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June 29, 2010
by Davey Wavey
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Holy s**t! Jumping into uncertainty.

Sometimes, the universe is very subtle in the messages that it sends our way. Sometimes. But not always.

Yesterday fell into the “not always” category when I got a phone call from one of my bosses. I’m on contract to do 20 hours a week with my largest client (my so called “real job” involves website and Internet strategy work); it’s a commitment that has become increasingly difficult to juggle with the growing amounts of time and energy that I have been putting into my blog, fitness programs and YouTube channels.

So here’s the deal: It turns out that my 20-hour position is becoming full-time in the near future. Yup, 40-hours a week. And it’s going to be in-office, whereas currently I work remotely. My boss was hopeful that I’d take the position and relocate to Boston.

She doesn’t know me too well.

Someone recently told me that a plant can only grow as big as the pot that it’s in. My pot in the proposed position would be pretty small. On the other hand, when it comes to the Internet and the possibilities here… well, the opportunities are without bound. I choose the bigger pot.

Moreover, I followed my heart.

This is what I love. This is what excites me. I feel like Alice falling down the rabbit hole, and I have no idea where this adventure may go. I feel an incredible sense of passion for what we’re creating here.

But let’s be real: The real world isn’t Wonderland. There are bills to pay and responsibilities to uphold. But I believe that you can do what you love and make a living from it. Let’s see if I’m correct. This can be one big experiment in following your heart.

I know that when I take a leap of faith in such a way that I’m aligned with dharma, the universe will catch me. For several months, I’ve stood on the edge of the metaphorical cliff contemplating my next move. My heart has said, “Jump!” but almost everyone else has said, “No! It’s too risky!” Irritated by my indecision, I think the universe has given me a big push in the form of yesterday’s phone call.

In the last 24 hours, I’ve had a lot of people tell me about uncertainly and insecurity. I say, there is nothing more secure than following your heart. And I’m excited to see where it leads me.

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75 Comments

  1. I took the plunge 6 years ago when I quit my job as a marketing director and became a hair stylist! Everyone thought I was mad, my partner was less than supportive and it was the best thing I could’ve done for myslef! I’m making more $$$ than I did in my middle management nightmare, and I don’t have to sit through life-sucking meetings anymore! If it’s something you love, you will be successful.

  2. It sounds to me like you are hoping that we will all begin supporting you and your little side jobs even more so that you don’t have to go to work full time like the rest of us. Well buddy, sorry. I am not going to send money your way so that you can continue to prance around in your underwear all day with little to no responsibilities while the rest of us work our butts off trying to make ends meet. It is obvious by your recent actions (laughing at the bathhouse guys and then making fun of the disabled people) that you are not ready to grow up just yet and be a contributing member of society. That is fine and your choice. I am sure karma, love, the universe, etc. will support you since you are convinced that all of the crap is real and your best friend. It will be interesting to see how you find the money to buy your gym membership and entertain your twinkies in the near future if your boss doesn’t let you continue to do things your way and not hers.

  3. Davey,

    You will discover that when people give you their opinion they are saying much more about themselves and their own fears and aversions than what is truly the right thing to do for you. To be so young and be able to do what you want is a gift to be relished. I hope you do!

    If ever you doubt your decision, it seems to me that you have readily transferable skills and the flexibility to make a course correction down the line if it becomes necessary. For now, enjoy!

    BTW, for the independent entrepreneur there are all sorts of freelance opportunities to be found, and sites that cater to connecting you with those who can use your services.

    If you are to strike out on your own, may I suggest you incorporate yourself in a jurisdiction without state taxes like Delaware. The IRS will look much more favorably upon you and the expenses you run through your business if you are a sub-S corp. It will also make you look much more professional to your intended clients. Of course, please be sure to get appropriate legal and tax advice from competent sources.

    Best wishes on this next chapter of your journey!

  4. You rock! I wish I would have stuck with my heart, instead I’m moving from dead end job to dead end job. I’m rooting for you!

  5. Enjoy the jump Davey! You do not have a choice, given your awareness of how the Universe works … It will be whatever it will be, and I KNOW you will be fine!!! Huge Hugs! and Namasté

  6. Dear JohnO – Why would you visit this site only to express your feelings about it with so much bitterness? Please breathe in some light, JohnO. Life is truly much more beautiful than your fears are letting it be.

    Namaste

  7. Follow your heart.

    Be well,

  8. Well, Davey, do not make that jump from the arm of your davenport with a noose around your neck at the end of a rope strung from your apartment’s magnificent chrystal chandelier! You might never reach the floor alive.

  9. Dennis, defending the clown isn’t going to make him want to have sex with you. Sorry, but it’s the truth.

  10. Hello JohnO – Once again you have written an angry post and this time to a complete stranger who has only wished you well. I will withdraw from this conversation by sincerely sending you every good thought for a happy life.

    Namaste

  11. I wish I had your faith and courage! Right now I’m very frustrated and hating parts of my life. Good luck.

  12. You GO!! I believe in you, you believe in you, so there’s no stopping you!!

    I’ll do the same, soon, this year, yes I will..
    Will I?

  13. Ohhh Davey, i’mThrilled :-o ’ for-”You!” :-) ’ iKnow you’ll soar “far-beyond maximum-heights!” Bravo!! . . . _ _ _ fierodavvi69

  14. You followed your heart; you threw logic and the opinions of others out the window.. and you let yourself decide. At the end of the day, you should know what you want; not anyone else. They can guide you, but the final decision is up to you: jump, or not. You jumped. It’s going to be a very interesting adventure, and I’m guessing you’ll take your blog buddies along for the ride. So as long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters. And you’re excited to see where it leads you? hmmm… even if it leads you to welfare? :/

  15. very wise. it’s not important whether or not you have money. if you followed your heart and did what you wanted to do, then you really lived. when you die, you will not regret.

  16. Be secure in what you know, even what you don’t know: and step forward, don’t jump. Jumping is too messy, too reckless, too childish. Step into life and love is always your guide.

  17. Jump Davey Jump. Almost two years ago I was faced with a similar situation almost in reverse. Choice one: Stay where I was and most likely die sooner or later (metaphorically) in a job I no longer had any growth potential in and become seriously depressed. Choice two: Accept my then dream job with my dream salary with lots of growth potential and live (and come out of my depression). The later meant moving from Boston (really a good city all and all) to not just a different city, but to a different city in Europe. I jumped by choosing the later and don’t regret it. I followed my heart. The funny thing is that my current boss, who is the one who offered me the position on the spot at the close of my second interview in as many days, almost tired to talk me out of it when I accepted it on the spot. “But don’t you want to think about it?,” she asked. To which I replied, “I already have thought about it. Just now. My answer is yes. It was yes half an hour ago. It will be yes in an hour. It will be yes in the morning and it will be yes on Monday. I don’t need to think about it any more. I am ready to jump. Let’s go – where do I sign…..”
    Do whatcha gotta do mate!

  18. Davey i would love to have dinner with you any time and maybe more???

  19. COMMITMENT

    Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness, concerning all acts of initiative (and creation). There is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which, kills countless ideas and splendid plans: That the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it now. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.

  20. Davey!
    Reading this post made me so happy for you.
    It’s inspiring and great to hear that we all struggle with doubt and must end up following our hearts… best vibes to you and your desitions!

    All we need to do is jump over the moon! ;)

    XOXO

  21. Wishing me Namaste isn’t going to make me want to have sex with you either. Sorry.

  22. Working for your self ? Nice :)

    I have been doing the same thing for 1 year now, and it’s great, you will like it :)

  23. As long as you can be satisfied with living out of a suitcase, there should be absolutely no risk in doing what you love. If you are expecting to support a lifestyle that includes comfort and material wealth, then you are making a mistake. It is fine to follow your bliss as long as it is only bliss you are after.

  24. Hey Davey,

    If you decide to jump, first make sure you’ve measured how high the leap is ;) … once you’ve done that, nothing feels better than following your heart :)

    I had a major stress related breakdown in December (too much work and no play). Needed to take time off work to recover and look after my health.

    so…

    Within a month, I made the decision to never go back to the industry that I was in. Even though the money was fantastic, it came at the expense of having no health or relationships. I decided to spend most of my savings and took 4 months off to recharge my health and a more relaxed outlook on life :)

    With that clarity, I also decided to move into a more creative industry, which pays much less but makes me feel so much better about life and going to work every day.

    My jump was BIG, but I knew how high that leap was. I love where I’m at right now.

    Do what you need to my friend x

  25. you’re so brave, goodluck with your leap of faith c:

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