Just when I thought I had seen and heard it all.
Let’s be clear: Personally, I think our various fetishes make the world a more interesting place. Our fetishes make all of us more diverse and colorful, but that doesn’t mean that each and every fetish is going to resonate with me. Case in point, today’s talky blog via my second channel about sneaker fetishes.
Of course, a lot people probably think the same thing about my gay twin fantasies. One man’s kink is another man’s vanilla.
January 16, 2012 at 10:26 am
I don’t really know how I feel about this fetus, I met a guy that had a fetus of people just sitting on his face, didn’t matter if it was fully clothed or not as long as they were sitting on his face. It was very awkward. Also, I found it interesting that there was an orb in your video, like a ghosty orb from 0:41-0:46.
January 16, 2012 at 10:33 am
It was a piece of dust. -_-
January 16, 2012 at 10:43 am
You’re right Mikee! There was a mysterious ghostly orb floating through the picture! Strange! The strangest fetish I’ve encountered was someone I met once who had a latex rubber balloon fetish. Nothing turned him on more than having a balloon rubbing against his skin, and he had these huge 6 foot diameter balloons that he would fill a room with, so they’d be pushing against him. I filled the bed with balloons of all sorts, including some helium ones floating around, and he went bonkers! It’s like the saying, “One man’s junk is another man’s treasure!” One man’s nightmare is another man’s heaven!
January 17, 2012 at 1:19 am
I agree with Starga1: It’s most likely a piece of dust really close to the lens of and camera and out of focus.
January 30, 2012 at 7:02 pm
I saw that also.haha! love it
January 16, 2012 at 10:56 am
I was with you until you related it to gay marriage. Straight people have weird fetishes, too. While incredibly bizarre, There is nothing inherently gay about wearing a sneaker like a gas mask.
Still love you, Davey, but silly conclusion.
January 16, 2012 at 11:54 am
Yeah, that bit made me double take. I like your blog, but straight people are just a kinky. Didn’t get that ending thought.
January 16, 2012 at 12:39 pm
I agree. I know plenty of straight friends with strange fetishes and as an ER doctor, I have a seen a few of them go awry both gay and straight. The anti-gay marriage movement seems largely codified by religion.
January 16, 2012 at 1:42 pm
Yeah, bringing marriage into it is a mistake. Straight people have fetishes too. If the argument was, “Some straight people view these fetishes as a reason that gays shouldn’t get married,” it would be be better because that’s easily countermanded. But, as you phrase it, it sounds like your own inability to process the fetish puts you firmly in the “why should we ever let gays marry if this is how they’re going to behave” camp. I know that’s NOT what you’re saying but you might consider rephrasing your final comments to make it clearer.
January 19, 2012 at 12:00 pm
Agreed. My straight friends have some of the weirdest fetishes! Reality is, I think ANYONE’s sex life, if made public, would fill the world with shock and horror! Everyone has sex, everyone has it in their own way. Kudos for creativity, and knowing what works for you!
January 16, 2012 at 11:21 am
Well Davey, I think the gas mask think is still kind of soft for a sneakers fetishist. Do some research and you’ll be amazed of the variety of fluids that can end up in a pair of sneakers…
You never know how you can end up as a feet/sneaker/boots/socks/whatever-feet-related fetishist.
I got my foot fetish one night at a straight friend’s place. We were quite drunk after supper, I was on my knee in front of him (part of the “you know, you can’t say you don’t like it as long as you don’t try” routine), and he raised one foot to my chest to prevent me from getting closer.
The first thing that came to my mind was to kiss his sneaker. And, unfortunately for me, he told me “This, you can do.”
Then happened something similar to NLP anchoring, and since then I’ve to live with a new fetish.
This being said, sneaker fetish, underwear fetish or sweat fetish (http://www.breaktheillusion.com/sex/do-you-sweat-sweat/), what’s the difference? And what’s the difference with the straight men fetish for high heels? (d’you know some of them even lick them? Yeah, yeah, I know, come to Daddy, that’s why straight people shouldn’t get married.)
I do agree with Viewtiful_Justin on you conclusion; but, hay, I was beginning to think you were perfect. It’s good to remember that you’re still human
Love you.
January 16, 2012 at 12:09 pm
Hey Davey,
Gas Mask – no big deal in the privacy of your own home or dungeon or gym.
If you really want to see some crazy stuff, go to xtube and search for “sneaker”.
I have my own fetishes, but this one makes me giggle.
January 16, 2012 at 12:20 pm
awww that is kinda cute. I see what the guy is talking about. I have always fancied taller guys, but my first boyfriend was WAY shorter than me. Now I find shorter guys way cute. He also made me be the bottom, so now I prefer to bottom. :/
January 16, 2012 at 12:24 pm
Davey I agree with you walking around with a sneaker like a gas mask is just too weird. But then maybe someone could think my interest in the fetish sites like Naked Combat or Bound Gods is just crazy. So the title of this talky is right…to each his own
January 16, 2012 at 12:39 pm
Davey,
I love how your emotion seemed to kick in for a moment there. I don’t understand some kink fetishes either. The bed full of shaving cream, food up the butt, water sports. My shrink just passed suddenly and he was an expert on human sexual behavior… I may never find the answers but I am glad there are people like you still asking the question.. What is that s**t all about?
If I had a fetish, it would be ways to tantalize you by stimulating those gorgeous nipples ! mwah!
January 16, 2012 at 12:42 pm
Ernie you are not the only guy I imagine who would want at those nipples OMG let me at them
January 16, 2012 at 12:49 pm
Your voice is so sexy in this
<3
January 16, 2012 at 1:12 pm
AHAHAHAHAHA it’s like “this is why we can’t have nice things” lol. I agree Davey. I want to applaud the humiliation semi BDSM nature of the boyfriend tying the sneaker to his face…on the other hand WTF????!!!! I guess it really does take all kinds. It just takes…ALL…kinds lol.
January 16, 2012 at 1:35 pm
Straight people have fetishes just as bizarre and wierd…just go into a porn flick shop[ and see the fetish section. Having sex with a 85 year old super granny is not main stream. So, I get the odd nature of the snicker mask but there are plenty of straight peopkle that harbor wild and wierd fetishes as well.
January 16, 2012 at 1:40 pm
Love your voice, sore throat = sexy (er)
January 16, 2012 at 2:33 pm
Dear Davey Wavey;
I know that there are some things about body odor that are very erotic, like the smell of an athlete (showered previous to the exercise) having sweat all over his body, and yes, I’ve experienced that the scent of cologne applied with care to be a slight accent, not an overpowering body application, can also be an aphrodisiac (Less is more, like makeup, when applied sparingly can be an alluring accent).
So, when I hear about a sneaker being put to someone’s face in a mall, and tied around his head, it’s about letting a loved one do something outrageous in public, his having been given control, and inviting the public to be a voyeur in his sex life with his boyfriend.
It’s not as common as a pool-hall rape fantasy with twin boys in a pool parlor part of a gay dance club, but also not as shocking to the public if it was done in a mall.
Like you, I don’t have the fetish myself regarding sneakers, but considering what gay men in general have been told what they’re not allowed to do, like exist, it’s not surprising that when growing up, they get as close as they can to the people that they have a crush on, and that may be as close as a pair of unattended sneakers in a locker-room.
That is why I’m NOT really surprised at the sneaker fetish, considering how cruel and obnoxious the custodians in our culture have been towards homosexuals.
Peace!
January 16, 2012 at 6:42 pm
I wouldn’t have done this one if I were you Davey. Very good chance it could hurt a fragile person here.
January 16, 2012 at 6:58 pm
Hold me, Davey. Hold me. Guess that just goes to show that there are many darker aspects of human sexuality that not all of us feel comfortable with or even understand. Been meaning to tell you that I love the mole on your right brow, it’s so cute aww. And no I don’t mean that in a sexual way. Keep up the good work, your wonderful videos brighten up the day! xoxo
January 16, 2012 at 7:09 pm
Like a gas mask?! Wow i…. Just wow
January 16, 2012 at 7:12 pm
Really Davey, calling someone the gay equivalent of retarded? Don’t belittle someone for their fetish. I think you were down right mean in your video and bullied someone for who they are and what they like. This is the exact same situation from your recent video where someone said that’s retarded, and you did nothing.
January 16, 2012 at 7:51 pm
You are so funny on this video davey, and love your voice by the way..sexy. I am sure straight people have some very weird fetishes as well, and they are still allowed to get married!!?
January 16, 2012 at 9:16 pm
Ohhhh you bit it on this one Davey! Gay or straight marriage has nothing Nothing to do with fetishes! (unless of course your fetish involves marriage or cuckoo). You seemed to miss the key words that the other man used… “The humiliation” yes it may seem horrid to you to have a SO (significant other) tie a sneaker around their face like a gas mask but to that guy it is hot… He enjoys sneakers in a sexual way and enjoys being humiliated in a sexual way so his SO Dom combined them into one…
I do home everyone finds in their lives someone that is willing to indulge their fetishes that way
January 16, 2012 at 10:29 pm
There are things I have seen in adult videos that just make me go “Ewooo! Well, what ever floats your boat but NOT in public. That is a bit too domineering/ embarassing for me. But I know Vanilla does get better with chocolate sauce, whipped cream and a cherry. I’ll be the cherry. (Damn, too personal, Again!) But remember these fetishes are NOT limited to the GLBT world. Straights (shudder) have them, too. We just don’t visit the right websites. (Yay for us! I wouldn’t be able to eat for a week! Even the thought. . . Well, be openminded. Zac Ephron at the beach. Zac Ephron in those swimming shorts. Okay, now I feel better.
January 16, 2012 at 10:50 pm
OK, f*****g a sneaker?? That is a bit weird. Now f*****g a warm banana peel that has been nuked for 15 seconds…now your talking!!! LMAO
O’h I love this site.
Thanks for the laugh
January 16, 2012 at 11:04 pm
You sound hot with a sore throat!
January 17, 2012 at 4:45 am
The way you flutter your hands looks like you are about to fly away.
January 17, 2012 at 8:53 am
Like I said on Youtube… if you’re sick, throw some clothes on (perhaps a scarf)! Yes, it’s possible I’m channelling your mother…. LOL.
Take care of you (and your High Tops)!
January 17, 2012 at 1:02 pm
I think the biggest thing here isn’t about how “weird” this guys fetish is or not, I think that the conversation that really should me happening is the concept of consent. If the sneaker fetish seeking guy completely consented to engage in this in a public space BECAUSE he likes the degradation then is there an issue? I think the perspective that you might be coming from Davey is that you find the act of tying the sneaker to someones face and parading them around the mall to be abusive? (maybe I’m reading you wrong)
Ultimately if this guy was engaging in the sneaker face tying with consent then whatevers, good on him. To say that this is a reason that “straight people” don’t want to allow gays to get married is 1. Ridiculous and 2. Isn’t acknowledging any of the kinky straight or kinky queer individuals that DO exist in the world. Statistically speaking, “A survey on the sexual behavior of American students published in 1997 and based on questionnaires had a response rate of about 8–9%. It results showed 15% of openly homosexual males, 21% of openly lesbian and female bisexual students, 11% of heterosexual males and 9% of female heterosexual students committed to BDSM related fantasies.”* This is a small survey but gives a hint of what is going on in the straight community, in just the realm of BDSM, never mind when we start talking about other fetishes. Just because the LGBTQ community is more comfortable about talking about our kinks or fetishes, doesn’t mean that there are more of us that are kinky than the “straight community.” Remember, we are a minority so numbers wise there has got to be more “straight” kinky folks than “gay” kinky folks…just saying.
* Elliott, Leland / Brantley, Cynthia, Sex on Campus, 1997, Random House, New York
January 17, 2012 at 1:24 pm
Just a thought, if they are at the mall the sneaker is new. It has a new smell to it. Not the sweaty smell we’re thinking of. This is domineering plan and simple. The sneaker is just a prop. As much as I hate the fact some people do get off on it. As much as I’d like to have the guy show some backbone and chuck the sneaker at the other guy and leave, some people get of at being submissive. Again what you do in private is one thing but in public! Well, Davey was effected by the sexualy loud people in the hotel room next to him. Catch 22. Where do we draw the line? I guess it comes down to respecting others. Those doing and those hearing. I always listen to my adult videos with earphones so the other people in the apartment can’t hear and block the TV so people coming into the building can’t see. I guess I have gotten off the mark. What was I talking about?
January 17, 2012 at 7:16 pm
Davey — I’m going to comment here since I feel you have created a “safe space” to talk about things like this. Over time, I have found that since there’s not a “big following” in this particular fetish department, it’s been better to keep this more to myself, rather than risk sharing it and it becoming a turn-off for someone.
I’ve had a “sneaker fetish” since I was in about 7th or 8th grade, and I have never understood it, although I have always felt it was comparable to being turned-on by any kind of athletic equipment such as jocks or speedos or a pair of football pants. (Perhaps comparable to being turned-on by leather?) I remember my biology teacher in high school briefly mentioning fetishes–including sneakers–when we briefly discussed human sexuality, which was the first time I became aware that someone other than just me was so turned-on (and that was actually a relief to learn!) To this day, looking at what kind of sneakers a sexy guy is wearing–and not just at the gym–is just as much a part of the drill for me as looking at his face.
Over the years, several different brands have become turn-ons (while others do nothing for me), pretty much based on the way they look, up to the present day. (Socks and feet are also a turn-on for me, while it seems that those also don’t arouse most guys. I figure that “goes with the territory” of the sneakers.) Jackin’-off with my dick in a sneaker is an occasional turn-on for me (there are several ways to do it)–I think this is where you seemed really puzzled by the idea of “f*****g a sneaker”–and if you try some creating “googling,” you’ll be amazed how big an erotic thing sneakers seem to be, especially in Germany and other parts of Europe! I’ve got one pair I always used to wear when I’d go out to buy porn; added to the excitement. Getting to sniff a guy’s sneakers–if I am turned-on by the sneakers–is a big turn-on; I guess it is just part for me of being turned-on by a sexy guy.
All this said, to me the story about the guy at the mall walking around with the sneaker tied to his face sounds too weird for doing in a public setting. Humiliating someone in public–even if those involved consider it kinky–isn’t necessarily fair to those having to see it, since many are not comfortable with it, even in the gay community.
January 20, 2012 at 4:33 am
Please take this video down and apologize. It is really disappointing to see you post something like this… You so frequently talk about spreading love and positive energy in the world, and I want to know, where is the love or positive energy in this? Joke or not, this is definitely the type of humor that is at another person’s expense. Not to mention the totally off the wall comment about gay marriage. I understand your intention may have been a joke, but I just want to say, I am not laughing. Really disappointed.
January 20, 2012 at 6:31 am
Sexy voice!
January 21, 2012 at 5:00 am
Davey, I have to say this. I am pretty stoked to find out that I am not the only person with a gay twin fetish.
January 21, 2012 at 7:12 am
I pretty stoked that there’s potentially Australian posting here!
As for “The twin thing”. Titilating yes, but so very very wrong. Unless your the meat in the sandwich! Too far?
January 22, 2012 at 4:03 pm
just remember, sneakers or feet fetish…each to their own. we can’t say this is “more” right or wrong just because we don’t like it or does not seem appropriate…that’s the point…like you said…one mans kink is another’s vanilla…rather embrace or keep to our own as that would be judging and surely falls in the same basket as juding on a gay or straight level.
i happen to enjoy a foot fetish…just unbelievable hot…provides and instant turn on, which lasts and last! reflexology teaches that most body pressure points are located below the foot (sole)…no wonder touch in that area do bring awesome feelings to surface.
happy blogging!
love,
zach
(pretoria, south africa)
January 22, 2012 at 4:05 pm
just remember, sneakers or feet fetish…each to their own. we can’t say this is “more” right or wrong just because we don’t like it or does not seem appropriate…that’s the point…like you said…one mans kink is another’s vanilla…rather embrace or keep to our own as that would be judging and surely falls in the same basket as juding on a gay or straight level.
i happen to enjoy a foot fetish…just unbelievable hot…provides and instant turn on, which lasts and last! reflexology teaches that most body pressure points are located below the foot (sole)…no wonder touch in that area do bring awesome feelings to surface.
try something new…even if it is just once…you never know, you might just be surprized
happy blogging!
love,
zach
(pretoria, south africa)
January 22, 2012 at 11:29 pm
Thank you being yourself honesty campiness ,sexy body
Watching videos , shift has occurred inside awaken to anger compared to rage …that’s a positive
Have Mediterranean culture with all things positives/negatives
40 yrs old embracing accepting my sexuality in love my truth
Keep up good positive living love it David x
January 23, 2012 at 6:38 pm
sneaker! hmm… as a mask… hmm
i think his boyfriend want him to turn down the moaning part… that why he make the sneaker as a mask
as he enjoy the sex and he sub-conscious remember the smell of the sneaker during f**k part…
which he become addicted…
so each time he smell a sneaker he will be turn on… just like that… a click of button
because it was the smell that turn on his sub-conscious mind of the great sex he have been with his boyfriend.
odor actually can enhance a sex drive. odor also is an weapon to turn ppl on…
angus