…= 1 ?
    Gotta LOVE math :)

  29. Hey Davey, may I use this line from you blog in my facebook status: “Separation is indeed an illusion. But with words as my hammer, I’ll never break it.” This is a good line/quotation to remember and ponder :)

  30. You need to rent the just released DVD “Just Say Love”. If you haven’t seen the film at a gay film fest already. Really makes you think about what love really is and how the ancient Greeks have always known what they are talking about.

  31. wow, i seem to see multiple messages in this, words are powerful, pictures tell stories, but our actions are even more powerful.
    Great blog davey, what a way to ponder. :)

  32. you should let me be your editor. there are a lot of wasteful locutions in your post.

  33. In my opinion DW’s locutions are not wasteful but give his writing character and reflect his upbringing.

    I suspect that I would like your parents as I do you Davey!

    Roger

  34. DAVEY,,,,,,DAVEY,,, DAVEY YOU JUST ALWAYS MAKE MY DAY. SOMETIMES, I DO DRIFT AWAY THOUGH CUZ YOUR SO DOGGONE BEAUTIFUL & A PITY THAT WE LL NEVER MEET. BUT, LIKE THE SAYIN GOES …..KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK…..STAY…..BSSS…. BEAUTIFUL-SWEET-SEXY-SMART!!!!! YEA THERES MORE………..LUV YA…..

  35. Evang! So it is.

    When you speak from the center you are always spot on. Your visuals are becoming even more a pleasure to behold.

    Your heart is true. Always follow your heart.

    Be well,

  36. he is a master manipulator….

  37. Random thoughts here…
    1. OMG Davey!! I wear the same glasses as you or at least a very similar pair.

    2. Loved this post and your use of language. In fact, is funny but one of the many reasons why I’m hooked up with your blog is because I’m learning english, and with you, I always find a new word or interesting reading material, so your like my hot English teacher

    3. My interpretation of your piece of writing is: 1)a love letter to your significant other who is faraway, or 2)a monologue and you’re talking about you and your reflection, which also explains the mirror shoots…

    4. Anyways, I’m probably overthinking this post of yours but who cares? Love getting philosophical! Love you Davey!!

  38. I use this definition of love….that is love as a creation, not as a feeling. (Feelings are inconstant, always changing, not permanent. They are unreliable.) On the other hand, if you consider love as “One’s commitment to the happiness, success and well-being of another,” it is very powerful. In that definition, Love can also apply to a job, an enterprise, and much more. In fact, I use this definition: “Love is one’s commitment to the happiness, success and well-being of ____(fill in the blank)_________.

  39. Hello, I agree that emotions are changing and that while one may experience ever changing emotions one can still be immersed within the field of love. I think emotions are tools which guild us into the field of love and let us know when we are moving out of it. Love is a state of being regardless of how you dress it up.

  40. Lovely words and very inspiring. Thank you for your insight and the constant joy in life that you share.

  41. HUGS to you MspyroM

  42. I think I need an editor. I’m kind of aspiring to be a poet/writer and perhaps you could help me.

  43. thought provoking words-but i still dont know how one plus one equals three.

  44. 1+1 = 3
    -1 -1
    ——–
    1 = 2
    You and I are two, therefore you and I are one.
    Bertrand Russell used this in a lecture to prove that he was the Pope. Given your ability to see yourself in others I think this has a deeper meaning for you.
    Great post!

  45. Biocentrism is a great book. I was searching for the logic (or rather illogic) behind the greeks equation of 1+1=3 and found your site. Even before I found Biocentrism, I have read many books all pointing towards the belief that all is one. In our day there is so much individualism implemented into society, making it increasingly difficult to “see” and understand this concept. I suggest you check out some beliefs held by buddhism, especially if you life Biocentrism. They both tend to intertwine.

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