Comments on: saying goodbye to and old friend. http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/ a little davey wavey goes a long way Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:52:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: militarywife2010 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-21697 militarywife2010 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 06:13:31 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-21697 i know what its like to have unattached sex. I was a whore. I slept with everyone.. and i mean everyone. I lost my virginity at 19. and by 24 i have been with almost 100 people. I am now married and realize wow i was stupid. I went from being a whore to being married. I would never ever cheat on my husband but i am glad i gave up my ways. i know what its like to have unattached sex. I was a whore. I slept with everyone.. and i mean everyone. I lost my virginity at 19. and by 24 i have been with almost 100 people.

I am now married and realize wow i was stupid. I went from being a whore to being married. I would never ever cheat on my husband but i am glad i gave up my ways.

]]> By: Heather http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17463 Heather Thu, 07 Aug 2008 17:10:59 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17463 I actually have had that kind of change in my life here recently and it's for the better. I've actually decided that I want to not have sex again until I find the one I want to settle down with and another thing I want to do is stop getting drunk. I may have a glass of wine here and there or a wine cooler, just something light. But I will not be getting drunk. Because I believe being healthy is one major factor in being happy. -Heather I actually have had that kind of change in my life here recently and it’s for the better. I’ve actually decided that I want to not have sex again until I find the one I want to settle down with and another thing I want to do is stop getting drunk. I may have a glass of wine here and there or a wine cooler, just something light. But I will not be getting drunk. Because I believe being healthy is one major factor in being happy.

-Heather

]]> By: Matt http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17357 Matt Wed, 06 Aug 2008 20:27:28 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17357 "You’re blog has been a big help." lol, yep: A LITTLE DAVEY WAVEY GOES A LONG WAY “You’re blog has been a big help.”

lol, yep:

A LITTLE DAVEY WAVEY GOES A LONG WAY

]]> By: Matt http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17354 Matt Wed, 06 Aug 2008 20:22:38 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17354 You don't need to come out to everyone right away. The important thing is that you are comfortable with yourself. It's hard to face the world when you're working against yourself. You don’t need to come out to everyone right away. The important thing is that you are comfortable with yourself. It’s hard to face the world when you’re working against yourself.

]]> By: Zoe http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17264 Zoe Tue, 05 Aug 2008 23:38:27 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17264 Chipotle is so cute. like jess said maybe u are growing.things change. now it might been hard but later on u will see it was for the best. Love u Chipotle is so cute. like jess said maybe u are growing.things change. now it might been hard but later on u will see it was for the best. Love u

]]> By: Philip http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17262 Philip Tue, 05 Aug 2008 23:31:04 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17262 All this talk of maturing and evolving seems a little judgmental to me. Does that imply that having sex with multiple partners is immature and we just need to "get over it"? Maybe there is value in this experience and different value in another experience. I can see Davey wanting to broaden his experience, but please...don't give me that crap about how people with lots of sex partners somehow have a stunted maturity level or can't feel. If they can't feel then they would likely also make lousy partners All this talk of maturing and evolving seems a little judgmental to me. Does that imply that having sex with multiple partners is immature and we just need to “get over it”? Maybe there is value in this experience and different value in another experience.

I can see Davey wanting to broaden his experience, but please…don’t give me that crap about how people with lots of sex partners somehow have a stunted maturity level or can’t feel. If they can’t feel then they would likely also make lousy partners

]]> By: Nick http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17259 Nick Tue, 05 Aug 2008 22:34:28 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17259 I was so interested that most of the picks on the "three-way" love fest were of straight guys (very hot, but mostly very straight). If that is not desire for unattached sex, then what is? There is virtually no chance of "changing" most of the guys or develoing an emotional relationship with them, so any physical relationship would be without feeling - a definite downer. I agree with Davey - maturity brings more of a desire for emotional relationships and less of a desire for physical ones. I was so interested that most of the picks on the “three-way” love fest were of straight guys (very hot, but mostly very straight). If that is not desire for unattached sex, then what is? There is virtually no chance of “changing” most of the guys or develoing an emotional relationship with them, so any physical relationship would be without feeling – a definite downer. I agree with Davey – maturity brings more of a desire for emotional relationships and less of a desire for physical ones.

]]> By: jupiteron http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17257 jupiteron Tue, 05 Aug 2008 21:46:22 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17257 "an expense of spirit in a waste of shame is lust in action." Shakespeare. “an expense of spirit in a waste of shame is lust in action.”
Shakespeare.

]]> By: Jimmy http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17227 Jimmy Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:35:59 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17227 Evan a baboon picking its ass would be more interesting. Evan a baboon picking its ass would be more interesting.

]]> By: M http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17222 M Tue, 05 Aug 2008 11:42:20 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17222 I think it's more about maturity than "growing up." There are lots of folks who are in their 40s, 50s, etc, who are just as immature as when they were younger. It has to do with emotional development, and realizing, for ourselves, that there is more to life than instant gratification. It may be easy to live that way when we're younger, but ultimately it aint pretty when we're older. Find what you need inside yourself before you look for it in others. Kinda back to your comments on cultivating relationships - we have to cultivate ourselves too, weed the garden so to speak. Otherwise, it will be overrun with misplaced plants; not necessarily bad, but not right for us. It can be scarey figuring out what we want and then have the fortitude to pursue achieving it. Sometimes its easier to wander aimlessly. But ultimately, aimless wandering leaves one frustrated and empty, and so we look for things outside ourselves to fill the void. Stay focused, and you will manifest your dreams. Peace. I think it’s more about maturity than “growing up.” There are lots of folks who are in their 40s, 50s, etc, who are just as immature as when they were younger. It has to do with emotional development, and realizing, for ourselves, that there is more to life than instant gratification. It may be easy to live that way when we’re younger, but ultimately it aint pretty when we’re older. Find what you need inside yourself before you look for it in others. Kinda back to your comments on cultivating relationships – we have to cultivate ourselves too, weed the garden so to speak. Otherwise, it will be overrun with misplaced plants; not necessarily bad, but not right for us. It can be scarey figuring out what we want and then have the fortitude to pursue achieving it. Sometimes its easier to wander aimlessly. But ultimately, aimless wandering leaves one frustrated and empty, and so we look for things outside ourselves to fill the void. Stay focused, and you will manifest your dreams. Peace.

]]> By: ... http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17219 ... Tue, 05 Aug 2008 10:16:49 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17219 Author: Jimmy Comment: "Jimmy, you pick fights like a baboon picks its ass" Author: Jimmy
Comment:
“Jimmy, you pick fights like a baboon picks its ass”

]]> By: chris http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17215 chris Tue, 05 Aug 2008 08:52:05 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17215 Zac Efron is nothing more than an object, a fiction, an illusion. How can you have sex if there is no connection however fleeting? At least a touch on the arm; a gaze between the eyes; a few words. If you are into Efron just masturbate with a picture of him then close your eyes. Zac Efron is nothing more than an object, a fiction, an illusion. How can you have sex if there is no connection however fleeting? At least a touch on the arm; a gaze between the eyes; a few words.

If you are into Efron just masturbate with a picture of him then close your eyes.

]]> By: Steven http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17210 Steven Tue, 05 Aug 2008 05:00:28 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17210 I think you are going through some phase... No, no... not that kind of a phase, you are gay... That's for sure. Though I think that having a fling here and there is a kind of an age related thing.. your hormones go up and down ( up mostly) and you are just enjoying all the sex you can have. It is a natural way of how guy's (and gay's ) are. However, upon a certain time one likes to have sex with somebody they can have a nice conversation with afterwards. Why not having sex, unattached, still enjoy it, keep him as a friend. you can like somebody without having to fall in love with him. When you are in a relationship, the occasonal fling you can have as a coupple, often ends in tears... that's why I think that you should (or can )have some guy's you like very much with whom you can have regular sex with. But make them your friends...don't make them your "now I am horny, I want to fuck somebody-friend..." having said this... a good wanking now and then is sometimes very relaxing and horny... you can have sex in your head with whoever you like ...Zac Efron cfr. Or I can have sex with you.... ;-) I think you are going through some phase…
No, no… not that kind of a phase, you are gay… That’s for sure. Though I think that having a fling here and there is a kind of an age related thing.. your hormones go up and down ( up mostly) and you are just enjoying all the sex you can have. It is a natural way of how guy’s (and gay’s ) are. However, upon a certain time one likes to have sex with somebody they can have a nice conversation with afterwards. Why not having sex, unattached, still enjoy it, keep him as a friend. you can like somebody without having to fall in love with him.
When you are in a relationship, the occasonal fling you can have as a coupple, often ends in tears… that’s why I think that you should (or can )have some guy’s you like very much with whom you can have regular sex with. But make them your friends…don’t make them your “now I am horny, I want to f**k somebody-friend…”

having said this… a good wanking now and then is sometimes very relaxing and horny…
you can have sex in your head with whoever you like …Zac Efron cfr.
Or I can have sex with you…. ;-)

]]> By: Rich http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17208 Rich Tue, 05 Aug 2008 04:00:58 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17208 I can't believe that some of you people are mean and downright evil. "Really Davey….who gives a shit? Deciding you are going to start peeing setting down would be more interesting." Maybe Davey needs to vent every now and then... it's his blog to do it on. Obviously you do or you have such a low self-esteem you get off on criticizing others. To the part Asian guy... we're people, not boxes. Don't try to contain yourself or others to stereotypes or put labels on others. You'll be happier in the end. Davey: relationships as you probably know come when we least expect them. If the stars align, the right one will come your way before you know it and when you least expect it... hang in there kiddo! I can’t believe that some of you people are mean and downright evil.

“Really Davey….who gives a s**t?

Deciding you are going to start peeing setting down would be more interesting.”

Maybe Davey needs to vent every now and then… it’s his blog to do it on. Obviously you do or you have such a low self-esteem you get off on criticizing others.

To the part Asian guy… we’re people, not boxes. Don’t try to contain yourself or others to stereotypes or put labels on others. You’ll be happier in the end.

Davey: relationships as you probably know come when we least expect them. If the stars align, the right one will come your way before you know it and when you least expect it… hang in there kiddo!

]]> By: Jimmy http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17207 Jimmy Tue, 05 Aug 2008 03:00:49 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17207 Really Davey....who gives a shit? Deciding you are going to start peeing setting down would be more interesting. Really Davey….who gives a s**t?

Deciding you are going to start peeing setting down would be more interesting.

]]> By: Andrew http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17205 Andrew Tue, 05 Aug 2008 02:19:13 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17205 Tramatic experience?!! :O Let me guess. You walked by a restaurant and the owner came out and wanted to buy some Chipolte from you....I can say that by the way simply because I'm part Asian and I can get away with saying it even though it's not true...or is it? No. Wait. Someone at your table ordered a meal and they found out that their egg roll was 'sho very shmall'. hahaha...aww. Ah ha! I know. You spilled something on your pants and you had no choice but to change into that ridiculous number with a baby blue hoody with green camouflage pants. And what's with that t-shirt? It's short on both arms and it has an absurdly stretched neck collar? And remarkably, this hasn't been the first time that you have done such a thing. You've been blogged wearing bad choices in shirts. I think we now know why dear Davey Wavey does not wear articles of clothing during most of his blogs. And you should be ashamed of wearing clothing. You're a gay and was photographed, let alone seen with wearing that? Oh the shame of it...THE SHAME! Consider your membership revoked. Turn in your absurdly trendy sunglasses on Tuesday morning. Tramatic experience?!! :O

Let me guess. You walked by a restaurant and the owner came out and wanted to buy some Chipolte from you….I can say that by the way simply because I’m part Asian and I can get away with saying it even though it’s not true…or is it?

No. Wait. Someone at your table ordered a meal and they found out that their egg roll was ‘sho very shmall’. hahaha…aww.

Ah ha! I know. You spilled something on your pants and you had no choice but to change into that ridiculous number with a baby blue hoody with green camouflage pants. And what’s with that t-shirt? It’s short on both arms and it has an absurdly stretched neck collar?
And remarkably, this hasn’t been the first time that you have done such a thing. You’ve been blogged wearing bad choices in shirts. I think we now know why dear Davey Wavey does not wear articles of clothing during most of his blogs. And you should be ashamed of wearing clothing.
You’re a gay and was photographed, let alone seen with wearing that? Oh the shame of it…THE SHAME!
Consider your membership revoked. Turn in your absurdly trendy sunglasses on Tuesday morning.

]]> By: chic guy http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17204 chic guy Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:38:37 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17204 it happens to us all. we move from physical intimacy to emotional ones. somehow lesbians bypass this all together and move straight to emotional intimacy. either that or as gay men age...we all become lesbians! ;-P it happens to us all. we move from physical intimacy to emotional ones. somehow lesbians bypass this all together and move straight to emotional intimacy. either that or as gay men age…we all become lesbians! ;-P

]]> By: Mark http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17203 Mark Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:54:52 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17203 ...so there is no hope for us :-(...??? …so there is no hope for us :-( …???

]]> By: Mike in Dallas http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17202 Mike in Dallas Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:14:18 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17202 Davey...someone above said you should try a relationship. I agree with them that you may be tired of living alone. Take the advise you give us (it is good advise) and work on a long lasting meaningful relationship or friendship. love the pic of Chipotle. Jessica is looking very nice...glad to see you too together again. peace out Davey…someone above said you should try a relationship. I agree with them that you may be tired of living alone. Take the advise you give us (it is good advise) and work on a long lasting meaningful relationship or friendship.

love the pic of Chipotle.

Jessica is looking very nice…glad to see you too together again.

peace out

]]> By: tom http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17201 tom Mon, 04 Aug 2008 23:36:25 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17201 Yeap... I think you are getting older and when you get older so do the wants in your life. Like when you were a kid you would not eat certain food... but as you get older you tastes change. When I was a kid I used to love pumpkin pie!! Now as an adult I cannot stand it!!! It's all part of life! Yeap… I think you are getting older and when you get older so do the wants in your life.

Like when you were a kid you would not eat certain food… but as you get older you tastes change. When I was a kid I used to love pumpkin pie!! Now as an adult I cannot stand it!!!

It’s all part of life!

]]> By: Buddy Cianci http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17199 Buddy Cianci Mon, 04 Aug 2008 22:43:27 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17199 When are you coming back to Rhode Island? We miss you! When are you coming back to Rhode Island? We miss you!

]]> By: Emilios http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17196 Emilios Mon, 04 Aug 2008 21:51:06 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17196 Maybe it is the fact that you 're growing up. It's usual, as you get older, to want sth more than a one night stand. You want intimacy. Nice pictures. You and Jessica are so cute. And Chipotle of course. Kisses Maybe it is the fact that you ‘re growing up. It’s usual, as you get older, to want sth more than a one night stand. You want intimacy.

Nice pictures. You and Jessica are so cute. And Chipotle of course.

Kisses

]]> By: Mellise http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17194 Mellise Mon, 04 Aug 2008 21:12:54 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17194 I kind of agree with Jessica. Maybe you are growing up. If it is possible for somebody who certainly seems wise beyond their years, to 'grow up' At some point I'm sure men must stop thinking with their penis more than their brain. :) I have to believe this. Coz if I don't. There really is no hope for me *sigh* haha. I kind of agree with Jessica. Maybe you are growing up. If it is possible for somebody who certainly seems wise beyond their years, to ‘grow up’ At some point I’m sure men must stop thinking with their penis more than their brain. :) I have to believe this. Coz if I don’t. There really is no hope for me *sigh* haha.

]]> By: Philip http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17189 Philip Mon, 04 Aug 2008 20:21:47 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17189 I think Davey is just missing a certain "C"...Davey's in LUUUUUV I think Davey is just missing a certain “C”…Davey’s in LUUUUUV

]]> By: eric http://www.breaktheillusion.com/life/saying-goodbye-to-and-old-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-17187 eric Mon, 04 Aug 2008 20:07:34 +0000 http://www.breaktheillusion.com/?p=927#comment-17187 I have experienced and enjoyed the occasional fling. I think it's a part of our sexual learning and it seems to me natural. In reading these lines, I think that this kind of relationship does not satisfy you anymore, and it's good to think so ; we all grow up. Maybe you're tired of being alone too ; I've always though that the relationship of a night, the one who leaves you early in the morning, can't satisfy you completely and is certainly not the "Top" in matter of Love. I have always regretted it and I was ill at ease with me after I did it. Love includes sex but sex without a real love is not what I call Love. I now prefer waiting than wanting immediately a person I don't even give me time to really to know and appreciate. I have experienced and enjoyed the occasional fling. I think it’s a part of our sexual learning and it seems to me natural.

In reading these lines, I think that this kind of relationship does not satisfy you anymore, and it’s good to think so ; we all grow up. Maybe you’re tired of being alone too ; I’ve always though that the relationship of a night, the one who leaves you early in the morning, can’t satisfy you completely and is certainly not the “Top” in matter of Love. I have always regretted it and I was ill at ease with me after I did it.

Love includes sex but sex without a real love is not what I call Love. I now prefer waiting than wanting immediately a person I don’t even give me time to really to know and appreciate.

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