Comments on: GOOD RIDDANCE, 2009!

By: Tyler Justyn

Tyler Justyn — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:13:27 +0000

I learned that what I focus on will come to me.

In effect of that, I control the aspects of my life.

I also realized (from you Davey) that every person is doing the very best they can at any given time.

By: Michael

Michael — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 13:32:17 +0000

In his suicide note Kevin mentions what he has ’seen’. He worked as a photographer primarily covering violence and unrest he saw many people dead or being killed. The thing in the note that he keeps referring to is a lack of money. Depression may not have been his only demon.

When I look at the photo it grounds me, it helps me find gratitude for the simplest of things.

By: davvi

davvi — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 20:57:18 +0000

i did as you said, Michael and you were “Spot-on” regarding the image. It is “heart-breaking .” … And Kevin, in the end, committed souicide .’ i can only believe his death was triggered by those of whom later criticized him for his not having picked-up the child and carried her the rest-of-the-way to the un food-bank. idk, but i’m totally saddened to tears. Thank-you, Michael. … … Love and Peace to you, Davey and All here, – - – davvi

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 01:16:49 +0000

I never have bad days either. I have a photograph that I look at when ever I think I’m having a bad day, and because I am not the subject of the image I can find profound gratitude for things like electricity, running water and food.

If you are interested you can find the image by googling Kevin Carter Pulitzer. The image won the Pulitzer Prize in ‘94. It is a *very* powerful image. Be sure you are ready to view it.

By: Steven in Dallas

Steven in Dallas — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 19:40:42 +0000

Way to go AJ! Have a peaceful, most wonderful new year buddy.

By: Steven in Dallas

Steven in Dallas — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 19:37:44 +0000

I discovered:
A 401k can go down over $100k in value and I’ll survive.
I am truly loved by my partner, family, and friends
I’m nearly 47, and I’m still learning each day.
I left a job that was toxic and I started a second career with 2nd graders. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my “work”.
MONEY is the root of all evil if you make it your first priority
People are in need around us, help them, they’re very appreciative – it will make you feel better.
Volunteer work is not work.
We’re more connected than we think. Is it just me or has the world opened up a little bit more? Are we more connected b/c of the extra challenges this year?
Happiest of years and Peace Davey!
Steven in Dallas

By: Eduardo

Eduardo — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 17:43:45 +0000

In 2009 I learned that most of the things which surround us are fake. Happy 2010, buddy!

By: christopher

christopher — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:03:39 +0000

i persisted with govt agencies-im getting some money-to help pay the bills-and my life turns around in a big way end of january.

By: christopher

christopher — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 14:59:42 +0000

i can see DW-posing for the camera-nearly naked at a Piazza.

By: christopher

christopher — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 14:52:46 +0000

well-if i was str8-i would never have encountered this DW-blog and the gr8 blogbuddies here.so again-why would i want to be str8?

By: Barrett

Barrett — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 07:50:18 +0000

That I am fortunate enough to be a homo

By: bruin

bruin — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 00:01:50 +0000

I discovered your blog in Summer 2009 and it changed my life. You are the highlight of my year. Thank you. Your words of wisdom and love have really helped me, even if you don’t know the details.

By: Andy D

Andy D — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 00:01:01 +0000

I learned that are a lot of beautiful, loving, caring and generous people who I am extremely proud to know them, and that at the end of the day it these people that made 2009 a fanstastic year!

Also I have learned of the power of being positive (at an interview for a job I desperately wanted, but did not get)

By: Owen

Owen — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 21:42:00 +0000

Davey,

2009 has been a year of learning for me…both academically and mentally. I have learnt that if I believe in myself completely I can achieve what ever I want. If you’d asked me at the beginning of 2009 where I’d be in two years time I’d have said ‘finishing my degree’. Yet through me believing in myself I am now instead working for one of the worlds biggest pharmaceutical companies. Something I myself wouldn’t have believed possible.

It took me 20 years of life, a miserable relationship and one fantastic counsellor to build that trust/confidence in me as a person. I just hope 2010 will continue building on that. As such, my New Years resolution I have decided is to spend more time using my skills and abilities to help others less fortunate than me. I’ve been given the chance of change…now its time they are given that too.

By: joseph

joseph — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:05:16 +0000

2009 a year of learning yes – but mostly a year of unbelievable spiritual awakening – a deepening sense and appreciation for the spirits around us – and an acknowledgement that love is sometimes all we need.

may you DW and all the blog buddies have a blessed 2010 filled with the joy, love and passion for life you inspire in all of us. Peace.

By: Ruben

Ruben — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:45:30 +0000

I’ve learned to let go and let god/universe, which just so happens to be today’s daily word. When I trust that all is exactly how it’s supposed to be for the highest good then life is no longer a struggle. I go about my life with intention and purpose and I allow myself to bend and adjust to life at this moment which is all that we really have. The past is just that, The future is still a mystery the NOW is a gift which is why it’s called the PRESENT.

I’ve experience a major year of transition in 2009. I shifted and was shifted all at the same time into a new thought and experience. It’s brought me to different comprehension and understanding which has given me much peace and joy.

I have experienced that when I come to alignment with the now I AM alive, at peace, filled with love and joy and all is well.

When I experience the past or expect/want for the future I experience a lack or fear mentality and I no longer am centered and aware that I have all that I need.

The more time I spend in the NOW the less time I loose being stuck in the past or dreaming about a different future.

Being in the NOW allows me to choose my path, my experience and my blessings.

I experienced much gratitude this year when I BEcame aware of all the blessings I have and I experience on a daily basis. When I chose to see all things taking place in a new light. Old experience were left behind and an opening was create for new ones.

By: AJ

AJ — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:26:13 +0000

I overcame depression and suicide and learned that life is great when you look at it in the right light!

By: Jim

Jim — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:14:41 +0000

During the past year I have learned to appreciate the things around me ….husband, family, friends, dog. I had a health scare and instead of freaking out and dwelling on the negative side of things, I chose to deal with the situation and move ahead. And you know what? It works!!!

By: Stephen

Stephen — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:23:40 +0000

Setbacks are one thing, but realizing personal shortcomings is quite another. With a setback, you’ve simply found yourself in a situation outside of your control, which you must make the best of. Things didn’t go your way, but it’s not your fault. When we realize we’ve sold ourselves short, on the other hand, we find ourselves in situations entirely of our own doing, which we ourselves must rectify. And because we dug ourselves into this hole to begin with, sometimes it can be all the more difficult to come to terms with the fact that we are, in fact, able to dig ourselves back out. Owning up to what we’ve done requires a special kind of self-acceptance and self-love, but it’s a love that’s forged in fire. Learning that I had a choice to forgive myself, and then choosing it, has been one of the most cathartic moments of my life so far. Tom Robbins wrote, “Embrace failure. It is the only way you will ever be free.” I learned this truth the hard way, but I’m so glad that I did.

Here’s to 2009: 2010 is looking up.

By: Megalito

Megalito — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:20:16 +0000

2009 was exactly the same for me too. I made it this far, everything has been alright; everything will be alright. After finishing my mediation, the morning light fell on big snowflakes blanketing Santa Fe; life is good!

By: alessio

alessio — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 14:59:04 +0000

well Davey, I invite officially you in Italy, when you want to run here!
Happy new year!

By: Karla

Karla — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 14:36:51 +0000

I learned to breathe when things go wrong. Similar to you, I learned that life goes on even when life is very rough. I learned to let things go a lot easier.

By: Elina

Elina — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 14:35:20 +0000

I learned the same thing as you Davey. I also learned that I have the power to control how my day is going to be by making the right decisions.

By: eric

eric — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 14:28:43 +0000

David,

It’s not the first time I read an article on blogs talking about you. You are well appreciated, yes, maybe sometimes a bit criticized but I’m glad that you never let people indifferent. That said, I ‘ve learned nothing special in 2009!

bye,

By: daniel

daniel — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:55:27 +0000

i learned that i’m so lucky to be gay.