Some days I’m horny, and some days I’m not. Sometimes days stretch into weeks or months – and I go through a particularly crazed or particularly subdued phase. I’ve noticed that these mini-cycles are often tied to the seasons, moon phases or external circumstances of my life. But these mini-cycles are fluctuating within a much larger trend pointing to an unavoidable reality: my libido is disappearing.
With an eye towards the science of measurement, I created the “Horniness Factor”. The horniness factor can range from 0 to 10, with 10 being sex-crazed and 0 being dead. It’s actually completely subjective and unscientific, but serves well for illustrative purposes. Determined to plot out my horniness factor by age, I created the follow graph:
The truth is inescapable: my sex drive peaked around 19-21, and has been on the decline ever since. Will it level out around a 5 or 6, or will it diminish into nothingness? Will it rise again and reach new heights?
In many ways, a decline is sex drive is a welcome change. Spending less time consumed with c**k means more time to do other things, like paint, hang out with friends and read. If my horniness factor had continued to increase at ages 22, 23 and 24, it’s likely that I’d spend my days humping tree trunks and peaking into my neighbors windows (oh, wait, I already do that).
What about you? Has your sex drive peaked? If so, when? What’s your current horniness factor?
June 25, 2008 at 7:30 am
Mine has never peaked…I am still as horny as a 14 year old, and trust me, I am not 14 anymore…..
June 25, 2008 at 7:42 am
Hmmm i think i know what you mean, im seriously horny in warm weather but when it gets cold i really dont care less.
Although sex is fantastic if you can find the right person to have it with, perhaps thats been my problem so far
June 25, 2008 at 7:45 am
LOL, great post.
Davey Wavey, I believe what is happening to you is know most commonly to gay men as “getting older.” I can sympathize with you on the lack of sexual drive. My drive started to decline about a year ago (27 yrs old) but now, I am not nearly as “ready” as I used to be.
It is somewhat of a welcomed change for me, but it is also frustrating. Some mornings I will wake up ready to drill a hole through the mattress (not morning wood either) and then by the evening I have completely forgotten about my desire earlier that day… What a messed up body…
So in closing, get while you can. I am sure you will not have any problems in getting it…
Brad
June 25, 2008 at 8:06 am
For me my libido differs from day to day, sometimes I feel really horny and sometimes I don’t.
I think that we can all go through ‘dry spells’ in our sex lives (whether we are having sex or not). It is important to know that our bodies sometimes can slow us down to allow us to focus on other things. We can become too wrapped up in our physical bodily functions and need to concentrate more on the: Social, Mental and Spiritual aspects of our everyday lives in order to give us a sense of balance.
Peace – xxx
June 25, 2008 at 8:16 am
I’ve got to admit that there are times when a big bowl of Ben and Jerry’s is a lot more appealing , and takes a lot less energy.Just don’t tell my other half. Peace.
August 9, 2008 at 4:27 am
Cherry Garcia.
chocolate, cherries, ice-cream
yum.
Just remember it doesn’t have to be a sex-substitute.
It could be a condiment.
June 25, 2008 at 8:25 am
In my “hands-on” experience, which is limited to straight guys, they also peak in the 19-21 year old range. Interesting….
Us gals, however, seem to achieve maximum horniness much later, 30′s to 40′s—-maybe this explains the whole “cougar” thing. We want our boys when they are red-hot!
Personally, after entering the average age-range for women’s maximum horniness, I haven’t noticed any major decline. Except when I have the flu. Or have just had dental work done. Too much jaw pain after the novacaine wears off.
June 25, 2008 at 8:28 am
Mine seems to have simmered from what it once was, though it is still rather considerable. I am only 22, so I suppose I’ve yet to reach the top of the hill and roll over like some of you, but I’ve aged gracefully… I could still probably pass for a 17 year old if I needed to infiltrate a high school on some fictional espionage mission. But I digress.
I have days where pornography bores me… I switch from watching videos to reading stories to simple masturbation in bed with no stimulus. Once a day is normal, but anything more than that wouldn’t be uncommon for me.
I don’t feel like my life is so governed by sex, to tell you the truth. I may be a horny guy, but my sex drive doesn’t interfere with the natural course of my day.
June 25, 2008 at 11:51 am
Tom..have seen your pic…would love to watch you go thru the motions of masturbation.
yummy
June 25, 2008 at 2:10 pm
hmm sounds a bit creepy to me cant you keep that to yourself…. ps how old r u ?
June 25, 2008 at 2:50 pm
hmm, If your cute I ask to watch you masterbate.
Not to cause any friction terence, but I think most people on this site have heard worse thing.
why would you want to know my age? what does have to do with the price of tea in China?
peace out
June 25, 2008 at 5:06 pm
I say quietly to terence..see #11 below..those guys are really talking nasty.
wow
June 25, 2008 at 2:46 pm
Yeah. He is cute. I am a bit cuter, but no one ever asks for my pics. he he.
June 25, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Eastie3…I will take a pic and I will hope that you are showing a big ole hardon.
xoxoxo
June 25, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Eastie3:
just a BIT cuter? :-p
Do I have to challenge you to a cute-off?
I’m kidding, I’m kidding. I enjoyed your comment.
June 25, 2008 at 5:07 pm
Tom or Eastie3…can you guys put another video on line..
would love to see them.
June 25, 2008 at 6:00 pm
I am always up for a challenge
June 25, 2008 at 8:35 am
My Factor started decreasing arrond 27, i’m now 31 but went from 10 to 6 i will say, but suprisingly it’s starting to going up again, i think that it’s just an phase that our body experience.
i do have friends that are 48 years old and he is horny like a young horse, you can’t even look at his c**k when he is walking because he gets hard.
so i really believe that our bodies have a peak phase in our lives.
June 25, 2008 at 8:57 am
Hi all,
I wouldn’t be able to give my horniness factor a number. It changes. However, when I was younger, it was certainly higher.
I think it has a lot to do with what we can have and what we want.
When we are young, starting our sexual journeys, you are exploring new feelings and sensations, either alone or with others. Usually during this time, these experiences are on the top of our lists of “importance”.
As we get older, some people realize that it is no longer on the top of their list.
Right now, I’m single, but I can’t say I’m looking for someone. If someone comes along, then great, but I have no desire to search for him. I’m not a 1 nighter person, so my sex life is a little dull, but it’s right where it is supposed to be. I certainly wouldn’t constant sex thoughts to be a ruling factor in my life.
I’d rather my horniness factor be low while I’m single. I can focus on other things.
Will it peak again when I’m in a relationship….who know. Who cares. If my high or low level is a problem for the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, then he obviously isn’t the one.
I’d much rather look up and gaze into both eyes, rather than look down and gaze into one.
Craig.
June 25, 2008 at 9:09 am
Upon reflecting on what I wrote, I realized something new.
I think my horny thoughts have been replaced by romantic thoughts.
When the right guy comes along, I’ll test that hypothesis. I’ll let you know.
June 25, 2008 at 9:01 am
Yeah. As I get older, mine is doing the same. Granted, there are mornings that it wakes up WAY before I do, but still.. I think it goes with age. The Fall makes me the most horny. Love the cooler weather, breeze going up your shorts. AHHH. BOING. hehe OOPS..
Hope everyone is having a great day.
June 25, 2008 at 12:29 pm
I agree , temperate to cool weather does it for me. Peace.
June 25, 2008 at 7:25 pm
Yeah.. I am not sure where you are from, but nothing beats New England in the Fall. OMG. Just being able to wear a nice pair of shorts and a sweatshirt and let the boys swing.. Always gets me going.. I love the Fall.
June 25, 2008 at 10:51 am
when I was 17 I kept a diary of my erections, willingly and un-willingly just to see who or what was in control. I was startled to discovered I was erected with greater unwillingness than when I thought about it intentionally!!!for one month I was erect almost every morning after I slept the night away, and yet I only masterbated 6 times during the month willingly! [there were 4 wet dreams, that I don't remember, but there was the proof all over my underwear] now I am 21 and I have noticed a change in this pattern so that by 30 there will be no unwilling erections and voluntary activity once or twice a month! Even tho others find me attractive and sexy, I am in decline all the same. By 30 years of age I should be celebate and sterile and impotent! unless my libido shifts in purpose to a power and controll mode of expression which is manifested in serial kills, the sex is the bait the end product is the power and control dynamics! so really there is something therein for everyone from celebate saint to horrendus killer, all after 30!
June 25, 2008 at 1:32 pm
Libido after thirty, it’s all about morphing into something else, becoming a butterfly, transforming successes and failure into adult maturity to share and perfect in new ways of discovery, oh, I can’t wait to get old, say, why don’t you blogbuddies come right along with me, we can exchange auto-bio-graphical notes about our individual experiences! Oh, how I want to do with you, &you, &you, hey, you in the corner, I want to do it with you most of all! g’dday, maties!
June 25, 2008 at 2:11 pm
At 17 you only spanked it 6 times a month????
June 25, 2008 at 4:41 pm
well, mathematically speaking, 4 weeks in a month, 6 times at man handling myself and 4 humid Haines of nocturnal emmission equals 10 = depletion of my seminal reservoir every other day or night and my football career and basket ball court and practice demands, my social and scholastic obligations caused me to look forward to the several minutes of sheer pleasure with a regret of not having someone handy to share it with when I was ready! I conclude I was pretty active for a 17 year old, but that was just me! Share yours with me? uncut, I hope!
June 25, 2008 at 6:01 pm
I am cut. Big, but cut.
June 25, 2008 at 7:26 pm
I still think its funny that you kept a diary of your erections.. hehe. what didd you call it?
June 25, 2008 at 7:32 pm
I imagine some name like “hard times.”
June 25, 2008 at 7:35 pm
Tom..can you tell us what you think of when you are yanking the chicken?
June 25, 2008 at 7:03 pm
wow…you guys have got me going today..so many virel young men with big long hard penises.
I will have to masterbate tonight thinking of you two..If I was a fly on the wall watching…yummy
June 25, 2008 at 7:46 pm
Yeah. I like that. Hard Times. Or My Boners and me. or Ups and Downs of a teenager…
June 25, 2008 at 8:23 pm
a dick’s daily diary or D to the third power then I stroke it!
June 26, 2008 at 10:00 pm
haha.
love the names.
I’m still flabbergasted by the fact that you only wanked 6 times in one month!!! That sounds like a really good day for me.
I doubt I’d have enough pages if I kept a diary.
=]
June 25, 2008 at 11:01 am
my horniest factor changed from 12 down to 9 when is was in my mid 20′s but stayed there till my 40′s then it went to 5
June 25, 2008 at 11:19 am
From age 10 to about 14 my H Factor went to a 10.
Around age 30 it changed to about an 8-9.
Now some many years later it has dropped to about a 7-8.
I suspect that by the time I am about 101 it will be at a 5.
Thank God for some Latin blood in me.
June 25, 2008 at 11:51 am
there’s a fair a mount of scientific research that’s been done which shows you’re right on track with the millions of guys who have ever lived and breathed – even thought way too much – throughout the history of humankind!
evolutionary psychologists have been working the field of desire for long enough to be getting some prettty consistent and interesting data on the science of maturity (male and female) as it relates to drive, what people look for in a mate, what’s conscious and not conscious, etc.
if I can think of references to post – if anybody’s innterested – I will (after I actually do some work today!).
Thanks, as always for the opportunity to smile, Davey.
June 25, 2008 at 12:40 pm
Creative – to say the least…
As a gay man still living in the shadow of a very large “V” – I think that my sex drive has yet to peak. Looking forward to the ascent!
Ciao – J
June 25, 2008 at 12:47 pm
I wonder if the age at which one begins having mutual sex has anything to do with the decline.
I guess what I am thinking is, with every relationship, you are left with good and bad baggage. When another relationship begins, the previous ones may taint the new scene some what. We become more cautious and not willing to be hurt. Each relationship builds onto the other.
Not sure if this is what may cause a decline but I have to admit, sometimes I feel as we get older, the energy it takes to have a relationship could be better spent making one’s self whole.
Just thoughts…
June 25, 2008 at 1:14 pm
It is interesting to hear the comments of young guys admitting that their horniness has drooped. I admit to being way to the right of Davey’s age line, but I am very pleased to report that I have maintained a “business as usual” level of horniness. It certainly fluctuates, but I can definitely say that the peaks are just as frequent and as good as they were in my youth. Perhaps this is because I can be more open about what I think and feel. keeping healthy helps too (must buy that Abs workout!)
Of course, one person’s “10″ may be equivalent to another person’s “5″, so our scales are not similar.
But, don’t worry Davey, modern man is becoming better at multi-tasking, so we can now be consumed with c**k and do the painting, reading and hanging out at the same time!
June 25, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Don’t worry it will go up and down for the rest of your life. It all depends on stimulation you have.
As soon as you see some hot stud at the gym
in the shower with a semi- it can change at a
moments notice.
Or take at trip to the nudge beach and hang out
for a few hours, it will return pretty fast.
Men are visual creatures:
Just continue to eat right and exercise and you’ll
never lose what God give. Maybe less SEX but
it will be more dramatic and intense!
June 25, 2008 at 2:55 pm
Marlon…well spoken
June 25, 2008 at 4:44 pm
Are we serious about this? Its a well known fact that men peak sexually MUCH younger and women in their 30′s.
So Dave YOU re normal sorry to break it to ya
June 25, 2008 at 4:51 pm
My sex drive fluctuates day-to-day, week-to-week. Some days I’ll wake up and be gagging for it from the word go, even after repeated masturbations. On the other hand some days I wake up with little or no interest in sex at all. Similarly some weeks I’ll go through several partners, and then may not have sex for a month.
I feel the former stage coming on 
Right now?
It depends on what I feel I want at the time…what my priorities are at the time and how much time I have to indulge in life.
There is a very big stigma attached to guys who may spend time with partners (plural) without forming relationships – but I think it depends on what you take from it. I find I am more horny and ‘free’ when I am happiest and contented with myself and my life – a confidence to satisfy my current needs rather than any marriage stereotype of relationships I may (rightly or wrongly) perceive from society or myself.
JbX
June 25, 2008 at 4:56 pm
I am a history Buff, especially my own[lol]
George Armstrong Custer
[Dec. 5, 1839 -- June 25, 1876] aged 36
Battle of the Little Bighorn. no white survivors.
June 25, 2008 at 5:08 pm
DD…are you going to let me in on this conversation.
I am afraid of you today. really
June 25, 2008 at 6:18 pm
like I told Eric, I got rid of the bad blood this morning ’cause of his video, so I’m sociable for a while, so com’on in and sit a spell, kin’a miss your repartee and emotional outbursts[ ooppss!, just kidding] je cherche la tranquilite, mais elle ne se trouvera pas dans votre maison parceque nous sommes le chien et la chat a la meme cuvette de l’eau. un clin d’oeil pour lui!
June 26, 2008 at 4:21 am
Tu me fais toujours sourire “Dwight David” avec tes expressions en français, après tout, c’est ce qui est le plus important !. Merci dd.
June 26, 2008 at 5:21 am
Eric, mon ami, ou est-ce que tu l’as appris la belle langue francaise? a l’ecole, au rue, a la mangeoire avec les vaches et les brebis? si te plait, je te les donnerrai de temps en temps a fin de maintenir notre amitie! c’est bon sa et chaque ecureuil
tient sa noisette! a bientot!
June 26, 2008 at 5:35 am
Dwight “David”, you said once that “my secret dies with you”. I have no really secrets for you. So, here a bit about me :
So, i’m 22 years old, half French and half Norvegian (from my mother), born and living in France, will have 23 in november, 6’13″, blond, green eyes. My friends are saying of me that i’m a cute guy and cuter when i’m angry. I like much sport (i’ m muscled on any “parts” of my body”). My “horniness factor” is always on a high level (and i have always resources for sex) and last thing, i think my co-worker (he is 32 years old) wants to touch my butts (lol).
One of my friends, i don’t see him so often, he is a black American musician and homosexual, said that if i wanted to, i would have a lot of men waiting downstairs my flat. This should be a compliment or an incitement to debauchery (lol).
So, Dwight David, now you know more about me, i do regret not to be American to know and meet you. I’m sure you’re not the so bad guy you want to be. I bet you’re even more clever, well-educated and have more good manners that could ever imagine some commentators. So, show it to them!.
A request dd, tell me if, generally, you understand what i wrote in English.
June 26, 2008 at 6:38 am
I found this poem to dedicate to Eric and DD..great to see you guys have a good friendship.
Between The Miles
by Heather Stoop
Because existence can become severe
in one day,
just sense me and I’ll be there.
In the minds eye,
I’m not so far away.
If you hold out your hand,
in the whispers,
I’ll become the zephyr.
and besiege you.
If your eye’s upon the stars,
in the crystalline darkness,
I’ll become the moon.
And the light shall guide you.
If you rest upon the ground,
in the warmth,
I’ll become the grass.
And embrace you.
If you turn outside,
in the wetness,
I’ll become the rain.
An upon your forehead, kiss you.
If you free the air,
in the light of day,
I’ll become the sun.
And smile for you.
Between the miles-
if you need me.
If you need a friend.
Let me be the friend, I want to be.
June 26, 2008 at 11:49 am
Thanks Mike for bringing out this so beautiful poem of the “Dusty Bible” but i already knew the generosity and disinterested side of some of your verses.
June 26, 2008 at 12:08 pm
Eric…hope I have not offended you with any of my comments.
I quote the bible for myself and it is not intended at a weapon against anyone.
I am gay and really do have a relationship with God. I think that some (not their fault) have intrepreted my comments as a weapon to use against people. I can assure that is not the case or my desire.
I am just glad that you and DD are friends and talking together. He is a wonderful person and you seem to be the same.
I hope that I can hear from you on this.
Mike
June 26, 2008 at 12:29 pm
DD a recu une lettre de son ami en France et il lisait:
” Dwight ‘David’, une fois [tres loin d'ici] tu m’as dit que “mon secret tombera dans le sepulchre avec toi”! Je n’en ai pas! des secrets reels pour toi. et alors, ecoute les mots d’une petite parite de mon histoire personnelle: desuite, j’ai vingt-deux ans, la nationalite, demi-francais et l’autre demi- Norvegien[sa viens de la mere], je suis ne ici et a cet’instant j’habite en France, mon anniversaire de naissance de prochainne se presentera en mois de November.
Je suis de haute taille environ sept pieds=un pied de mesure est en egal a douze pouces et j’ai six pieds et 13 pouces] je me demande en secret combien de pouces a-t-il dans sa poche? partout autour de monde c’est un geant enorme!, puis, les cheveux blonds; mes beaux yeux blues, mes compatriots me raconteraient que je suis un beau mec exceptionel certainment quand je reste debout en colere!
J’aime beaucoup les sports [eh, mon corps, rempli de muscle, comme un fils d'Hercule cherche l'attention partout ou je ferai un voyage!
Ma "passion d'un corne dure" est toujours a haute niveau [il y a aotour de moi beaucoup d'occasion de me satisfaire] et dernierement, je crois que, lui qui travaille avec moi {il a trente-deux ans} qu’il a un grand desire de toucher mon cul! eehh, doucement, doucement, une bete sauvage, toi? et mon enculer favori!
Un de mes amis. il n’y viens pas souvent, il est non-blanc, americain, et musicien et enculeur, m’a dit si je veux le faire, il y aura un tas de mecs qui desirent decharger en bas chez moi! Je me suis bien excite de me branler le branleur, le roi de la branlage extra-ordinaire.
Puis, DD, c’est mon histoire court et pleine de curiosite de ta place aux etats-unis en amerique.
Je crois que tu n’es pas le monstre de l’enfer que les autres en pensent. Je parie que te es intelligent et une personne cultivee et intruite et aussi que tu as les belles manieres plus cultivees qu’un champ de chous francais. C’est pourquoi tu dois les montrer ta vrai force, je voudrais savoir la reponse de ma question, comprennez-vous l’anglais ou prefere-tu ma chose francaise toute naturelle, rien de coupage. Je te remercie pour l’amitie. Ecrit-sa-moi! au revoir.
June 26, 2008 at 1:38 pm
I’m a guest on davey’s blog !.
I didn’t write all you translated, you added some smutty words to my reply.
Funny, for my conversion but i’m 1.87 m, so i take unit-converter.0rg = 6,1352 ft ?
One day, i’ll learn you french we speak in 2008 dd,
bye.
June 26, 2008 at 2:05 pm
let’s begin:
you teach a person something and that person learns what you are teaching! Teach me french and I will learn it!
So I have learned from you that we are not friends, you taught me a good learning lesson! Merci beaucoup!
June 26, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Of course, i did understand what you wrote but your add…..
I do apologize dd, really, humbly, please i don’t want you as my enemy ! kiss on your cheek
June 26, 2008 at 3:44 pm
la reconciliation est un activite tres difficile pour moi! [ma main travaille gentiment entre tes cuisses en cherchant ta pipe parceque je suis pompier!] sa ne passe pas inapercu…! c’est vraiment bon! je la suce pour la re-etablissement de notre amitie et pour la Patrie et les tri-couleurs de France. merci, mon ami, maintenant je suis plein de toi. merci!
June 25, 2008 at 8:32 pm
Fear me not, oh ye of little faith, I can do wonders with my magic wand and a little lubricant in the right places! careful I don’t want to hurt you! what did you say your name was?
June 25, 2008 at 7:00 pm
DD…been watching these seriers on Youtube..
don’t know if this would be of interest to you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsJCIA70wDo
June 25, 2008 at 8:10 pm
Danke! sehr interesant! Das ist sehr nett von Ihnen. Ist mein Deutsch so schlecht? Konnen Sie mir den Namen eines schwulenfreundlich Artzes geben? Wie sagt man das auf englisch? Stehst Du auf blasen?
Magst Du dass wir uns zusammen einen runterholen?Stehst Du gebumst zu werden oder gefickt zu werden oder einen geblasen zu bekommen? ich spreche kaum Deutsch! ich muss Dich leider bitten, jetzt zu gehen, ok! auf weider sehen!
June 25, 2008 at 8:21 pm
not bad…let me answer you later.
but I must say that I got hard..if that answers your question about your german.
June 25, 2008 at 8:26 pm
You got hard after reading that in German? Damn. I need to get that translated.
June 25, 2008 at 8:33 pm
Eastie3 ..DD is a very sexy man…I get hard just thinking of him.
smile
June 25, 2008 at 8:37 pm
I just had it translated.. A bit confusing, but i didnt get hard. hehe. Granted, I dont know who he is. I bet he is very sexy.
June 25, 2008 at 9:14 pm
Eastie3…I have been carrying on with DD on this site for some months…he is just fun and smart and so I can get more stimulated with him than other people might.
You are a very nice guy.
thanks
June 26, 2008 at 4:10 pm
Biorhythms of the deceased are presented for entertainment and reference purposes; some enjoy comparing their rhythm with someone else (dead or alive) to understand compatibility. It is true that when you die, biorhythms no longer are relevant to the deceased who has a new life in another realm free from the bond of this physical plane.
June 25, 2008 at 5:31 pm
Hey Davey!
yeah i dont have much to say. Im 18 so im at my “peak” i guess. one (or two) night stands. the only thing ive noticed is that the H factor has continuously increasing, which is why i dont have a number. what if i rank this as a 10, but in a year its even higher? so right now its just HIGH. i love how a couple times your H factor goes above 10 =P
im out!
June 25, 2008 at 5:36 pm
Everyone seems to be over internalizing this.
It mostly about the peak and decline of testosterone, nothing more. Few people realize how we guys are motivated and driven by this simple chemical.
Several years ago, for several months I gave myself injections of testosterone. That was an aha moment for me. I swaggered, wanted to f**k, seek pleasure, and conquer. I realized what had been the driving force for going on the hunt every night when I was in my twenties. I also understood why we went to war, had to conquer, sailed around the world, built tall buildings, pyramids, etc. Testosterone drives us to do some pretty wild & crazy things….
June 25, 2008 at 6:31 pm
So testosterone checkmates the brain?
hhmmm! So why the brain? my Darwinian subscribing blogbrother?
June 25, 2008 at 7:00 pm
Ob brother, first you complain about your perfect body suddenly being not so perfect anymore. Now you complain about your horniness or lack thereof. Davey, it is called maturing. It happens to everyone. You are not Peter Pan living in Neverneverland. Welcome to the “growing up and older” years. Geez, you have nothing to cry about yet anyway. I hate it when the pretty people bitch.
June 25, 2008 at 7:05 pm
Hi Danny…how are you today?
Ha ha…You know I have always gotten off listening to the “pretty people” bitch..
smile
June 25, 2008 at 7:08 pm
Mike…are you on AOL or Yahoo Messenger?
June 26, 2008 at 6:39 am
you can locate me on ym
mikecj@swbell.net
June 25, 2008 at 8:58 pm
My horniness factor graph probably looks like an EKG. Or the scribblings of a deranged man- much like the rest of my life. It pretty much follows manic/depressed episodes. Although I’ve never really found much satisfaction in sex- but guaranteed the next time I’m horny I’ll be pounding the pavement looking for it.
June 25, 2008 at 9:20 pm
Guys, there’s a lot to look forward to if you keep an open mind. After an initial peak in my early teens, my horniness decreased into my early twenties (mainly through stubborn suppression, I suppose). Since then it has been uphill to a wonderful plateau — between 9 and 10 on the Davey Scale. Now in my 40′s I eagerly get off once a day on average; experience has definitely paid off in terms of technique and timing (I’ll try stuff now that I never would have in college). There are minor fluctuations — summer definitely makes me hornier, while toward the end of the work week I’ll sometimes choose sleep over fun (but even that’s OK, because I’ll just do double time the next shift). Overall, though, my sex drive has never been stronger. For you younger dudes, trust me — the best is yet to come!
June 25, 2008 at 9:37 pm
There are many factors that cause the libido to fluctuate; the experience of youth is not a good gauge of expectations because the abundance of testosterone peaks sometime in the teen-age years and continues to fall from that high as we age. The experience of this hormone varies in the individual according to a number of factors, some being hereditary and others being cycles of the environment.
Clearly the seasons have their effect on hormone levels as well as exposure to the sun. The rhythms represented by astrology can also be factored in as some signs are lustier than others. I place a great deal of importance in the Chinese Astrology which in a similar way predicts certain characteristics to people born under the influence of a particular sun cycle.
The Sun really has a lot to do with our modes, inspiration and motivation. A waning sex drive may well be due to some of the unusual things that are going on within the Sun, reference the volcano observed for the first time by solar observers last month; this can easily be the cause of the unusual weather we have been having lately.
The biorhythmic cycles we each have based on our birthrate are clearly representative of the things that are going on in our bodies. You can input your information into the link I have attached here to discover the cycles that are sequencing now as well as in the past and future.
The wisdom of this science has been proven especially in the old Soviet Union where they would closely monitor every person who was involved with the deployment of missiles in their nuclear arsenal. We did the same thing here in America with the airline industry and the scheduling of pilots.
The one fact remains very clear, if you have higher levels of testosterone as a teen, you will have higher levels when you are older. When sexual interest falls away, it is not necessarily due to hormone levels.
Psychological stress can have a very negative impact on the libido as well as finding your circulatory system clogging up with cholesterol and toxins building up in your body that were not present when you had the lust of youth. To regain that lust you must discover what has caused it to depart from your consciousness.
I know that the body’s seven Energy Chakras are activated at different parts of our lives to give guidance for the lessons that we learn in this existence; this happens differently for everyone and at different times in their life cycle.
A person who practices transcendental meditation may quickly depart from the lower lustful Chakra as their consciousness and the energy therein moves towards the more ethereal state found in the Crown. People of a transcendental nature will discover that they are no longer controlled by the hormones of their youth.
Good or bad, we create the world we want and this is no less true with the bodily processes that keep the soul grounded to this physical realm!
June 26, 2008 at 4:25 am
I noticed several individuals in your “Celebrity Bio-Rhythms” chart are dead, what use could they possible have for your serves now, aren’t they in GOD’s hands now, youre not suggesting youre more influential beyond your “manifest destiny” in death than the rest of us?
June 25, 2008 at 9:49 pm
im 18..so i get pretty horny…really horny…but i remember being hornier at 16-17.
i masterbate more now..so..yea im still pretty horny.
June 26, 2008 at 9:21 pm
I’m still 17…really close to 18, but I think that I’m hornier now rather than being hornier at 16. It might just be me, but I’m definitely hornier now.
June 25, 2008 at 10:15 pm
haha.
I’m horny ALL the time.
I’m 17…about to be 18 on the 30th.
sooo…..
I’m pretty much horny every day, anytime, any where. It can be quite frustrating from time to time since I don’t know when or where I’ll get a boner, but it’s great haha.
June 26, 2008 at 4:11 am
Happy Birthday, wish I could be there with you to help you with your “boner” problem, you sound like lots of fun!
June 26, 2008 at 2:00 pm
I’m the same way the only difference between you and I is I turn 18 two days later Happy Birthday!!!!
June 26, 2008 at 2:09 pm
correct english: between you and me!
June 26, 2008 at 9:04 pm
Thanks for the Happy Birthdays…
=]
I’m excited.
and Happy Birthday Zach.
June 27, 2008 at 5:52 am
Happy Birthday, got something you want to share with me? you know I want it for your birthday!
June 29, 2008 at 5:57 pm
haha.
=]
June 25, 2008 at 10:22 pm
when you exercise too much your libido falls because your body thinks its in stress and nature doesn’t want to produce in times of stress. just like women they have their periods further and further apart.
June 26, 2008 at 6:46 am
OK. So today is a TEN..
June 26, 2008 at 7:43 am
he he..
ten as a “day”
or
ten as in “lenght”
or then in “horny”?
smile
June 26, 2008 at 9:05 am
Umm.. Close on all counts.
June 26, 2008 at 9:13 am
Eastie3…you make me happy and smile.
thanks
June 26, 2008 at 1:15 pm
I am yours anytime anywhere! and you don’t have to marry me!
June 26, 2008 at 5:05 pm
I know exactly what you mean. I’m 23, and I can see the difference from even 2 years ago…
June 29, 2008 at 1:03 pm
You want to see a REAL change in your libido…?
Wait till you hit your 60′s
In some ways it is a relief,
after you get over the shock of not really giving a dam any more.
June 27, 2008 at 4:13 am
I’m sure your libido will rise again. I guess it’s just a phase.
I am 21 and I was never hornier. The problem is that I can’t find someone to have sex.
June 27, 2008 at 5:59 am
well, I’m not into “everything” but I’ll bet if we got together we would both “stagger” away from our encounter of the third kind, satisfied and smiling! no libido defecit for the two of us together!
June 27, 2008 at 12:37 pm
Thats why there’s Viagra, and many another assortments of beautifully crafted drugs designed for this type of “speed bumps” in life. HGH helps with that also, but be warned, its HGH not GHB.
Im not promoting the use of pills or drugs or anything like that, its just that for every downer there is an upper, for every ying there is a yang, for every negative there is a plus and so on and so on, not just pharmaceutically.
In anycase its normal. Better to cool down gradually than all at once.
June 27, 2008 at 4:58 pm
and for every drug bust there is a prison cell and jail time and a ruined future, life and family and another brain potential flushed down the toilet! sad very sad!
June 27, 2008 at 7:30 pm
there are 3 untruths in life,
lies, damn lies and STATISTICS…
but anyway, this is interesting…
i also noticed a drop in my libido when i reached 20. but i think it’s not really progressive. hahaha…
it’s just that i was hornier during my teenage years… probably due to hormonal surge! eryt?
June 28, 2008 at 10:52 am
Life is change.
Everything changes, including sex drive.
Simply, biological needs make it so that the youthful members of the species have a higher sex drive in order to preserve the species. Or, as they say in Idaho, “When the potato is big enough, it’s good enough”!
So as soon as the kids get hairy down there, they are ready to f**k their brains out all the time. Thanks to religion and state laws, we thwart these biological imperatives to keep things under control. Otherwise the 14 yr olds would be doing it in the road, as John Lennon once suggested. By the time you’re 20ish, the hormones start to slow down.
Alas, poor Davey, you’re on the edge of being over the hill.
But there is hope! We gay men seem to have a longer, slower decline than our heterosexual fellows. And we are always willing to lend a helping hand to a friend who needs some assistance in getting it up.
Enjoy, and Be well,
June 28, 2008 at 4:58 pm
Even better: “When the c**k crows, it’s time to count your chickens!”
a Great mind working in Idaho! I would up it and out it with you anytime. one smart domestic fowl keeper. I loved Mr. Potato head, I would make his dink out of play-doe and everyone in class would scream and run to the teacher shouting I was doing naughty things again! 2nd & 3 rd graders! I said I’m out here and I skipped the next two grades! stupidity can be a great motivator!
June 28, 2008 at 8:02 pm
oh little boy…what nauty thing were you doing…can you describe them?
July 4, 2008 at 12:02 am
Hahaha, i am at my peak, i reckon. still 20 and goin 21 and it aint stoppin yet~ but hey, its all in the mind set but who knows,it might just peak again for ya~ hem~!?
July 6, 2008 at 3:34 pm
Sex Drive…. Well, I don’t think that I even have a sex drive, although it does peak slightly when I’m in a relationship. I don’t like masturbating, b/c I don’t like the feeling I have afterwards (like I have done something wrong). I haven’t sexual intercourse in over a year, and It’s been more than one month since my last ejaculation. I guess its b/c I have the jones for someone special and I’m saving everything for this one unique individual. Or it could be that I am probably the pickiest person alive!
xoxo,
Vincent
July 25, 2008 at 12:31 pm
Great post..I really like your website.
It’s not boring like many I have come across on the internet. But enough of me being a kiss ass already.
Hmm well I’d say my horniness factor right now is 9. It peaked at 15(even though I was never having sex then)but I was still very err horny. And it still is on a peak.
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April 11, 2010 at 6:27 am
Actually, according to your graph, you peaked from 18-20 not 19-21.
Just thought I’d say….
;P