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June 23, 2010
by Davey Wavey
48 Comments



What YOU would say if someone called you a faggot.

A few days ago, I posted a short video about being called a faggot in NYC. A whole bunch of you responded; these are some of my favorites:

Larry wrote:

As Dr.Wayne Dyer so succinctly stated:
“Love is for giving, and love is forgiving.”
So Davey, love him, forgive him, and let go of it.

And from YouTube:

If you’re interested, watch a playlist of all the video responses here.

Personally, the idea of responding to hateful words with love resonates most deeply with me. I like the idea of saying, “You may make the choice to share hate with me, but I am making the choice to respond with love to you. I love you.” But in practice, I don’t know that I’d have the “chutzpah” to do it. And truly, each situation is unique and there’s probably not a one-size-fits-all response for all people everywhere.

I do want to thank you for taking the time to weigh in. I read all your comments and watched all your videos. I’m grateful for your advice and appreciate hearing your words of wisdom. Thank you.

48 Comments

  1. Thanks for having this blog it really helped and the peeps on the videos are right. So THANK YOU again love you

  2. DW-good post the other day, and today. It is better to love than hate. I thought about this alot. Thinking being called a faggot not so bad…only if we allow it. Most important…

    How about those Americans? Defeating Algeria, advancing to the final 16!. Way to go America!! Now all eyes on the Italians….

  3. I’ve only been called it once in my life. But it didn’t bother me. Not to say I condone using the word. I figure if somebody wants to sound ignorant its their right. Most people that would use that word are the ones with the most to hide in there life. Covering up what is only there dirty little secrets of life.

    If all else fails I just say “Yes i’ll let you blow me, but only after you apologize”

  4. The first guy from kyoto ((i love japan =])) i like him ^^ Triple G what you did was good. because there are some people that look just because. i know we have done it and i applaud you. the third guy was my favorite!! i love his girlfriend where he grabbed the high heel best thing ever. thats my reaction if someone called me or my friends =] but he was so strong and was smart. awwww x3 i remember that my parents told me is any one called me a name i go “So?” and i did and the people go so angry with me they gave up. =] i love the teacher x333

  5. DW-Okay I finally was able to watch three of the videos you posted. The fourth was such poor quality I couldn’t watch it.

    The third video I found troubling because it basically started with the guy in the video. He went up to a stranger at a club and asked this guy to take a photo. The guy refused to take his photo, he asked again, the guy refused a second time. Later his girlfriend appoached this guy and asked why he refused to take the photo and also told the guy it was rude. He responded “cause the guy is a faggot” she then assaulted this guy with her shoe. Okay here lies the issue with me. First of all it doesn’t matter why the guy refused to take the picture. Once he was asked they should have walked away. But no they ask again. Then his girlfriend appoaches this guy later and assaults this guy.I think the rude people in this was asking a second time to take photo and the girlfriend appoaching this guy. Okay the guy didnt want to take the photo get over it, and move on. Later the guy in the video “walks” by this guy and this guy shouts out “faggot” at the guy in the video. Okay granted not a good thing-but the guy was already assulted by this girlfriend. So the guy in the third video I do not have my sympathy for him or even empathy. They were the ones who cause the whole thing to go down. They are the responsible parties-not the guy refusing to take the photo.

    I will admit to you this post has been an eye-opener for me. I want to watch the other video’s later tonight. But I think this post DW is significant, cause it educates. It even educates other gay men

    I have never been called a “faggot” or have been made fun of by anyone for being gay. I assume it is because total strangers think I am straight. Also could be because my of physical appearance they would think better of it. Not just by my strength but the way I carry myself.

    I have two people who are close to me that are gay. My boyfriend, and younger brother. Both of them are much like me. I hate using labels and forgive me for doing so but it appears to me its the “femme” guys who are getting the harassment. I have seen plenty of “femme” guys around town or in clubs but I am not “close” to any. Fact is I have many more straight friends vs gay friends. I fit better into straight society than gay society. The only difference between myself and straight guys is sexual preference that is it. I enjoy all the things most straights enjoy. Just another example how gay society is so diverse. Many gay men just like me.

    These videos educated me cause it better helps me understand what so many homosexuals go through everyday. I could never imagine being afraid to walk out of my home cause I was gay. I guess we really don’t know what its like unless we wear their shoes.

    I do know what its like to be harrassed cause I am Catholic or Italian. Never because I am gay.

    So with the deepest thanks-thank you for educating me. And a bigger thanks to all your friends for their videos.

  6. forgive any typos..hard to type on this crazy ass Ipod touch.

  7. i cant do that. ive had that response all my life and all i get is trampled on. the angelic way doesnt work. it doesnt help. and now my heart and my soul is broken. so fuck them. i’d rather kill them than say anything.

  8. You rather kill who? Is this Alex with the video response?

  9. Honestly, if someone calls you a faggot they are likely looking for a reaction from you. They are looking for feedback that will validate their action and satisfy some internal need to be heard. Any reaction or response from us reinforces that their behaviour worked. Good or bad, loving or hateful any response validates and reinforces their behaviour and they will continue it.

    The only thing that will have people like this stop acting in this fashion is to ignore it. Deprive them of he reaction they desire. Act as though you didn’t hear it. We may not get the satisfaction of feeling right or justified but we deprive them of it as well. And in the end it will work to alter their behaviour.

  10. if anyone ever to call you a faggot again, you put up a smile and say,
    “yes… yes i am a faggot… thank you for noticing that! oh my gawd… it is hard these day to get noticed with metrosexual and everything innit?… anyhow… do you have a hot yummy brother? can i get his number?”

    and then you flip your hair, and walk away.

    tadaaa~

    p/s: make sure that person is not the type who will hit you or brutally kick your ass on your way home at night~ cheers!

  11. Nope…way too over analysed. It’s just some dork thinking out loud. We all label people, and he did the same, but just spoke this thought. So return his energy with even less energy…because there is nothing in it for you…ignore him, or if you can whoop his ass, hurl his label back at him. Pick out what he will believe to be his weak spot and point it out to him. That is the only way to fix this. Time for us gay guys to get tuff and fight back for a change, instead of cowering at any threat of provocation. Sadly, his parents didn’t teach him to have any respect for diffent folks other than himself, and try as you might, you won’t do it now. He needs to learn the hard way sadly. So, teach him in the method that a meat-head learns..an eye of an eye.

    But if you can’t whoop his ass, don’t invest any energy of your own, let it roll off your back…understand what this is about and accept that there are meat-heads like this everywhere in the world, and move on.
    Just my take.

  12. I really liked the dignity and simplicity of what Xtopher said on his video reply, which really shows how good of character and how kind-hearted he is, i.e. when some “cool” stud called him a “faggot”, he just ended up saying, “Thanks” and walked away, leaving it at that. Now, that’s class, and not always common in someone so young (and, hey, Christ, you’re cute, too!).

    At my age, I just “keep on walking” when abusivew epithets come my way. At 66 I am just too old and tired to care, at all, or to waste emotional energy over this kind of shitty thing. More than “faggot”, I get “ageist” idiotic abuse, such as a young dude calling me “papy” (Québec French slang, from “pappy” in English), meaning “feeble old fart” or something like that. Man, who cares when confronted with such lame abuse?

  13. Remember to choose your fights carefully.. and also remember that all bullies are cowards at heart.. weigh that carefully then with a sarcastic and humorous tone ask him, “Perhaps, but the real question is, how are you going to explain to your momma.. how you got beat up by a faggot?”

  14. Thats the way to GO! my thoughts exactly

  15. Omg so true! but sadly most homo’s couldnt fight if their live depended on it…we need some kind of homo defense training…

  16. I’ve found that by saying “Wow” slowly, while looking at them as if they’re an idiot (b/c they are), really helps. People don’t like to have someone say “wow” to them… or follow it up with a “REALLY?” They will feel like they don’t belong – people hate that :) I recently wrote “WOW” on a “friend’s” Wall on FB b/c there were a whole string of racial slurs. By typing “WOW”, those commenting got in defense mode and others apologized, others tried justifying it. I didn’t say a thing, just un-friended the “friend”, who I had not seen in over 25 years anyway.

    So, the answer is “WOW… REALLY?” and then walk away…

  17. -Faggot!!!
    -Yeah, you wish…

  18. I think it’s pretty clear that anyone who calls someone a faggot, or who has any negative will towards gay people, clearly has some issues of their own to work out. How’s the line go in “Opposite of Sex”?

    We call that closeted gay.

  19. I look right through them as if they were transparent and say **That’s MISTER faggot to you.**

  20. Here in the UK we have very strict hate crime laws to protect gay people against homophobia – living in a tough working class council estate in North Manchester, with high levels of povery and deprivation, as well as social exclusion, as well as coming out as gay myself in a very strictly Catholic part of Rural Ireland, these idiot homophobes (who themselves are secretly gay) must have thier homophobic comments both robustly challenged at all levels and reported to the police

  21. Hey you!! Michael John Dennis.. yeh you.. YOU FUCKING MORON.. Are you kidding me? Are you Fucking Kidding me? What could ever bring any human to the point of enabling the FUCKING THOUGHT POLICE.. as you are doing.. that we should report to the police that someone called you a name? News flash moron.. Your support of making thought a crime.. is ITSELF.. a crime against humanity.. and you, you jerk.. YOU are the one that should land in jail!! IT IS YOU.. that is THE menace to society.. to freedom.. to true equality under the law.. YOU are more than brain dead.. YOU are intellectually lazy.. perhaps you underwent a frontal lobotomy.. under your government healthcare. YOU sir, have lost your Soul and your heart. You have no sense of balance, and clearly you are unable to grasp that YOUR hate filled words are far more hateful than those you would imprison.. YOU are a pitiful excuse for a man.. obviously weak on every front.. Someone called you a name and it hurt your feelings.. OMG.. call your Mommy! Or just call the Thought Police and throw him in prison.. that’ll teach him, right? Surely he will now just love the fuck out you.. right?

    Now, in a place the world once called Great.. we watch it crumble around you.. if you look carefully you will see that destruction of your country was brought about by the same politicians that gave you the laws you call Hate Crimes. Done of course in the true spirit of “1984″ and “Animal Farm”..

    Conveniently for those politicians they were enabled by useful idiots such as YOU.. but granting protection to your special status that allows you to hate without the threat of jail.. just like the pigs in Animal Farm.. where “all animals are equal.. but some animals are more equal than others” Knowing in advance you will never have the ability nor inclination to understand that.. I’ll translate it for you moron..

    Once the pigs took over.. (that would be YOU.) the PIGS became the protected class.. more valuable than all the other less protected.. less important.. less valuable animals on the farm.. And in the true spirit of “1984″, the mere THOUGHTS of the other lesser animals are now crimes.. and YOU, YOU PIG.. would have them arrested..

    THE REAL CRIME there.. is YOUR enthusiasm for your beloved HATE CRIMES.. forced down the throats of your fellow citizens.. the threat of jail.. BY THE SAME POLITICIANS that in their every waking moment.. have managed to take the Greatness out of great Britain.. along with most of your liberties.. converting an outrageously dangerous concept from “1984″ of a fictional totalitarian OPPRESSIVE government (based in Britain) and made it real life thing to fear in 2010.. YOU, you moron.. have managed to give the rest of the world a genuinely good reason to Hate YOU and all Gays.. because YOU have become the PIGS.. and it has nothing to do with your limp cock.. or how you use it.. it has to do with your dead soul.. and the hate that flows from that emptiness.
    Here’s a concept for you PIG.. If I were one of those you clearly look down your elitist nose at.. and I knew that you were a Faggot.. it would not bother me.. but knowing that Faggots like you would have the state lock me up for having unapproved thoughts.. or because I called you a name while engaging in my GOD given right to free speech.. THEN.. I would consider you not just a Faggot.. but a dangerous Faggot.. because at that point, you have put yourself in the same category as the brown shirts of the Nazi party.. Oh yes, I can see why YOU would be hated in Britain.. YOU and your ilk have given them a damn good reason to hate you.. and all Gay men and women.. gee thanks.

    YOU DO NOT HAVE A RIGHT NOT TO BE OFFENDED.. deal with it PIG.

    Hating totalitarian stupid people that Hate Liberty and the concept of Free speech.. is healthy.. Despising little tyrants is good.. It works to save Liberty and slow down the Tyranny. Your elitist attitude by itself, triggers hate toward gay people.. I know.. I’m gay.. and it sure has triggered hate in me… Thank God I can reach across the waters from America.. where Free Speech has not yet been outlawed by those like you.. and thru the internet onto the shores of your dark Britain… and as one Faggot to another.. let you know that you should just go ahead and call your beloved thought police right now and let them know.. that there is no need to wonder if I hate what you and they stand for.. Because I certainly do.. and in a profound manner that you are utterly incapable of ever knowing or grasping.
    It would take a Soul to do that.

  22. Jack,

    I am merely stating as reality the current position here in the UK regarding homophobic attacks against gay people, which are both in and of themselves hate crimes, therefore there is no need for your hostile reaction and which I am unsure as to why you are so angry – our laws are based on the UK & Ireland’s membership of the European Union – living in the UK is tough I agree and the native English (as opposed to British) people are foreigners in thier own country, where they are not allowed to fly thier own St Georges Flag among certain other challenges and they therefore feel very vunerable but they (and I do take your points about thier collective complacency in this, in allowing the (English – not British) Nation to be controlled by Brussels, as has also been the case in my native Ireland – yes, I am Irish) but the reality has been like this – if you dont like the current position here in the UK then work to change it – in fact, you Americans should be thankful for the fact that British troops are helping the US led war effort in Helmand Province and are therefore helping to protect your freedoms against the Taliban but of course in the special relationship that exists between the UK and the US we in the UK are the poor relation, the unequal partner

  23. I always say Thanks! I consider it a compliment. They seldom know how to respond.

  24. All LGBT’s need self defence training as this world is becoming more and more violent, especially towards us LGBTs – when I first came to Manchester (UK) from Dublin (Republic of Ireland) I learned kick-boxing from a woman in a very tough working-class suburb of Manchester called Ancoats and it stood me in good stead in many situations, including when I was subjected to a homophobic attack/robbery in Ardwick, another tough part of Manchester – even now, as I change careers to become a flight attendant/cabin crew for a UK based airline, I have been told by friends that part of the inital cabin crew training does involve some sort of self-defence and I have heard that a lot of gay men are cabin crew – I dont think in the least that gay men being cabin crew is any more stereotypical than lesbians being airline pilots….and that reminds me, the last bastion of homophobia is on the flight deck – how many openly gay men do you know are Captains or First Officers with any airline, US or otherwise….? this interests me as I have always wanted to become an airline pilot but had I applied to an airline and said that I was openly gay, my chances of getting into a European carrier would have been virtually zero, even less so with the likes of airlines in the Middle East…and as for the air forces…forget that – now I’m older I’m going for cabin crew positions and hope to study for my private pilots licence in the US or the UK with a view to securing a First Officer position with any airline – indeed as I will be doing long haul routes from the UK with British Airways from London Heathrow (BA – LHR), I very well may visit many US cities as cabin crew, as I am about to start the long application proccess

  25. Michael John Dennis, like I predicted, you will be utterly incapable of grasping what it was that you said, that set me off.. I am sooooo not surprised. As is the case with all leftist, the self serving convenience of your ignorance is predictable.. You see, the cornerstone of Liberalism, at least modern day Liberalism as practiced by the Leftist/Progressives/Marxist/Statist.. and Useful Idiots of the Left..(like YOU).. is that all Leftist MUST do whatever is required to remain WILLFULLY IGNORANT of Truth, Facts, History and especially to remain unaware and uninformed of the verifiable disastrous results of Leftist ideas.

    The fact that you think nothing about calling the police to have someone arrested because you were offended by that person’s SPEECH.. is so alien to most Americans.. that it simply leaves most of us speechless and scratching our heads.. trying to understand how you leftist creeps could have allowed yourselves to be so easily reduced to such sub human levels.. to be used by the state as a tool for tyranny is a mystery I will never grasp. Here is what I know: The Truth will set you free… Ignore the Truth and eventually it will always bite you in the ass. It is fucking impossible to be a Leftist and remain true to yourself or your ideals.. UNLESS YOU WILLFULLY IGNORE the history of the world.

    Once you face those facts, especially the facts that demonstrate the uncomfortable reality that ALL LEFTIST governments, programs and ideals forced upon humanity since the beginning of time.. have always ended in disasters.. often bloody, oppressive and hideous.. On That Day.. you will stop believing in the foolishness of the Left.

    You want examples.. I could write for years and give you examples of nothing but.. immense and horrific failures of Leftist ideology.. an ideology only made possible by the Useful unaware Idiots such as yourself. Your kind is always so anxious to justify your imaginary right to toss in prison anyone that dares to hurt your feelings.. not someone that injured you.. nor attacked you.. nor killed you.. nor even touched you.. but simply called you a name.. a faggot. An action you describe as a Hate Crime.. because if no physical injury was fostered upon you.. you still have accepted the mindless concept that an unapproved thought has occurred because it was after all.. hateful. True enough, a hateful thought may have occurred.. but non-the-less, it was still nothing but a thought.

    You will never grasp that the act of making thought a crime.. is itself The Crime.. Got it? It’s NOT the thought that is the crime.. It’s the idea that the government can employ snitches and useful idiots like you.. to commit a crime against humanity.. is where you will find the true crime. You think nothing of justifying your actions thru intimidation, threats and the jailing another human. And why? Well according to you, it’s OK because the EU passed the law.. and you are only obeying the law aren’t you? You make me want to vomit. It was your kind of brain dead busy-body mindset that had no problemo with reporting to the church his suspicions that the old lady next door was a Witch.. having her arrested and burned at the stake.. Or justified owning slaves because the government said it is just fine to own a human.. You are the perfect example of what Stalin was talking about when he properly and accurately called your types.. USEFUL IDIOTS. The Nazi’s trained school children to report their parents for expressing attitudes not approved by the government.. by the SS. The trail of misery fostered on mankind by the tyrants of the world was made possible and was paved in gold.. by your type.. the willing.. the intellectually lazy.. the true haters.. the Willfully ignorant.. the slow minded, easily excitable and envious little pieces of shit.. such as you. You and Your mindset have enabled more than anything else those forces that have done nothing but harm the spirit of free men.. and kill the spirit of Freedom. A Spirit btw, that long ago left the formerly great Britain.
    Yep, I am sooooo not surprised that you just don’t get it.. And as long as you remain willfully ignorant.. you never will.

  26. DW, Hello from Manchester England UK – As website Admin, you really need to find some way of moderating the comments posted on here, especially where abusive language and insulting, offensive content is present – I have now recieved 2 very agressive, personally insulting and abusive reactions on this board from “Jack” and he really needs to calm himself down and modify his language and (clearly) his anti-social behaviour and comments, which here in the UK under English law would be unacceptable and further, would deny him an entry visa to the UK, perhaps even involving being detained at a Guest of Her Majesty’s Pleasure in HMP Wormwood Scrubs after an appearance at The Old Bailey – he really needs to wake up and grow up & accept the reality of life here in the UK – has he not heard that since 9/11 & 7/7 life is ever more difficult for all of us & that comments like his make it even more difficult…? if he does not like it then I suggest that he not visit any member state of the European Union…? his human rights will not be protected outside the EU, including in America – I’m all for free speech and freedom of expression but not where such comments incite hatred – if he talked like this here in the UK he would be arrested and I dare say that human rights for gays do not exist (I am very surprised by this) in any real form in the USA, in (some..?) US states..? in parity with the kind of protections that we have here in the UK – he seems to be suggesting that homophobic comments do not lead to homophobic attacks but the reality is that the former cause as much damage as the other and do in reality lead to the other…is he therefore saying that it is OK to call people “faggots”…?

    His comments amount to the practice on the internet known as “flaming” which need to stop and this is why the web needs to be policed so much these days post 9/11 & post 7/7 – for all we know, he might not be gay at all, but some Muslim fanatic using an open blog to vent his bile against gays in some form of Jihad – I have several gay friends from Muslim countries, including Iran & Pakistan, who had to flee for thier lives simply for being gay where they could never flee to the protection of the US of A and so the came to the UK for Asylum because they could have been hanged by an Islamic Sharia Court where being gay is Haram (a crime) – he says America is a great country and so much freedom – after looking around the web I am starting to think less so since 9/11 & since 7/7 and am ever more grateful to live in a democratic and free society here in the UK under the EU – and why is it so wrong to report someone for making abusive homophobic comments – I ask that his IP Address be traced and logged and that his ISP be informed of the abuses that have occurred from his user account, because his comments amount to a matter of US national security and possible breaches thereof, I also ask the relevant Police and the FBI to have him fully investigated because something is seriously amiss here, where I also suspect that this guy may also have mental health issues

    I have never stated whether or not I support the left or right politically because this is not at issue – but any merit in Jacks comments are destroyed by the general uncivilised and anti-social tone of them

  27. My God Michael John Dennis.. you are so much fun. How sad it must be, to be inside your head.. Almost makes me sad.. but then, not really. It does make me extremely happy that it is you and not me that must spend so much time rattling around inside that black mess between your ears. Oh God that must be awful. Anyway I have much to say about your call for law enforcement to take me off to the ovens.. and I will later this day expand on your call for even more tyrannical forces.. Trust me Michael John Dennis I cannot wait.. But until then, my time is way too valuable since I gainfully employ myself throughout the day.. and I must restrict myself to this short retort to your completely predictable call for the powers of the state to be brought down upon me.. So until then I am going to leave you with this lil homework assignment.. Everything you just called for, fits exactly what I described your type has always done and will always do.. in my posting from last night. You go back and re-read it Mr. Dennis.. Try to find for me any falsehood.. Any thing at all that was not true.. be specific OK? Stop with the generalizations already. You want to be taken seriously? Grow up little boy.. stop crying to your mommy (the tyrants of the police state).. that someone called you a name. Grow a set boy. Show me you have some sense of balance and justice.. Of course we both know that’s never going to happen. But at least go thru the motion and read my words again.. You will see how right I am in describing you and your mindset.. in predicting what the actions of those like you.. have always been.. and what they will always be. With your last post, you simply proved my point, (again). Your words and your thoughts are the real enemy.. not just to civilized men.. but to your uncivilized self. I’m going to demonstrate that later. Till then, don’t look in any mirrors Dennis..

    You know it always hurts.

  28. OPEN MESSAGE TO JACK – WHATEVER THE MERITS OR OTHERWISE OF YOUR ARGUMENTS YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOU GET PEOPLE’S BACKS UP BY YOUR INCIVILITY AND BY YOUR PLAIN RUDENESS, YOUR RUDE, AGGRESSIVE AND ABUSIVE TONE OF YOUR POSTS ON HERE – I POINT BLANK REFUSE TO SEE ANY POINTS MADE BY A PERSON WHO DELIVERS SAME IN A RUDE, AGGRESSIVE AND ABUSIVE MANNER – YOU NEED TO MODIFY YOUR LANGUAGE, YOUR SWEARING, YOUR OFFENSIVE COMMENTS – YOU NEED TO CALM YOURSELF DOWN AND DELIVER THEM IN A POLITE MANNER, FOR IT COSTS NOTHING TO BE POLITE IN THE FACE OF WHAT YOU MAY SEE AS ADVERSITY – MY LATE MOTHER IN MY NATIVE COUNTY MEATH IN THE REPUBLIC OF IRELAND (WHO DIED IN JUNE 2009) – AND YES, I AM AN IRISH GAY MAN OF 39 – IRISH, GAY AND PROUD OF BOTH, RAISED A ROMAN CATHOLIC WHERE BEING GAY WAS A NO-NO IN RURAL IRELAND – IT IS INDEED YOU THAT NEED TO GROW UP – IT IS YOU THAT LACK THE REQUIRED LEVEL OF COMMON SENSE AND MATURITY AS AN ADULT AND PART OF THIS IS TO BE CIVIL AND POLITE TO OTHERS WHICH YOU CLEARLY DO NOT HAVE AS CLEARLY DEMONSTRATED BY YOUR RANTINGS WHICH POINT TO THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES IF THAT IS THE ONLY WAY THAT YOU CAN RELATE TO OTHERS – AND IT IS YOU WHO WILL NOT BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY WHEN YOU CANNOT PUT FORWARD YOUR ARGUMENTS IN A CIVILISED AND POLITE WAY

  29. JACK PLEASE LEARN SOME MANNERS – IT COSTS NOTHING TO HAVE SOME MANNERS AND TO BE POLITE- MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME THAT

  30. The ease with which Hitler was able to march 6 million Jews, suitcases in hand.. hat in hand.. quietly, peacefully and un-complaining.. was because those 6 million Jews for the most part.. with nearly zero exceptions.. reacted politely to the Gestapo.. There was NO In-your-face Rude behavior on the part of the Jews.. they went politely.. and civilly.. like perfect little sheep to the slaughter..

    The Americans on the other hand.. gave the Red Coats and King George a very RUDE IN-YOUR-FACE response to his attempt at forcing Americans to modify our rude language.. and our anti-social behavior..” We gave those Red=Coats an extremely Rude reply to such demands.. and the world knows how well it turned out.. Thank God the free thinking Americans knew that a RUDE reply is the only legitimate response to Rude Tyrants..

    Now comes some bag of human waste from the formerly Great, great Britain rudely barging into a group discussion about how to reply to being called a Faggot.. with an opening statement that someone should call the police… have him investigated and arrested. wha? Are you kidding me? Some Thug from the UK thinks nothing about tossing out such radical solutions because someone might be called a name? I don’t think so dude.. So I put you in your place.. and what do you do? You fucking issue a Fatwa!! Ordering an attack upon not just me.. but upon our still free Internet.. calling for the web to be FUCKING “POLICED”!!! using the force of government THUGS to RUDELY hunt me down.. calling for the FBI.. and the EU.. to go after those like me.. and RUDELY CRUSH THOSE LIKE ME.. and why? Why because he doesn’t want to be called a name.. oh poor baby.. poor, poor baby.. wha, wha, wha..

    So in Mr. MICHAEL JOHN DENNIS’s.. Fatwa.. he demands that my IP address be RUDELY traced.. that my ISP be informed of his perceived abuses on my user account.. because.. oh this is good.. God I can barely get this next line out.. because my comments amount to “A MATTER OF U.S. NATIONAL SECURITY” wha?

    You go girl!

    My oh my and you tell me to calm down? Your Fatwa demands the “relevant police” (that would be your RUDE Thugs acting on your behalf).. come and get me! You claim that I.. a gay man.. “made abusive homophobic comments” Really? Do tell? I think if you look carefully MORON.. you will see that my abusive comments were never directed to your sexuality.. Nope.. didn’t happen.. In fact if you were smart enough to know what you don’t know.. you would then know that prior to your rude invasion of our conversation.. I had stated that when a gay man is called a faggot.. he should reply with, “how are you going to explain to your momma how you got beat up by a faggot” it’s a matter of record.. go read it moron. My verbal attacks on you were entirely based on your utter stupidity.. and your utter Rude comments that we should employ your beloved Thought Police to go after those engaging in what you call hate speech.. Of course using government thugs is just fine and dandy with you.. dispatching the vocal abuser to prison.. is just hunky dory.. with you. My well justifiable rude reaction to you was directed toward your intellectual bankruptcy and corrupted thought process.. Your utterly ignorant knowledge of the proper use of government is demonstrated by your suggestion that the FBI should investigate “FULLY”.. ME! because “something is seriously amiss here.. and you suspect I may have mental issues”..

    Yep.. you are right about one thing.. something is seriously amiss here.. no doubt about it. Let’s take a close look:

    I really don’t know whether to laugh or cry..
    wait.. wait.. yes I do know..
    HA HA HA.. HARDY HAR HAR HAR!!!
    It is so great to be free from the little small minded tyrannical oriented thugs such as yourself. Yes indeed it is a wonderful feeling to be a free man and not have to worry about the thugs elsewhere in the world that have done and would do so many RUDE PHYSICAL HURTFUL THINGS (like tossing them in prison), TO OTHERS.. in the name OF STOPPING RUDE SPEECH.

    Let me say that another way..
    In the name of stopping Rude speech.
    Employing BRUTE Force.. is perfectly acceptable..

    Mister Dennis.. you sir are one hell of a messed up mass of confused emotions.. You sir are perhaps the most ignorant human I have ever encountered in my life.. and oh I have encountered some really stupid people.. But You are a colossal Jewel of Ignorance.. You win the prize for the Goombaa of the century.. You have managed to bring the art of Victim-hood to a level few dead beats could ever hope to achieve.. I could write for years about your unbelievable Inability to use logic.. make observations.. reason.. on any and every level possible.. for example:

    You claim that only in the EU do I have human rights.. yet in the same breath.. that I would be arrested by the thought police in the EU. But in America where we don’t (yet) have the Thought Police.. I don’t have Human Rights..
    Is that so?
    You really need a nap don’t you?
    Just Daayum..

    Moreover, in your rage over my thoughts.. accusing me of hate speech.. You casually and ever so easily allowed yourself to slip into a vile and RUDE attack upon those poor Muslims that only want to execute gay people as part of their religion.. simply because those sweet muslims like to practice hunting down gay men.. and then kill them.. using Shira law to justify it.. and you come along engaging in RUDE HATE SPEECH belittling that religious practice.. How Rude of You Mr. Michael John Dennis!! How dare you engage in such HATE SPEECH!! I know for a fact your behavior is illegal in the UK.. yes, Mister Dennis.. perhaps it is you that should be thrown in a prison for YOUR ATTACK ON THE RELIGION OF PEACE.. Perhaps it is You the EU should investigate.. perhaps it is your IP that should be traced.. and YOUR ISP notified about You being such a threat to National Security.. how dare you attack those peaceful Islamist.. all they do is kill gay people.. How do you justify your Rude Hate speech toward them? Humm? Humm? I’m waiting for that response MORON. I’m looking forward to you turning yourself in to the Thought Police.. Yes the VERY SAME THOUGHT POLICE you support so enthusiastically.. It’s only right don’t ya think? You even suggested that I may be, “A Muslim fanatic using an open blog to vent his bile against gays in some form of Jihad – “How dare you!! How can you sleep at night knowing you have rudely insulted me by suggesting I may be a Muslim.. or the Muslim by suggesting that Muslims are fanantics.. Yep, that’s a clear case of Hate Speech if I ever saw one.

    As far as your disclaimer that you do not need to state whether you are a full blown leftist.. Ha! HARDY HAR HAR… DENY all you want that you are a Lefty Marxist.. Claim that it “is not an issue” but I’m here again to set the record straight.. and I do hear-by DEEECLARE that you are not only a USEFUL IDIOT OF THE LEFT.. but you are a full blown certified Statist.. and LEFTIST..

    oh yes you are.. And of course you deny it.. but buddy… ONLY THE LEFT USES GOVERNMENT THUGGERY to enforce it’s policies.. Worldwide.. Only the LEFT employ Thought Police.. Only the LEFT dismiss perfectly made arguments that defend Free Speech or Liberty.. based upon the “TONE” of the argument.. Screw the logic.. Screw the facts.. Screw the history.. Screw all Free men.. if they don’t use the right “tone”.. which is always defined by the left. then you get to claim that you will simply refuse to see any points made.. no matter what. Ha!! Ha Ha Ha!

    HOW FUCKING CONVENIENT!!!

    You and I both know, there is no proper tone nor proper delivery of words that would ever change your mind about all the things you must remain willfully ignorant about.. YOU ARE A RUDE THUG Dude.. and mostly you are a classic passive aggressive BULLY.. and as all the world knows.. all BULLIES are cowards at heart.. and the only way to handle a Bully.. is to rudely get right back in his face..

    How ya like them apples?

    Now a word of advice.. try to learn how to use Spell Check.. Get yourself some book learning.. read “1984″ and “Animal Farm”.. see if you can find someone to teach you how to write a sentence. Running all your sentences together.. is torture for those trying to follow your psychopathic mumblings and thoughts.. Damn I’d rather be water boarded than to have to read much more of your drivel.. Yet on the other hand, you do make it easy to rub your nose in the crap that oozes from that dark place between your ears..

    God Bless America!
    God Bless Free Speech!!

  31. I think its funny..i think some guys need to take their thumbs out of their mouths and toughen up. are we mice or men? My goodness..let Jack speak..you think hes rude just ignore him…

  32. No way – homophobic attitudes in all their many forms must always be robustly challenged – how about the bombing of the Admiral Duncan Gay Bar in London, UK in which several gay men were killed – one thing leads to another – people like Jack only seek to continue the very thing that we as gay people need to combat in our community, because thoughts lead to attitudes and attitudes lead to mindsets and actions of gay bashing and homophobic attacks – ask Manchester City Council and the many gay people who have come to the UK to escape homophobic hate crime and in my case I had to leave my native Ireland to escape intolerance towards my sexual orientation where I feel protected…Thank God for Manchester and the UK’s anti-gay hate laws – obviously Jack does not like the UK and I can assure you he would get very short shrift from British & Irish gay men if he vented his bile here in the UK….I totally reject all of his arguments as complete nonsense, he is totally without any common sense nor maturity….and I as an Irish gay man will not stay silent on this, I am not afraid to say what I think, with knob-heads like him….and if you agree with him you too are a complete TWAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  33. My Momma taught me to be a man..
    and if a school yard bully tries any crap
    to rub his nose in that crap..
    kinds like I do so easily with you..
    You see, I love my Momma..

  34. OMG a TWAT you say!! Oh Lord have mercy!
    And not just a TWAT, but a complete TWAT!!
    Oh my, oh my, oh my.. whatever are we to do?
    BTW, Twat is a Twat?

    Ha Ha Ha.. Hardy Har Har Har.. you are good for something Michael John Dennis.. a good laugh..HA!

    But I must point out.. it does sound a bit like you AGAIN are engaging in vile Hate Speech.. this time, lashing out at Gay men.. who’s only crime is to disagree with you.. calling them Complete TWATS of all things!!

    Yes apparently if someone disagrees with you that we should “robustly” use the Brute Force of the government to spy upon.. police, pursue, hunt down and JAIL HUMANS.. and that it’s a good thing to do so.. and daring to disagree with you.. is TWAT LIKE.. even though it is a bit over the line.. for the crime of merely exercising free speech..

    Freedom Loving Gay men..
    Are
    Now
    TWATS!!

    At least you are coming around and adopting the proper stance by claiming “you will not remain silent on this and will always speak your mind” Do Tell. But only YOU get to do that right? I thought you were against folks speaking there minds? You clearly are against the use of Speech.. if it is hateful.. yet you do so.. just a bit too easily don’t you?

    Hmmm.

    Of course we all know why you feel so free to do what you forbid others to do. It’s that in your mind.. you are one of the special elitist protected class.. like the Pigs on “Animal Farm,” claiming that all animals are equal.. but some animals are more equal than others..

    Gotcha..

    All those “improper attitudes” that you and your thought police must stomp out and “combat”.. because as you say, “THOUGHTS LEAD TO ATTITUDES AND ATTITUDES LEAD TO MINDSETS AND ACTIONS OF GAY BASHING AND HOMOPHOBIC ATTACKS..” so the root of the problem always comes back to The Thoughts.. meaning you must employ those beloved Thought Police.. keep them busy and always out hunting down bad attitudes.. and do so.. “robustly”.

    Oh speaking of which..

    Have you turned yourself in yet to the Hate Crime commission and reported your hateful thoughts and Hate Speech regarding the Muslims, (as posted here)? Are you giving yourself a pass after you incited violence toward young Muslim Men? Come on now Michael John Dennis.. Man up.. turn yourself in.. You know it’s a Hate Crime in the UK, to think or say those things you POSTED ON THIS BLOG!! Your intolerance toward a religion of Peace should be examined.. “robustly”!
    Isn’t that what you proposed right here?

    I assume you have not done so because they won’t let you have a computer in Prison..

    I’m so disappointed Michael John Dennis..
    bashing gay men.. calling them Twats.. inciting so much violence towards them.. and towards the peaceful Muslims..

    Who’s next Moron? Let me guess.. pretty much anyone that does not fall in line with your views and blessings of oppressive government activity?

    Lots of TWATS out here Michael John Dennis…
    And simply knowing that you don’t like TWATS..
    and that you are vigorously out there inciting bad attitudes toward me and my fellow TWATS..

    Makes me want to TAKE A STAND.. and
    Proudly proclaim my TWAT-hood…

  35. Jack….shut up and get a life…bloody hell, you really have some issues mate, you are a really sad bastard, a real waste of space – do not come to the UK – you would never even get a tourist visa – btw & fyi I dont want to visit the US either – you Americans talk rubbish…stupid Americans, which is obviously predictable garbage as per usual – and yes, I am proud to be working class and a socialist…At least New Labour gave us the freedoms that the Tories, even under Maggie Thatcher never gave us, because it was under the Tories the we had Section 28 – wise up and grow up – what you say about me you are saying about yourself so PLEASE – SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  36. THAT APPLIES TO YOU JACK YOU WASTE OF SPACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  37. SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU SAD BASTARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  38. My oh My.. don’t we just hate not being able to control free thought and free speech? It is a major issue with you isn’t it Michael John Dennis? You poor thing.. Can’t make those rascally Yanks shut up from the darkness of your Socialist pea brain.. What a burden you bear.. Sorry I can’t help relieve you.. but good news.. I can make it a heavier burden! Yes I can!! Oh yes I can!!

    Being such a proud little brain dead Socialist such as yourself.. have you ever thought to look at the track record of Socialist governments with regards to how they treat Gay men and women? Huh? Huh? I bet not.

    Lets start off with Adolph Hitler.. You remember him don’t you? Head of the NAZI party. Do you know that the word NAZI is the German abbreviation for these words:

    NATIONAL SOCIALIST WORKERS PARTY!!

    Hmm. Hmmm. Wait there’s more.. Did you ever wear that lil pink triangle on Pride day? You know which one I’m talking about.. Do you know it’s origination? Yep.. it was the demeaning mark imposed upon Gay men and women.. who were forced to wear that cute lil pink triangle on their sleeves.. so they could be identified not just by everyone they encountered in public.. for the purposes of INCITING VIOLENCE AGAINST THEM.. and making being Gay even harder than you think you have it now.. They had to wear it wherever they went.. or often.. wherever they were sent to.. Like prison.. or concentration camps.. or Ovens.. to explode like the little combustible and fragile humans that we all are.. Yes, the NAZI’s considered Gays to be like Jews.. the lesser animals of the Animal Farm of NAZI Germany. Yep.. good ole Adolph.. JUST LIKE YOU.. didn’t think twice about throwing folks in prison.. a proud lil Socialist he was.. Don’t believe it? Of course being Willfully Ignorant.. you don’t. Well check out any of his many ranting speeches and you will hear him praise the beauty of National Socialism about every 5 minutes or so.. Congratulations to you both. Proud lil Socialist that you both are..

    Now if that doesn’t warm you up a bit, check out the State Policies toward Gays in all those wonderful Socialist countries.. like.. North Korea.. The former USSR.. which stands for: THE UNION OF SOVIET SOCIALIST REPUBLICS.. or in China.. THE SOCIALIST PEOPLES PARTY.. or Vietnam under Ho Chi Minh.. Cuba, Uganda, Cambodia.. (The Killing Fields).. and pretty much 100% of all 3rd World Socialist countries that ever existed or will ever exist.. and 100% of all official Muslim Countries.. which in practice is essentially Socialism on Steroids.. Non of which are Gay Friendly.. as you yourself have pointed out..

    Which reminds me.. have you turned yourself in to the Hate Speech Commission yet? You know, Michael John Dennis.. for your postings here.. in clear violation of the Hate Speech laws of the UK.. the ones you love soooo much.. the ones where YOU are inciting violence by using Hate Speech against those peace loving Socialist Muslims? You going to ever Man up on that? HA!

    Just wondering..

    And for the record.. I’ve been to the UK at least a dozen times.. it is so depressing to see how the Socialist have destroyed that country.. trust me.. You couldn’t pay me enough to want to go there again.. and talk about boring.. OMG zzzzzzzzzz.. zzzzzzzzzzzzz.

    oh.. oh, oh.. wait. wait.. one more lil tidbit for you Michael John Dennis.. Since I live rent free inside your stinky head.. I might as well take one more opportunity to educate you.. even though I know you will Never grasp the obvious.. I just can’t help myself..

    Here goes.. In the land of The Free.. That would be America. We have The Bill of Rights.. it is the first ten amendments to the greatest document ever written by man.. and it insures not just Human Rights.. but specifically lays out what the government CANNOT DO to it’s citizens.. The entire Constitution does that in many ways, but the Bill of Rights are the most important listings, giving the specifics of individual protections We The People have FROM the government.. You know what the First of those Ten Amendments are?

    It’s known here as (duh) The First Amendment.. and it establishes the right to Free Speech.. but did you know that it is NOT polite, acceptable or civil speech that it protects.. because “acceptable” speech.. doesn’t need protection.. NOPE! The First Amendment protects the Un-Acceptable Speech.. The UN-Civil Speech.. the Dissenting Speech.. And the Un-Polite Speech of it’s citizens.. Or in a nutshell, The kind of Speech the Monsters, Tyrants and Socialist of the world typically imprison folks for..

    kinda like what you are just itching to do to us..

    but can’t..

    Oh God how I love rubbing your nose in your own shit..
    Bring it on Baby..
    TWAT out..

  39. The socialist have totally f@$:ed up Europe. Love when
    guys trash America their freedom came from America.
    I was born and raised in Europe and even I know this. No body likes the big dog!!!! Oh well funny watching you guys fight!!! Funny shit

  40. Thank you Davide! You are correct. The Socialist have totally fucked up Europe.. but since Socialism tends to attract the lazy, mean spirited, unthinking types.. and all of the Useful Idiots of the world.. None of them are capable or willing to own up to that reality.. They wouldn’t have a clue about cause and effect, End Results or the law of un-intended consequences. Oh no.. That type of factual input only makes the Willfully Ignorant Useful Idiots tend to implode.. as demonstrated here by MJD..

    And yes it truly is fun..
    Poetic Justice always is..

  41. There are so many groups in society who think they are at the top of the human tree because of their faith, status, sexuality, gender and a strange thing called “breeding” (which I think sometimes has the pre-fix “in”). When you flip that coin you realise that it is such a sense of ones own importance that leads to so many being tormented for their faith, status, sexuality, gender ….. we are reallyt dealing with insecurity here.
    Some people aspire to join particular groups and once” in” think they have arrived. The paradox being that what gives us a sense of belonging can also be the very thing that leads to our seperation from others no less human than we are.

  42. Not to mention colour, throw in a bit of a chance to make some cash too & you’ve covered the causes of all wars & hatred the world over from time immemorial

  43. Free society doesn’t mean freedom to hurt others whose identity, culture, ability, gender, belief or sexuality differs from our own. If we don’t see freedom as rooted in responsibility, we forfeit our freedom & should be taken out of society. Not punished, but supported to work out our issues that impinge on the freedom of society itself, then welcomed back when we can love ourselves & value others

  44. You are simply incapable of uttering a single syllable without spewing psycho-babble aren’t you Michael John Dennis? Years of shutting out reality will do that to you, ya know.. What you are describing is found ONLY in the most oppressive places the world has ever known.. a scheme concocted by Socialist Monsters.. and used as a tool of the state to crush opposition, political dissent.. to correct the thoughts of those that refuse to march in lock step with the tyrants.. those that dare to speak truth.. or ask embarrassing questions.. and in general to instill oppressive levels of FEAR upon the masses.. Those places are called RE-EDUCATION CAMPS by the monsters that employ them.. and the USEFUL IDIOTS of the world.. such as yourself, gleefully endorse and give the green light to such tyranny. Intelligent people call those Useful Idiots ENABLERS.. because that is exactly what you are.. all they have to do is tell the Useful Idiots that this is for the children.. or the old.. or the sick.. or the in-firmed.. or the down trodden.. or the poor.. or to punish the greedy wealthy.. and each and every time.. as long as those magic words are used.. the ENABLERS.. ENABLE. Never question.. Never opposing.. Never standing in the way of tyranny.. Only the simple minded morons of the world like you.. are incapable of seeing the history and track record and predictable results of such monstrosities. You are as guilty of oppression throughout the world as those that employ your colossal ignorance to achieve it..

    Aren’t you just so proud to be a tool of Thugs.. making their Brutality so easy.. reporting your neighbors like good little Germans.. like calling for policing of the means of communications.. like you do with the internet.. standing there in your elitist suit of snobbery.. looking down on all that dare to speak freely.. helping out with the investigations of those needing to be investigated.. secretly listening in to any anti-social comments.. reporting them.. demanding their arrest and imprisonment.. and spewing your Psycho-Babble.. like some parrot mouthing pretty words.. You make me sick.. You make me want to vomit..

    And btw I’m still waiting to hear that you have turned yourself into your beloved Hate Speech commission..
    for inciting violence towards the poor peace loving Muslims.. in this very blog.. or can we assume that those laws don’t apply to you.. even as you force them upon the rest of us?

    How is that going.. Michael John Dennis?

  45. You are such an Ignoramus.. Michael John Dennis!

    Color? or “throw in a bit of a chance to make some cash.. and you’ve covered the cause of all war and hatred the world over from time immemorial” ????

    WTF are you smoking?

    I’m about to educate you, (AGAIN).. so pay attention..

    News Flash Moron!!

    It is the LUST for NAKED POWER.. SOLELY for the sake of POWER that the Thugs and gangs of Thugs roaming this planet from time immemorial.. that have been the cause of War, generating Hatred in their wake.. for THEIR BRUTALITY.. those Power-seekers.. those tyrants, those busy bodies schooled in the art of Nannyism.. (like you).. have more than anything else caused wars.. and hate.. since the beginning of time.. Thugs that have always sought to kill and steal and control any and all of those of us that for the most part were just minding our own business.. wanting to be left alone.. but those like you and those you support have instilled a justifiable hatred in Free Men.. when your Socialist Thugs like Hitler.. and Mao.. and the bombs from the Japanese Empire.. came goose stepping into our lives.. producing a justifiable and healthy hatred in their wake. For when Thugs decide to kill you and your family and fellow country men.. so they may seize and control us.. Hatred is what we feel.. and all humans should feel.. What you may call anti-social behavior.. is in truth the proper response to those thugs… and that IS WAR..

    When the Thugs leave us with no alternatives.. then Thank God for the ability to engage in War.. And guess what Michael John Dennis.. WAR often brings about very good things..

    A few examples:

    The war against your KING George, ended British Tyranny with the birth of The Revolutionary War giving way to a country founded in Liberty.. America.

    And from the Civil War in America.. came the end of Slavery..

    From WW II came the defeat of the NAZI’s, aka the NATIONAL SOCIALIST of the German state.. and the Imperialist Japanese.. and Mussolini.. Giving back to Europe.. it’s Freedom. Which most you guys have only accepted grudgingly and squandered like the out of control brain dead Socialist, pacifist fools and ingrates that you have become..

    And to the Pacifist lurking inside you..
    Michael John Dennis..

    Take a lesson from the proper use of War:

    Peace ALWAYS follows Victory..

  46. Oh and I must offer one more observation Michael John Dennis.. I noticed that in several of your postings you employed the use of ALL CAPS FOR EVERY WORD.. telling me TO SHUT UP!! a number of times.. as you know ALL CAPS for ALL WORDS.. symbolizes SHOUTING!.. but in the form of writing. And it has reminded me as to why I am grateful for the opportunity to have this dialog via DW’s blog and in other venues in the written form. Because were I to be face to face with you and/or any of the Leftist that march in lock step with your brain dead moronic philosophical and political positions.. You know and I know how that would end.. exactly as you have demonstrated here not just in your thoughts.. but when you employ ALL CAPS FOR EVERY WORD..

    I would be SHOUTED DOWN.. in a face to face discussion.. and not allowed to speak or be heard above the screaming mob of non thinking Useful Idiots.. like you. It’s a tool only employed by the Left and can be observed in places where the Leftist Hordes are typically found.. like college Campi..
    or at Leftist rent-a-mob street demonstrations.
    Because when the argument is lost.. SHOUTING DOWN all reasoned and factual thought is how you are able to remain Willfully Ignorant.. prevent the truth from emerging.. and allows you to continue Emoting.. (feeling good about things Thought would otherwise not permit).. It’s the Prime Directive of all Useful Idiots..

    It is the accepted norm of the Intolerant Left.

    And oh yes.. oh yes, oh yes.. I’m sure you can tell how much I love taking away your ability to SHOUT ME DOWN.. A Love only matched by how much you Hate.. not being able to SHUT ME UP!!

    It’s a beautiful thing to observe the frustration of a Useful Idiot of the Left.. Screaming and acting out.. that pitiful urge to Bully others and to control free thought.. and free speech.. It nearly makes you guys insane not being able to have your way with us.. as you attempt to exercise your ever present Intolerance and urge to control others.

    And I am soooooo grateful that you have helped to clearly demonstrate IN YOUR OWN WORDS.. that Intolerance and that tendency to be the Bully that hides behind your thin disguise..

  47. I say “No, I’m Fagay,” it’s a word I came up with to mean ‘happy homosexual.’ Even though I myself am bi.

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