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Join me live on Ustream tonight at 7:30 PM EST (NYC time zone). Click here for my Ustream channel.
In the meantime, please ask your questions in the comments below. I’ll answer as many as possible!
February 4, 2010 at 9:12 am
DAMN! I can’t watch it! I have to congratulate people who I don’t know…
February 4, 2010 at 9:17 am
What would suggest doing when things just seems impossible, as if there was no place else to go, like the way some feel after a breakup or a particularly harsh fights with close friends?
February 5, 2010 at 12:42 pm
“This too will pass” is an important phrase to
remember. I find it particularly enlightening to
find that one can be depressed for a while,
thinking all is lost, and then realize days or
weeks later that the situation is really not like
that at all. Had we acted on our depression we
might have hurt ourselves, our friends or family.
It seems that if we can get into a mind set where we
experience things as if they were a film or show passing
us by, that our own self respect is not impacted unless
we ourselves buy into that.
I’ve found that if, when getting into a place where
I might do something I’ll later regret, I see what
I am doing and shift to a more loving, accepting
approach. Remembering what the priorities are is
key. For example, relating in a supportive manner
with friends and family is a whole lot more im-
portant than is being right. Being right is
basically worthless.
Of course a lot of many people’s upbringing runs
counter to this. People are taught the importance
of being right by parents who model this behavior.
How much better would it be if they only modeled
supportive, live & let live behavior.
February 4, 2010 at 9:19 am
A lot of people in this world always wish they could go back in time and change sometime about their life. For me I feel out past is what makes who we are today and we should always learn from our past, good or bad. But Davey, here is the million dollar question…
“If given ONE chance to go back in time to change ONE thing in you life, what (if any) would it be?”
You bring joy, not only into mine but, into a lot of people’s lives with your uplifting words and mind challenging posts. Keep up the good work! Love ya Davey!!!!
February 4, 2010 at 9:25 am
Will you ever consider coming to panama? Any thoughts on someone who know he’s gay, but currently is too involved to the church and doesn’t know what to do? Someone who’s grandparents and parents would be offended by him coming out?
February 4, 2010 at 7:41 pm
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION….
February 4, 2010 at 7:43 pm
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION…. PLEAAAAAAAAASEEEEE
February 4, 2010 at 9:34 am
Davey why do you hurt others?
February 4, 2010 at 9:52 am
Could you be more specific?
February 4, 2010 at 10:11 am
my friend, i believe dave is davey. so yes i will try..all you have to do is go to your catholic post from yesterday. this specific enough? grazie amico
February 4, 2010 at 11:23 am
Davide, I don’t think Davey’s Catholic post was hurtful. I think it’s time to bring Catholicism into the light of modernity.
February 4, 2010 at 4:25 pm
Churches are built on tradition. The Catholic Church has doctrine – what is a following if it is ever changing? I would say it is nothing! That post was clearly aimed as a hate post – I cannot believe that he continues to preach love and peace – yet has so much hate in him for a Church.
February 4, 2010 at 5:38 pm
The doctrine of the Catholic Church has changed so many times over the last several centuries that it would be impossible to list them all here.
February 5, 2010 at 8:16 am
erick-this is not true. do you even know what doctrine is?
February 4, 2010 at 10:04 am
Davey… you like the beach, speedos, hot guys and to travel. Never thought about visiting Brazil before ?
And how is Chipotle doing ? Haven’t heard from her for a while.
February 4, 2010 at 10:20 am
Davey how tall are you, I think you’ve said you were 5’8ish or so. I’m 5’8 and gay as well, has this height ever been detrimental to you in the gay community, because I always feel short next to other gays.
February 4, 2010 at 1:14 pm
You feel short because you make height important in your head. Height really doesn’t matter and you will always feel inadequate because you will always be the same height, until you age, but then you will only shrink. You have no control over this, so might as well accept it as it is and enjoy it. I’m 5’4″… so super short, but I embrace it, and don’t really care in the long run. I prefer being with taller guys too, so it makes the playing field much bigger
February 4, 2010 at 4:08 pm
I was taught in sex ED (under guidance in high school) that homosexual men were unusually tall. There were other crocks of s**t displayed on the subject but I did like the idea that it could be genetic rather than learned behavior or environment. A few years later the Psychiatric association said they no longer thought it was deviant behavior and were asked not to attempt to change it. The AMA was not in favor of their observation and still is a bone of contention and the two of them had been estranged over this none issue ever since. I remember the song lyrics “Short people got no reason to live” A short guy next to me started to cry and I hugged him and said it’s not exactly a picnic being ^’3″ I hit my head on a lot of things for example not always aware I don’t fit following some one else. I got him to stop crying and start laughing in mere seconds. Some of us have gifts we don’t realize.
February 4, 2010 at 6:48 pm
Gary Bing, Huh?
February 4, 2010 at 11:17 am
Can’t wait, I will probably be able to watch…
What are you going to talk about?
February 4, 2010 at 11:22 am
Will you also record this session? I want to watch it but I have school
you should record it and post it after
February 4, 2010 at 4:18 pm
Ugh that would be too simple now wouldn’t it. Ever wonder why the bottom fell out on Blue Ray players? Maybe because of streaming video on Netflix means you don’t need a player or a disk. Want copy? put it in a video file. You can watch the football game in person or watch it live on TV (actually that’s better you see more) Or you can TIVO it and use your precious weekend for something else. Why don’t more people do this is beyond me. No TIVO good. Save monry use your computer for that even.
February 4, 2010 at 11:22 am
Hi Davey! Who has been the most important role model / source of inspiration in your life?
February 4, 2010 at 11:30 am
Davey wavey! How do you feel about drag queens and their impact on the gay culture.
Love xoxox
b
February 4, 2010 at 11:35 am
Just found out that it’ll be 1:30 AM here in Luxembourg when you go live, but I won’t let that keep me from watching:)
February 4, 2010 at 11:37 am
How do you deal with loneliness?
February 4, 2010 at 11:52 am
My question is:
If you could have one superpower, what would it be and why?
I have one, but it’s kinda weird and not the one that I would choose. About 95% of the time I can find a parking space very close to where I’m trying to go – even in the rain, at a shopping mall during the holidays. It always makes me smile when it works, and it makes me wonder if I’ve been “bad” on the rare occasions when it doesn’t work. (:
Peace, Love, and Truth,
Todd in VA
February 4, 2010 at 10:04 pm
Todd: A joke related to your post…
A blonde was driving down a street under the scorching sun. She had an important meeting and when she reached the building where the meeting was going to be held, she discovered that there was no vacant space to park her car.
Desperate and confused, she looked up and said, “God, take pity on me and find me a parking place. If you do so, I will visit the church daily, donate half of my this month’s salary and give up alcohol for the rest of my life.”
Miraculously, an empty parking place appeared out of nowhere in front of the blonde. The blonde pleased by the discovery, looked up and said, “Nevermind, I found one myself!”
February 4, 2010 at 12:01 pm
OK, I decided to ask a question
Do you have some plans to come/move to Europe?
)))
February 4, 2010 at 12:29 pm
Do you think 911 was an inside job?
February 4, 2010 at 1:18 pm
Whats your favorite color??
February 4, 2010 at 4:24 pm
That’s an Arsenio Hall lame question just like women who ask celebrities “boxers or briefs,” but we all know the answer to that one so if I’m around I’ll ask that stupid question, or a better one “Davey do you hang to the right or the left?” (your c**k that is)
February 4, 2010 at 1:24 pm
What gives you a hardon?
What websites do you j******f to?
February 4, 2010 at 3:11 pm
Thats really funny, what gives DW a hard on. My question is, Do you have a favorite dog trick you may have seen or taught to Chipotle?
February 4, 2010 at 4:26 pm
If you look to the right and left margins on the site of the blog I think you just might find the answer to that question. He is actually being paid for it I think.
February 4, 2010 at 3:25 pm
What do you make of the Kurt Vonnegut quote, “Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter can be said to remedy anything.”
The truth that you create is the only truth that matters, don’t let anyone tell you any different.
February 4, 2010 at 3:28 pm
Davey Wavey, my friend!
You’re beautiful. My question is, how long have you and your boyfriend been together? How is he and how is everything? Do you talk often? You don’t seem to get to see him very much… I’m in a 2-year relationship and my boyfriend and I go to college soooo far away from each other. I have a feeling we’ll always be good, but got some tips? xoxo
February 4, 2010 at 3:28 pm
Davey,
I know you are very health conscience. My question is: If you were given a free pass to eat however you wanted for a whole day, what would be your food choices?
Doug
February 4, 2010 at 4:24 pm
What’s something (or someone) you’ve done once and would never do again?
February 4, 2010 at 4:49 pm
Did you go to Sydney by yourself and was it hard to meet new people over there?
February 4, 2010 at 4:52 pm
sad
I’m have to be out doing a group project with people during the time of the stream so I’m going to miss it…
February 4, 2010 at 5:27 pm
What do you think love is? Is it all the same for parents, friends, and lovers or are there different kinds of love? How do you know when love is present with another person in your life? What are the signs?
February 4, 2010 at 5:49 pm
My question asks you why do you think that ageism in the gay community remains so virulent? It seems that with so many guys if you’re over 30 then you’re old or on the verge of being old and this opinion seems to exist with those under 30 and all too often with those who are over that silly number.
February 4, 2010 at 6:40 pm
What are you doing for valentines day?
February 4, 2010 at 6:50 pm
Speaking of Davy Wavy “Uncut”, have you been reading that the American Academy of Pediatrics is considering revising their neutral position statement on routine neonatal (male) circumcision? What are your feelings on the matter. I believe they should not change the policy to actually recommend it. Please share your views and encourage others to write to the AAP on this issue.
February 5, 2010 at 1:03 pm
I’m not an expert on AIDS re Cut or Uncut. I do
have views on this subject.
It seems to me that parents should leave
the decision on circumcision to their sons. I
strongly believe that the human male was and is
supposed to have a foreskin. I think it has useful
functions whether one is sexual with females,
males or with one’s self. I think every boy should
have the opportunity to have a complete penis.
Then, if, as an adult he wants to have part of it
cut off, he is free to do so.
And, I suggest that fathers or single mothers
introduce their sons (cut or uncut) to effective
use of condoms during sex discussions BEFORE they
get to an age when they might be sexually active.
I haven’t seen anything that proves that AIDS or
other sexually transmitted disease will be
prevented if one is circumcised. I don’t think
any of the studies have been sufficiently
scientific to prove much of anything.
February 4, 2010 at 6:55 pm
My question is: When you are on these junkets all over the world, are you working with clients? Are these business trips, or are they extended holidays?
February 4, 2010 at 7:05 pm
Davey,
What gay person, living or dead, have you looked up to as a role model or a major influence?
February 4, 2010 at 7:19 pm
Would you ever consider doing a meet and greet event for your fans? I’d love to take a pic w/ you!
February 5, 2010 at 1:18 pm
I applaud this idea Brandon G!
Some years ago some men who frequented a
particular aol chat room decided to meet at a
bar in their area. It was a great event and was
then organized as a periodic happening. I think
it would be great if Davey Wavy blog participants
in various areas got together.
In the case of the chat room, the participants
themselves organized the event. As I recall, one
member called out a date, time and place and it
happened. I can’t remember if someone created
name tags or if the men simply picked stick-ons
at the door. As I recall, the event had a begin-
ning and an end. I remember that I attended with
a fellow I met through the chat room and that I had
been seeing for a while. We both enjoyed meeting
guys we had only wrote to in the chat room. And,
for some men who might be afraid to meet (alone)
someone from the chat room it provided a “public”
place to meet.
I don’t think that Davey Wavey blog participants
should expect Davey himself to organize such an
event. Are you the guy who will make it happen?
And, if so, where will the first one happen?
I could imagine it happening in P-town this Spring
or Summer.
February 5, 2010 at 11:55 am
Send the photo when you have a dat of Aussie
Con grates on the photo shoot
Peace
NY maybe this summer
February 8, 2010 at 1:18 am
that second picture looks like ur taking the lamp in the but ^.^