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December 17, 2009 at 9:23 am
Great blog today….You’re so right, we all need to take a moment and make that simple change. I always tell people to dare them self to live for yesterday’s tomorrow. In other words, if you’re so worried about the past, you’ll forget about today. Try to live for the moment and go with those gut feelings that make you be daring!
p.s. Davey, are you having fun with your family?
December 17, 2009 at 9:25 am
LOL…I ment to say “live for tomorrow’s yesterday” not the other way around! It’s early when I’m writing this post!
December 17, 2009 at 9:35 am
I think we all should try and take a positive outlook on life and sometimes we don’t ever see what’s right in front of us because of our perspective. But it also very difficult to change a lifestyle you’ve had for years over night, so the real challenge for me would be the small changes of my everyday life.
December 26, 2009 at 8:23 pm
Like admitting you are cute Felipe
Love and Peace
Jack
December 17, 2009 at 9:55 am
Nice vlog…
But I have to say this: I just think that it is not good thing for everyone wanting to make changes without leaving bedroom and/or without putting some effort in doing something to make it happen.
Everywhere are things like: lose your weight without exercises or eating less than earlier, find soul mate easily, learn to cook like master for one hour, make more money without working more, learn new language easier than ever, etc.
Gosh, people, if one wants a change he needs to put some effort in making it happen…
P.S. I wasn’t talking this because/about you Davey, but when I saw title it just made me remember how more, and more lazy and degraded society of ours is becoming day by day… at least you put “without leaving bedroom” part in “()”… All best,
M.
December 19, 2009 at 11:35 pm
gnjen I completely agree with you. We are inundated with messages about doing things with little or no effort and it’s almost sickening. What’s even more sickening is the people who create these scams get rich because there are so many people out there who want to have things without putting any effort into them. The only people who make money without really doing anything are the ones running these scams. The only thing we can do for certain with little or no effort is to change how we think or feel about things and how we approach life. The effort comes in when we start to implement the changes and start doing things about it.
December 17, 2009 at 10:42 am
Excellent video Davey, put a smile on my face and I will definately take some of your advice and mix things up a little bit!
December 17, 2009 at 10:48 am
This past week big changes for me, next week even bigger. Last Sunday (6th) left Cincy, layover in New York, landed in Munich, drove thru Austria, Switzerland, visited family in Milan. Left Milan, drove to Venice, Florence, Rome, Vatican City, San Marino, back to Venice, now I’m back in Milan. Hung over from week of drinking, I am broke, worn out and exhausted. Saturday back to Roma (this time by train), Sunday leave Roma for Chicago (layover)chicago to Cincy. Arrive in Cincy on the 21st, just in time for my brother Adrian’s 16th birthday. Changes next week…Nicola my bf who lives in Milan is moving to America to be with me….talk and share experiences with my brother Adrian who “came out” while i was italy. Then crawl into bed and sleep till I have a 48 hour shift starting on the 24th…working Christmas. Most of family be in Italy anyways.
December 18, 2009 at 6:26 am
Davide, sound like you have had a great time about your travells, how does your brother cope with being gay?? I am 16 in march, and i find i t a little difficult, can you and him give me any advice??
Check out my blog (it has my email etc)
http://despitethediscrimination.blogspot.com
love and peace
jack xx
December 18, 2009 at 6:37 am
My friend Jack,
To be honest my friend I am not really sure how Andy is coping with being gay. I am currently in Italy and hes back home in Ohio. However we have chatted on the phone and he “seems” okay. But you know how telephone conversations are, can be difficult to talk about such matters. I will see him soon and we will have time alone. He came out while I was gone. But i guess I knew Adrian was gay before him. He just seemed to fit the mold perfectly, lol.
As for my advice, well I will tell you the same as I will tell Andy, after all you both same age. He will meet many challenges, and difficulties. Alot of people will be mean to him and even call him names. But this is something he will have to bare with and he will figure out how to deal with these matters. I dont know if there is a correct answer or if there is only one answer. All I can tell you is that you are loved. People do love you and even though some may reject you or tease you, most will not. And u will always have friends that love you no matter what path u choose. Life is a weird and crazy thing, but there is love out there and compassion, just sometimes it is difficult to find and even harder to see. You are young but soon you will be a man. And as you continue to grow you will learn many things. My friend God has given you this life, and God does not make mistakes. My friend u will be fine and everything will be good.
December 17, 2009 at 11:05 am
My friend Davey,
I almost forgot to thank you for the kind words of encouragement you have shared with us today! Grazie, Amico!!!
Grazie! desideri diventano realtà!
December 17, 2009 at 11:07 am
well i tryed going new place, tryed trying to find more time for exice, i try find new obertunes to learn for help find new job, try to find and get in touch with new people but what ever i try it proves hard and i keep falling back to the begeining were i started
,id know what do anymore, not really feeling this vid davey sorry your prop right but i find myself unable to see at the min!!!
December 17, 2009 at 11:25 am
My friend Matt,
Forgive me for intruding upon you, but you seem to be having difficult day? My friend live today, tomorrow is promised to no one, and if tomorrow comes it will take care of itself. Try to enjoy this day! And remember you always have friends here. You are as Davey says “loved”.
desideri diventano realtà!
December 17, 2009 at 1:56 pm
Davide that was nice…but you’re a dork…ROF..if only you were so nice to your favorite brother!
Sono scherzando Davide. Mi manchi, ci vediamo per il mio compleanno!
December 17, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Davey – I gotta be honest, 2009 was s**t. s**t, s**t, s**t. I know this is just my perception of 2009, but still: s**t. That said, 2009 was the year I went back to University, and took a real hold of things. (Get in!) So really, 2009 was the darkest moment before the dawn.
I really, really want to build a brilliant body – but gym membership never works for me, and I never eat the right food. So. For 2010 I will be learning to cook better, healthier, more fulfilling meals to facilitate my life long wish of being more than a beanstalk (lol).
I think this goes to “step 1 is the start”, “baby steps” and “making a change”.
December 17, 2009 at 2:03 pm
I am a life coach, and have been referring my cliants to your site and am blown away…. BLOWN A WAY by who you have been creating yourself to be!!! And, AND powerfully transending that energy outward so people can begin to get it. Have you been asked to apear on a t.v.talk show?
December 17, 2009 at 2:19 pm
try this. Simply stop what you are doing, thinking feeling. And do three things in threes. (I love doing things in threes)
1) Point out three things you see
2) Notice three things you hear
3) Notice three things you feel within or on your body.
Then go back to what you are doing. See how your perspective has changed.
December 19, 2009 at 2:30 am
Wow Fluffy! That’s a really cool idea! I love exercises like that are so powerful!
December 19, 2009 at 2:35 am
I love the difference between water and ice being only one degree part Someone pointed out a technicality on it, but the principle is great! I never would have thought to verbalize it like that!
Great Job!
December 17, 2009 at 2:27 pm
“If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you always got” – thanks for reminding this universal truth
I gotta repeat it every morning =)
December 17, 2009 at 3:41 pm
David,
I really enjoyed this video ; a good one!!
You seem to be happy, joyful and full of energy!
I’d like to see you like that in all your videos, David!
I smiled when you wiggled your hips to the rhythm of the music! It happens that I do it when I’m fed up with something or feeling nervous, in order to evacuate stress!
By the way, terrific this english car! It is a little bomb in downtown!!
How to change your life?
Well, the small efforts are always those that are easy to make!
When I have a genius idea (though, it’s not often!) and when I’m courageous enough, I write down on my whiteboard a list of things I ‘d like to do and that can be envisaged to in the coming months. So, each morning, I can read them and they “seem” to be easier to be accomplished while I’m getting used to see them! When they are done, then I strike the things done off my list with the feeling that having done that brought something new in my life and enhance the opinion I have of myself.
I am planning parachute jumps at the beginning of the year but I shall have to leave my bedroom for that (lol)…. will I be enough courageous to jump? even with an instructor? In any case, I have written it down! Of course, as soon as it gets warmer, because it’s getting cold here now. No snow but really cold!
bye,
December 18, 2009 at 5:55 am
update : It seems that Santa Claus is getting closer ; I can’t see his sleigh yet but he is already sprinkling our city with snow in order to land in the best conditions the D. day.
Have a good day David,
bye,
December 17, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Cool video, davey. Hey can I link my blog here? mym4m.blogspot.com
December 17, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Cool video, davey. Hey can I link my blog here? the link in the URL.
December 17, 2009 at 5:48 pm
Loves it!!!
December 17, 2009 at 7:01 pm
Very nice video Davey. It’s funny, I’m asking myself how to change my life, a lot lately. Btw, you looked perfect as always.
December 19, 2009 at 11:53 pm
If I might give you some advice on changing your life I would tell you to define clearly what you want for yourself and for your life. Don’t think about what’s realistic or what’s likely to happen. Declare what you want despite the likelihood of achievement. If people always considered the probabilities India would still be under British rule, South Africa would still have apartheid and the USA would still have a white president. Ordinary people with great vision and big dreams can do extraordinary things. So define what you want very clearly. Then visualize yourself as having reached the goal successfully. Then consider what you had to do to get there. Consider every step and every detail. Standing in the visualized future, write yourself a letter from your future self detailing who you had to be and what you had to do to get to the goal. Then go do it: put timelines to it and follow the instructions. Whatever you want for yourself is available to you if you’re committed to having it.
December 17, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Great message, Davey. Buuuut, the ay-ayayaya “ice moment” was the icing (no pun intended) on the cake for this one. Too great!
December 17, 2009 at 9:06 pm
lol. you’re so cute. some good advice in there. we could all use a little change every now and then (spare a quarter?). =)
December 17, 2009 at 10:17 pm
thanks for the great vblog! good advices, i try to follow that also.
December 17, 2009 at 11:50 pm
Davey! lol I love to read you Blogs…and I just realize that your quotes are mainly from Vietnamese (monk)…it is kinda interesting..
December 18, 2009 at 7:52 am
Jack, Matt, Davide Mancinelli and othahz: i want you-guys to know “i’m Always-here” for you-all, just-like Davey and othahz are! Love
and Peace, _ _ davvi
December 18, 2009 at 10:39 am
As we are too Davvi i am sure
love and peace
Jack
December 18, 2009 at 10:11 am
The best thing you can teach your children is how to forgive – practice how to teach forgiveness; it could get you adopted by a child you adore (the one inside you).
Cheers!
December 20, 2009 at 12:01 am
Amen to that, Vance. Who needs to be burdened with acrimony and spite for things that are past? What does it do for us but keep us miserable? Life is so much simpler when we learn to forgive and to move on.
December 18, 2009 at 10:17 am
Hey! Its realy Nice and I love song in this video – and I have one question for anyone… Why I love Davey Wawey?
December 18, 2009 at 11:26 am
David,
Though I’m not on Twitter, I always follow you on it!!!
bye,
December 18, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Technically there is ZERO difference between “liquid ice” and water…
Loved the ‘If Barack Obama can find an hour’ point!
December 18, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Jack, “thank you so-very-muchy!”
’ and it means so-muchy to-me. Love and peace to you and all-heah 
, _ _ davvi
December 18, 2009 at 4:35 pm
SO WHATS WRONG WITH ME!
Im the nicest person, I will go out of my way for anyone, and if theres something that I really want I will go out of it until I talk myself out of it for having hopes way too high. It seems like if I have to change and sacrifice, its not worth it, if its just for myself. AND THATS NOT FAIR.
Thanks so much for your words, you really are an inspiration. I love that you are so outgoing and thoughtful. Your doing a great job and I love you for coming into my laptop and changing my life one bolg entry at a time.
Love ya!
Merry Christmas… Nice Tree!
December 18, 2009 at 6:18 pm
When we the glorious Taleban take over your world will change alright. You will be made to cover your body and properly conceal your face with a beard. You will learn modesty and corrct behaviour. All this frivolous stuff will end. You will be releived from the burden of thinking and be forced to do hard labour.
You can try and change your world without leaving the bedroom – but come outside without a properly modest shirt on and your life will be a short one..Le3arn to behave infidel …
December 18, 2009 at 6:22 pm
SHUT UP!!!
December 18, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Yes he should – leading young people astray with his shameful way of exposing his chest. Soon all this lewd behaviour will cease.He will behave or risk being stoned to death. The future is ours. Soon we will be victorious.
December 18, 2009 at 9:00 pm
only when u guys get done screwing camels and donkeys…loser!!!!
December 19, 2009 at 1:59 pm
Cliveey, I’m sorry but what the hell are you talking about?
You talk nonsense!
December 18, 2009 at 6:54 pm
I close my eyes and see me resting comfortably next to Davey Wavey, like neither of us has a care in the world, except for each other and Chipotle!
Merry Christmas Davey,
Love you, joey
December 19, 2009 at 2:10 pm
I love the dream. May I share in this dream.
December 18, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Cliveey, who would-have-suspected u of all ppl to be a “sleeper-terrorist!?” Tell-me ur JK, coz i hope u are Just-Kiddin’-around. Otherwise, tell-me when, why and how your “Jealousy and H8″ of Davey and others has begun2 control-your-life. ?? WTF!? _ _ davvi
December 19, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Ah so there we are – who is to know. Could be you are all being watched and notice taken of your outrageous immoral behaviour. That is something you will not change from in your bedrooms.
It will require alert informed and organised, thinking and balanced, organised minds. It will required working together.
Oh “politics is boring” a young generation cry.
“We don’t want the hassle”.
Well prison is far more boring.
Being flogged or stoned to death,as happens in many parts of the world to other gay and lesbian people is certainly not fun.
Consider do you like the idea of having a sex change operation? If you were gay in Iran you might have little choice. Still what do gay people in the Free West care. Some give the impression that they only care about themselves and their todger!
December 19, 2009 at 8:20 pm
dude your really weird!
December 20, 2009 at 10:23 am
good reply
December 19, 2009 at 12:21 am
For the 5 reasons to be gay:
I believe in God and I like both sexes at the same time. I used to ask myself is that ok to be like this. My parents(esp my Father) and siblings have no problems with that cuz they thought it’s ok to listen to your heart and as long as you are happy.
But I won’t tell anyone at work that I like girls+boys cuz they would take you as a freak =[
Support you Mr Davey : )
December 19, 2009 at 2:23 am
hes as hot as model Ar Walker
http://www.twitpic.com/photos/OfficialWalker
December 19, 2009 at 5:53 am
I am trying this new thing, where I read davey’s new posts at least once a week to gain new insight on how I can improve my life. Sounds lame, but it works as a routine. And he always some something new that makes me ponder. Hmmm?!?
December 19, 2009 at 8:25 am
Karen, you are “Spot-On” or totally “Non-incorrect!” And your parents’ response to you also “Rocks!” And the “Same” applies to all-us-guys, as-well. i thank God for parents like yours
!!!’ i hope you will “periodically repeat this-post of yours” on our Beloved-Awesome-Davey’s blog cuz your post “Removes-all-doubt” anyone has about: whether one’s desires for the Same-sex and/or Same-sex, Both-genders is acceptable-to God, ‘cuz “IT-MOST- CERTAINLY-IS!!” Thank you Karen, and tell your parents i said,Thankyou to-them, as-well. And i am sure i can speak for Davey, myself and Everyone-here of whom “may” have struggled with that question your Loving-parents “answered” for-you, in your post. i Thank God for His having spoken (“The Truth!”), “through-your-parents” so you could relay it to us here! Love and Peace, – - – davvi
December 19, 2009 at 8:29 am
I had a teacher that would always tell us that!! “How can you expect orange juice when you’re squeezing lemons!?”
(yesterday I went to some friends’ house and oneof the kids is YOU but like… 16 years younger… probably…)
Be Happy!!
December 19, 2009 at 10:38 am
…nice back muscles =_ñ…
December 19, 2009 at 11:01 pm
great video Davey! I can always count on you for uplifting and encouragement! Plus- I see you drive a Mini- I just got one 2 months ago. Loving it!
December 20, 2009 at 12:09 am
Love the new car! Moreover I love the message. Thanks!
December 20, 2009 at 12:30 am
advice for people wanting to change their lives.. be honest with yourself, sit your self down and have a long, in depth conversation wtih your heart and let it tell you your passion!!! and then trust in the Universe and make it happen =]
for smaller scale changes, just make a habit out of being more aware and grateful and things will start to shift. love you alll
December 20, 2009 at 10:08 am
Cliveey, what’s-wrong? Ya too-scared 2reply 2a question?, huh? i asked-you on 12-19: how-long have u been a “sleeper-terrorist?”(Judging from “All-the-Crap” you’re spouting) And what’s-gives with ur “Jealousey and Hate” of Davey and the rest-of-us on here?! … WTF! … What’s-your-problem?! … If you’re not gunna “Respond-Sensibly, then do as Davide told-you: Shut Up! – - – davvi
December 20, 2009 at 10:33 am
… people do not like their ideas challenged – me included.
I did give you a reply to think about earlier.
Freedom of speech has been hard fought for.
We are the lucky beneficiaries of that freedom of speech struggle.
It came to us for free and so we do not value it.
**
I am sure Davey is not some big head that he can only survive on
the “Oh your so wonderful Davey” drooling comments.
It must get very boring for him being told he is wonderful all the time.
What is wrong with dissent?
Or are you a Gay Taleban?
December 20, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Ciiveey, you’re the one who referenced the “glorious taliban”(ur words) and how you-all were gonna stone and/or imprison everyone of whom doesn’t dress ur way and how all the guys need to have beards and all-so-much other “crap!” Freedom of speech is one-thing. You “thinking” you-and-ur taliban will to “Dictate” to all-of-us, what to think, how to act, what to believe, how to dress, etc is quite-another thing!! – - – davvi
December 20, 2009 at 5:02 pm
You must learb to not bite at bait quite so easily.
My point is simple.
The world does not change by us going into meditative states of ecstasy.
The world does not change because we take drugs.
It does not change because we philosophise about it to make it alright.
That is no help top kids being hung for being gay in Iran.
It is no help to gay people in Egypt who are going to be flogged.
It was no direct help to Jewish people in concentration camps.
Contemplating things in you bedroom will not help oppressed LBGT people around the world.
That is why we have things liike IDAHO day.
To change things requires both individual and collective political action.
Personal action is the thing that can require real bravery.
It is alos importnat to help gay people who are old, infirmed or suffering from AIDS in countries where thye receive no help.
I don’t know which of my earlier comments you saw, perhaps some have not gone on.
The real lesson is that while acting as Davey suggests is of some merit it ought to lead to some small form of action.
That action may simply be writing to the Supreme Leader of Iran and pleading for mercy for the kids who will be hanged.
I know that he will bin it….
How to act to help is up to the individual, but we need a collective cultur ethat encourages it rather than simply going all philosophical.
December 21, 2009 at 4:24 am
Well, i must say i’m relieved, Cliveey. Thank God, you were JK
! “My-bad-on-that!” And i agree with “All” of what you’ve just-stated and it makes ultimate-sense!! Peace 
, – - – davvi
December 21, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Hello again – its a strange world.
My “sources” tell me Iran is close to revolution =
the authirities there are becoming ebven more repressive and desperate.
BUT as they say “Be careful what you wish for” or better the devile you know perhaps.
There could eb civil war there.
It is so hard to know what is best.
So I have some sympathy with good politicians.
WHAT I DO KNOW is that we are very fortunate to live in free countries.
Whwn we complain we should always be mindful of that fact.
We should also care about other gay peiople who have hardly any life at all.
… and may easily lose that life.
December 21, 2009 at 7:09 pm
Cliveey, i’ve been watching4 your next post. And i agree with-ya regarding Iran, as-well. i also am well-aware of how the ones “that” are scumbags “persecute and torture-kill” gays, and anyone-else with whom they disagree. And this totally enrages-me!!!
!!! … … Hope you saw my post/reply to you, underneath yours back-on page-13. … i anticipate your reply and our further discussion and idea(s) exchange(s)!! _ _ _ davvi
December 23, 2009 at 4:31 pm
I am not being rude but if u close your eyes and let you imagination take u couldn’t u get ran over by a car or am I not paying any atention to what i am talking about
January 19, 2010 at 4:53 pm
i really like this post.. and i think you look cute in glasses..
February 3, 2010 at 8:37 pm
Davey Wavey.. I try to live like this as much as possible as you could probably guess it doesn’t always work out. But I still believe the effort is worth it.