I know a lot of people feel guilty or selfish when they do nice things for themselves. But I have to say, when I do nice things for myself, I find that I’m more centered, balanced and I’m able to offer the best version of myself to the people around me.
On Sunday, I had what I like to call a “Me Night” – and so I thought I should make a talky blog about it on my second channel, Davey Wavey Raw. Check out the video below:

May 3, 2011 at 12:16 pm
Well I’m not making tonight a “Me Night” but I am going out with a guy for the first time in my life, and just thinking about that makes me smile more than I ever have. Sometime I will try the “Me Night” for myself, but for now, the “Me Night” will be going on a date with a really great guy. Thank you Davey for helping me become comfortable about who I am!
May 3, 2011 at 1:11 pm
Davey I want to be confident with myself I’m so tired of hating who I am but I have been heavy my whole life and members of our community around where I live don’t accept me as a large gay man, I’m about to have gastro bypass and I really need some inspiring words from you and even my fellow blog buddies
Thank you and I’m sorry if it seemed like I was pouring my heart out but I have watched your videos for years and i don’t know if it sounds weird but I consider you my friend
Matt
May 3, 2011 at 1:25 pm
I totally tried to smell the bubble bath… duh.
May 3, 2011 at 1:29 pm
GO RYAN!!!
I wish you a FANTASTIC evening, and many more to follow.
(I wish there were an icon for “thunbs up”, lol, because I would use it here.)
May 3, 2011 at 1:30 pm
TC – Something you can invent which will make you MILLIONS. How to transmit odors.
Peace
May 3, 2011 at 2:09 pm
Have a great night Ryan,
I hope your first date is amazing! This is a “Me Night” for you and a “Me Night” for your date. Rooting for you.
May 3, 2011 at 4:26 pm
Just whant to say you such a nice person how do you do it lol
lol
May 3, 2011 at 4:47 pm
Reminds me of an artists date!
I do this once a week where I try to just do something completely for me. And it is always something simple and pleasurably selfish.
May 3, 2011 at 8:31 pm
every night is and has always been a “me night.”
i cant get a date.
May 4, 2011 at 5:30 am
For me every night is a Me Night. For once I would like to have a night with some people around or around some people and NOT ALONE. I do not get this. There are no videos about how NOT TO BE ALONE.
May 4, 2011 at 1:46 pm
i can’t get a date either, so I have given up.
May 4, 2011 at 3:37 pm
Hmm… me night or overdue-vital-to-my-education coursework? I’m leave me till tomorrow. But its a nice thought.
May 4, 2011 at 4:38 pm
i quit being bi-sexual…davey, can i ask you a serious question via email?
May 9, 2011 at 11:00 am
Although Gaga might be the secret to life… hmmm…