You’ve probably heard of the butterfly effect. It was developed from Edward Lorenz’s Chaos Theory and goes something like this: A butterfly flapping its wings in one part of the world can eventually cause a hurricane in another.
Similarly, when a hot 19 year old twink pleasures himself in Toronto, he causes millions upon millions of people to come together, sharing their stories, their ideas and their love.
August 1 marked the one year anniversary of my youtube video titled “I caught my hot neighbor masturbating“. Before that video, no one read my blog or watched my videos. There was no tremendous online community of blog buddies. There were no workout videos or fitness classes.
Since last August, nearly 5 million people have watched my videos (a total of 46.6 years of footage have been watched). Another 700,000 people have viewed my blog 2.5 million times. Together, we’ve raised thousands upon thousands of dollars for charity and helped countless people accept, embrace, celebrate and love who they are. We’ve laughed together. We’ve cried together. We’ve been inspired together.
Last night, I couldn’t help but marvel at our journey together. More than 900 people tuned in for the first Virtual Boot Camp Class. It was a great experience – thank you to all who participated! If you didn’t attend, please join us next week.
So, to my masturbating neighbor, I say, “thank you”. And “thank you” to all of you for creating this incredible journey. I wonder if he knew that his orgasm was going to have such a big impact on the world?
There are no accidents. No coincidences. The universe is one.
August 6, 2008 at 8:10 am
Yup, thanks “masturbating neighbour”, hehe!
August 19, 2008 at 5:51 am
what were the pictures you took can i see them.
September 19, 2008 at 7:35 pm
i would like to see the pics can u show me them
August 6, 2008 at 8:20 am
I wonder if said 19 year old twink reads this blog? Does he know that he helped create this?
Its funny, really, to think about how one talky blog about masturbation and voyeurism is the thing that draws people in.
Are we a sex obsessed culter? Maybe a little.
August 6, 2008 at 8:20 am
Culture*
August 6, 2008 at 9:13 am
LOL
Sex sells!
It´s absolutely remarkable how wise we are, how much better than animals we are, how much we are using our advanced brain.
August 6, 2008 at 12:08 pm
It serves as a lesson in how to propagate a blog (or product).
Draw them in with salaciousness. Smut it up and they will come.
Look at how many responces Davey’s posts of a sexual nature get -vs- posts of
the spiritual growth/philosophical sort.
This is not a slam, just an observation. As Davey pointed out, many of us, including me, are here
because of that video. Is this irony or calculation? The world may never know.
August 6, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Well, there *is* a reason he always does Talky Blogs shirtless.
August 6, 2008 at 9:48 am
wow! i had no idea that the blog buddy community is that big! it’s all thanks to the masturbating neighbor, i guess.
August 6, 2008 at 10:01 am
could u put the boot camp video on youtube?
August 6, 2008 at 12:11 pm
well, without the internet, this really would not have been possible. Without it, I dont think the wind generated by a 19-year old masturbating would have generated so much comotion, although it would be hilarious if all of us actually flocked together somehow because of it. Poor guy would have a very sore forearm…
And I have to admit, it was this video that brought me to you! So Thank you for making it!
August 6, 2008 at 1:00 pm
I found your website about 2 weeks ago… and it was not really that neighbour of yours that struck me first.
I was on youtube searching for ” gay ” and i ended up with watching your video’s first without sound cause the computer i was browsing with did not have speakers….
I was charmed by that nice looking young guy who seems to talk so passionate about something.
When i came home i immediatly looked for this again and listend and read your blog’s.
It is amazing though, that something so insignificant like a wanking neighbour can lead to ‘world peace’ in a matter of speaking.
Keep up the good work.
Love ya xxx
Steven
August 6, 2008 at 1:17 pm
Wow, you’re pretty good with words.
August 6, 2008 at 1:22 pm
how many people were masturbating last night while watching?
lol
August 6, 2008 at 2:42 pm
Davey
I am going to volunteer to send you a video made in dim light of me masturbating so that you can post to youtube.
I think we can get your viewership up another 100 or 200 people. I know that there are people out there that would love to see my my body shape.
I am doing this because I care, not for the acclaimation that I will receive.
thank you
Mike
PS: Jimmy, please help me with my spelling.
August 6, 2008 at 8:24 pm
Sad, so sad. So very, very sad.
August 6, 2008 at 3:05 pm
Congratulations David !
The figures are impressive. Are they higher than you could have expected ?
It’s only the result of the energy and efforts you expended in your blog or videos to express your way of thinking, sometimes your feelings but also a bit because you’re a little provocative and your blogbuddies love it too. I must add, contrary to mine, it seems to me you write a good English but speak it with a bad accent (for me).
From the beginning, I think your blog was interresting and that you did not need your little neighbour so that your video was one day or the other known and your blog regularly visited. You know, it’s like for fishing, you have to wait a little and fishes bite but it’s true, in the internet ocean you needed the right bait so that you had more chance to catch the fishes you came for.
bye,
August 6, 2008 at 3:09 pm
“I wonder if he knew that his orgasm was going to have such a big impact on the world.”
Rofl…that’s one hell of a punchline.
To be honest, I found your website in my journey to self-acceptance. It was the week I mustered the strength to tell my two best friends–but more importantly, myself–that I am a guy and I am inexplicably attracted to men. I am gay. For so long I have been frightened by the thought, by the feeling, and all that it would mean for my life socially. I was afraid of the consequences of my socially unusual and largely unconventional circumstance. That was how I felt about it at the time.
I searched for others’ coming out videos and there I found yours. It was the third one I watched and it led me straight to your youtube profile and your blog. Some insight into your relationship with your mom and how you reminded me of a close gay friend drew me to check out your blog.
Lol, it wasn’t until the next day that I found that masturbating neighbour video. It was amusing lol. But it’s not the sexual things like these that keep me here. I think it was yesterday that marked my first month here a “blog buddy.” I look back and am very happy to have found this place. It just amazes me how a month–of freedom, of openness, of exploration, etc–has turned the hellish years of self-denial around and opened up a bright happy world for me.
People see me and they know something dramatic is changed. It’s like I have a new aura. Those who have yet to know ask whether I’ve found a great girl…lol. It’s a funny world, isn’t it?
I am immensely grateful yet have not the words to express it…just a smile and a skip in my step = )
August 6, 2008 at 3:12 pm
I suppose it could be said that, given the nature of the beginning of “a little davey wavey…”, the longest of all journies begins with a single orgasm.
(Or something like that…)
Looking forward to seeing what the next year has in store…and beyond.
Ciao – J
August 6, 2008 at 4:07 pm
I can honestly say that i got hook on watching these recently cause of your coming out video and the comment; It took me 17 years to become comfortable with it, so i don’t mind if it takes 5 for my parents to become comfortable.
August 6, 2008 at 6:17 pm
Impressive anniversary! I too thank your neighbour. I love the community that has developed because of your blog and the insights that it brings to my day. I enjoy as well the amount of good the blog has done through not only charity but inspiration. Here’s to the power of the wank!
August 6, 2008 at 7:43 pm
i will admit i started with your masturbating neighbor video. But, the first ten minutes of any store should always draw the audience in.
August 6, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Hi Davey, “The Butterfly Effect” is a wonderful analogy for so many people tuning-in to your site, but, frankly, YOU are the Butterfly.
Like others have already said, I didn’t begin to check your blog knowing about the 19 year old. Davey, you grabbed and held my attention. You still do. That’s not easy for anyone to do. I’m a hard nut to crack.
It goes without saying part of the initial attraction to your website is the shirtless beauty that you are. More importantly, for me, is the voice that resonates from your soul!
Wisdom carries alot of power when it’s well presented. You do a fine job of that.
I continue to sign in almost disbelief to observe one person (you!) with so much discipline, desire, energy, passion, drive,willingness… etc. to share with the rest of us.
It’s your sincerity that interests me most. I marvel at your way of dealing with life on a daily basis. You clearly understand the importance of maintaining a positive, mindful, productive life when some of us watch from the sidelines.
Davey, when I saw over 700 people(at one point)joining you online last night, it made me feel PROUD for you. The proof is in your actions! Keep on keeping on! Hugs-Don
August 7, 2008 at 12:34 am
Since you’re in Toronto, are you going to the 8-8-8, the big youtube gathering there?
August 7, 2008 at 3:48 am
I never got to see this hot twink I’ve heard so much about… =[
August 8, 2008 at 9:21 am
me either, it was gone by the time i joined the masses, but what really drew me in was you Davey Wavey, you make my day with every post of a Blog – or even better a Talky Blog.
Thanks
August 7, 2008 at 6:16 am
So I’m here because a friend told me to read the blog. And all I can say is ‘wow’. I may have missed the past couple of years, though in a matter of days I can see a wealth of positivity the teems from this site. And from you Davey! Congratulations =)
August 7, 2008 at 8:13 am
Congrats on a year in the big spot light Davey! You must be feeling on top of the world right about now! I started reading shortly after the “famous” video although that wasn’t the first one that I watched…maybe like the 5th!
August 7, 2008 at 12:07 pm
This just goes to show how one small thing dones causes big things to happen. I remember one time after 9/11 I made yellow ribbons for my class to support our troops and by the end of the day, nearly everyone in the 7th grade was wearing them. Another example of the “butterfly effect”.
-Heather
August 7, 2008 at 12:25 pm
You are such husband material. So jealous.
August 7, 2008 at 3:35 pm
I agree with Racheal. I didn’t realize you have such a big following of blog buddies when maybe only a hundred or less comment on your blogs.
That is really amazing. Keep it up!!!
August 8, 2008 at 4:01 pm
I just tuned in to your blogs and you are indeed hot and the impression im getting is you like this 19 year old? You should go and speak to him proper
He wouldnt refuse you!
August 10, 2008 at 8:26 am
This the best endorsement for self-love I’ve read in a long time.
August 11, 2008 at 7:49 pm
For me, it was also the masturbating video, the reason I found you. The video was embed in a greek blog, from there I found your youtube account and then your awesome blog.
It’s amazing, how you, with a simple blog, managed to influence so many people. Good for you Davey.
August 14, 2008 at 3:20 pm
i thought you had pics u sed u did on youtube!
August 14, 2008 at 3:23 pm
is it ok for 13 year olds to masterbate?
August 14, 2008 at 3:29 pm
As long as it is themselves, and not the family dog.
August 20, 2008 at 1:32 pm
in my country sex with children is forbidden. so you could go to a jail. watch out.
August 21, 2008 at 5:55 am
Actually I remember watching the masturbating neighbor vlog like months ago. I have been unemployed, my bf cheated on me, I don’t know what I want to be, or if I want to be and I’m really lost and have been for like 7 months or so. So for some reason I started remembering this website. And I remembered how I wanted to live my life like you (I know I have my own path and all) but I wanted to be a nomad and stuff and have a job that would allow me to travel a lot, but I didn’t remember where your video was or anything. I was actually like feeling sad that I wouldn’t find you or this site ever again, because I think that now your advice and your blogs would help me more than before when I was a bit close-minded about spirituality, oneness and all. All I could remember is that you caught your neighbor masturbating lol. So I looked up that video and I finally found you again. But I’m not losing you again, I subbed you on you-tube so I can read your blogs and stuff. It comforts me somehow to read the stuff u write. lots of <3 to all.
September 3, 2008 at 9:35 am
Regardless of how it came about, you are someone that deserves attention. Anyone spreading such a positive message is worth it in my book.
September 9, 2008 at 1:52 pm
True that, however this post depressed me, and It wasn’t until today I found it.. and you haha! Keep Smiling.
September 16, 2008 at 4:39 pm
Well, about a year ago I actually did see the YouTube video where you talk about you catching your neighbor wanking, but I didn’t visit your website. Back then I just went on, but by coincidence (you know, those you say don’t exist? Because it is all universe? Well, seems like coincidence disagrees, ’cause coincidence kinda got to me… ) I stumbled upon your videos once again. This time you got to me somewhere between “25 secrets”, “I F**ing love you” and “My Coming Out of the Closet Story”. I thought it was sweet. It was positive. And inspiring.
Seeing that I’m sitting all alone in Florence, Italy, far from home and friends, I had been on the search for a way to feel, well, less alone, I guess. But suddenly I didn’t need to. In a short amount of time you had reminded me that you’re never alone, not really: There’s the universe, and there are new people to meet, sweet new people like you (and your talking blog). So, in a way you had made me feel connected, as a part of the universe.
So, in short: If wanking guy is the reason for this talking blog and these videos, I can only say: Thank you! And to you for keeping this blog: Thank you and keep doing what you’re doing. I think it is special. Just the thought of it still makes me smile…
PS. I wonder if you will ever read this post? I can see the post I’m commenting on is more than a month old… I wonder wonder wonder. If not, I kinda hope the universe will let you know in some way, that you are doing something good…
September 29, 2008 at 12:27 am
just checking things out
October 20, 2008 at 2:09 pm
I was searching for coming out videos and came across yours…you’re so honest and sweet and open about everything that I subscribed immediately. <3
November 5, 2008 at 11:03 pm
I wanted to know if i could c some of those pictures that you took?
November 25, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Where are the pictures of the 19 year old masturbating?
November 25, 2008 at 10:13 pm
lol the first video I acually saw of yours Davey was the hot steamy eye f**k it made me laugh so hard an also made me realize thats it realy feels like. after that i subscribed an when i had the change checked out your blog. Davey you awsome
much love Robert
February 5, 2009 at 6:05 pm
i cant find the pictures of ur neighbor
July 16, 2009 at 5:06 am
i cant find the pics
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